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ok, so I like this guy, and the other night at a football game, my bestie went over and asked who he liked, cuz they're friends. Then, he said he liked one of my other friends, and he medium liked me. Then she asked me if she was allowed to tell him I liked him and I said yes. After that, me and one of my other friends were talking and he kept "subtly" walking past us and looking at me. I also texted him to say hey, and he hasn't responded. What should I do now? I don't want it to be super awkward on Tuesday, because we both go to a small school and we're bound to see one another. Help??

Hey girl,

If he doesn't address it, I would just let it go and wait a few days before texting him again. If he said he liked you and another girl, he might still be sorting out his feelings and just want some time alone. If he brings it up, you should definitely have a conversation, but if he doesn't talk about it I would just act the way you normally do. Now that he knows how you feel, he can talk to you about it when he's ready!

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by ponyfreak10 on 10/6/2012 11:30:09 PM

 
 


MOD MOD MOD!!! There's this guy I like and before I started liking him I thought he liked me. Then I realized I liked him and now it seems like he doesn't like me. We text sometimes but we never talk in school. We are on the same swim team and he always does cute things around me?, but when my friend texted him and asked him if he liked me he said no, and him and my friend are really close. Do you think he likes me? I'm so confused!!! Please help!!!




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by Taylor5223 on 10/4/2012 4:47:39 PM

 
 



Hey Can Some People Help Me like A LOT?! I have this Guy i like i used to go to the same school as him but now i am at another school. I still like him and we both have each other's emails too. Well i'll tell you more about this. Okay when we used to go to the same school, everybody always rumored or asked or said that if we were dating or we are! we both denied it but I like him. and I saw him again a few days ago when I visited my old school. He was at his locker because we had agreed to meet there and he was looking around... Well and he always teases me and when we had class together we were really close and loved to talk to each other during class! So I wanna ask Do you think he likes me and if you think he does should I tell him?

 

Hey CrystalMist2Z, yeah he could like you girly. I don't think you should say anything until you're sure how he feels about you. Take it slow and continue getting to know him. Hope this helps! Xoxo

 

 


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by CrystalMist2Z on 9/27/2012 11:07:17 PM

 
 



MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!
so ive liked this guy for thee entire school year,and as the year went by we became friends.he doesnt know i like him.i wanna know if he likes me like a friend or something eles.this one time in class we had to chose opposite gender partners, so he asked me if i wanted to be his partner when he could have gone with other smart girls.weve been partners for a lot of things like for gym,choir,etc.we talk to each other alott.on the last day of school he asked me to play soccer with him, and i told him i was bad at soccer and he said i could just be on his team.urgg, confused about this relationship, friends or crush ?!?!?!!?




Hey girl, that sounds like he might like you. If you haven't hung out one-on-one outside of school, try asking him to do that. You can tell better by how he acts when you're alone if he likes you as a friend or a crush. 
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by kimmy_bear123 on 8/8/2012 1:27:52 PM

 
 



Okay I need serious guy help! There is this guy I have liked for almost a year now. I really, really like him. He is two years older than me, but we are friends. Every now and then, he does something that really makes me think he likes me, but then he will go and do something that makes me think he likes someone else! He has told me he was always there for me, he helps me out with stuff whenever I ask, he teases me in a friendly way, and one day he was staring at me. All my friends think he likes me, but he still acts like he likes other people. I have thought he had a girlfriend several times before, and every time they were just friends. So is he just friends with them? And is he just friends with me? He doesn't respond to texts most of the time, but he has said that I always seem to text him or call him when he doesn't have his phone. I don't know for sure if he knows I like him, but I have heard he does. I haven't told him. Please help!

 

Hey chica!  It sounds like he's being a good friend, but if you've been crushin' for this long, it might be time to take the next step.  Let this guy know you're interested!  If he's not feeling it, make it clear you'd like to stay friends.  He sounds like a nice guy, so I'm sure he'll be sweet either way. Sometimes guys send mixed signals and the only way to get to the bottom of it is to straight out ask! Good luck!  xoxo 


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