This guy and I like each other and one of our conversations came to why he
doesn't want to go out with me. He said that he had just gotten out of a
relationship and doesn't want another one right now. But that was four months ago
and they had been broken up for two months prior to the conversation. I really
really like him but I'm also tired of waiting. What should I do?
Be careful not to read too much into this, babe. There are quite a lot of factors that come into play during these situations. It’s very possible that he was not lying and that the breakup hit him
hard. How much time a guy needs before
he can move on properly varies incredibly. Some guys are good to go three weeks later, some need three months. Often, if the boy is holding on to the relationship, he simply won’t want to
move on and he’d rather wait for his ex-girlfriend to be his again. That’s one possibility.
Another is that there are mixed signals somewhere between you
two. If he does, in fact, like you, then
why is he putting off being with you? Ask yourself this question: Do you know for sure that he shares your
feelings? If he’s not sure how he feels about you, then honestly
girlie, he doesn’t deserve you. You should
never, ever put your life on hold for a boy who might be forever on the fence. Sure, this guy might be great, but there's no sense in waiting if there's no guaranteed future for you two.
If he can’t make a decision, then you make it
for him and find one who will truly appreciate all that he’s got in having you
affections. Good luck, girl!
BY JORDAN SARNOVSKY ON 4/7/2012 12:00:00 AM
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