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How long should I wait for my crush?



This guy and I like each other and one of our conversations came to why he doesn't want to go out with me. He said that he had just gotten out of a relationship and doesn't want another one right now. But that was four months ago and they had been broken up for two months prior to the conversation. I really really like him but I'm also tired of waiting. What should I do?

Be careful not to read too much into this, babe. There are quite a lot of factors that come into play during these situations. It’s very possible that he was not lying and that the breakup hit him hard. How much time a guy needs before he can move on properly varies incredibly. Some guys are good to go three weeks later, some need three months. Often, if the boy is holding on to the relationship, he simply won’t want to move on and he’d rather wait for his ex-girlfriend to be his again. That’s one possibility.
 
Another is that there are mixed signals somewhere between you two. If he does, in fact, like you, then why is he putting off being with you? Ask yourself this question: Do you know for sure that he shares your feelings? If he’s not sure how he feels about you, then honestly girlie, he doesn’t deserve you. You should never, ever put your life on hold for a boy who might be forever on the fence. Sure, this guy might be great, but there's no sense in waiting if there's no guaranteed future for you two.
 
If he can’t make a decision, then you make it for him and find one who will truly appreciate all that he’s got in having you affections. Good luck, girl!
 
 

BY JORDAN SARNOVSKY ON 4/7/2012 12:00:00 AM

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MOD MOD MOD MOD ! The guy I like is always staring at me and when I try to talk to him he always smiles dose this mean he likes me or???

 

Hey hun, these are all great signs but try talkin to him first so you can really see if the chemistry is there. If your not sure how to chat him up try these tips

Jenn S.

by Music lover 155 on 12/6/2012 10:05:54 PM

 
 

Hey British-IrishBoybands<3, check out these articles for tips on flirting, I think they’ll help.
http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/06/01/Hook-a-hottie-How-to-play-it-cool.aspx
http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/04/09/Yes-More-insight-into-the-male-mind.aspx
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by Lynae P. on 7/14/2012 4:22:45 PM

 
 

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So there's this guy I like, and he's going to be a senior next year and I'm going to be a sophomore. He's in band and I'm on their color guard so I see him when we have parades or events to go to. He talked to me once or twice, but it wasnt like a conversation or anything, but I'm not like a total stranger to him and when I'd walk through the halls at school and he walked by i noticed he would look at me for a few seconds, even when I looked at him. Do u have any ideas of ways I could try to become friends with him, or at least talk to him more and get him to notice me without seein it as I'm being pushy or obsessive? I would love for him to think of me down the line as a possible gf or at least close friend, but I'm stuck. Anything would be great, thanks!!

by British-IrishBoybands<3 on 7/14/2012 4:12:51 PM

 
 



MODMODMOD!!!!!!!!
I like this guy and people tell me he likes me. So see him and one of my close friends used to date. But they ended so, now that they ended hes been looking into my eyes and like now wanting to let go of the eye contact. He calls me cute and pretty. He gets worried when i start crying or get upset. And hes protective. But after all that him and my close friend go out again but end it quickly. Does he like me or is he being a player? O.O




Hey girlie,

It sounds like he might like you, but how long did they date? And how long did he wait after the breakup before starting to flirt with you? If he seems like he jumped from her to you, that's a little suspicious. But if he took some time to be single and now just wants to move on, then that's normal. If you like him, talk to him and try to get to know him better. Don't get distracted by the flirting though - enjoy it, but don't let it get to your head. Keep your common sense and if he seems like he's trying to be smooth or just trying to "win" you over, he might just be playing you. But if he seems genuinely concerned about you (like when you get upset - that's a good sign), he might really be into you Smile Ya gotta do more research before jumping to any conclusions!
Lauren C.

by danizzsaysrawr on 7/1/2012 12:10:19 PM

 
 



Mods! There is this guy I have crushed on since I first started school.(which seems like a LONG time ago!) Anyway, I am starting highschool this year and I have never had a boyfriend. I never really wanted one before, but I kinda do now! The problem is I am tall, which I don't mind, but most guys are too short for me! My crush is pretty tall and I REALLY like him. I can talk to him and he makes me laugh and he is super nice to everyone. The problem is he used to have a major crush on one of my besties and just this year he dated my NEW bestie who moved to our school last year. They aren't dating anymore and my newest bestie is dating someone else, but I don't think he likes me like I like him. I know you can't make anyone like you like that, but I have crused on him forever and none of my friends know because I know they would try to get us "together" which would be a little akward!! Please help!




Hey girl!

In order to really figure out how he's feeling about you, you need to spend time with him, just as friends first. The more you develop a friendship with him, the clearer his feelings for you will be. As time goes on, you can get a little flirty and see how he reacts to it. The key here is to gradually show your feelings for him. Don't spring it on him all at once! Good luck!




 
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by kity9743 on 6/11/2012 9:32:47 AM

 
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