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A girl named Sarah from Arundel High School in Maryland was being constantly bullied at school, and though she asked for help from school officials, nothing had been done.  Hopeless that change would come, Sarah took to her Reddit page. She posted an article about the harassment she was enduring and the lack of adult involvement, and went so far as to suggest it would only end if she committed suicide. 
 
Outraged by the school’s refusal to address the bullying issues, thousands of people who read Sarah’s post, which went viral, took it upon themselves to email Arundel High’s principal. The very next day, actions were taken by the school to discipline the bully. Soon after, police arrested the bully for harassing another student.

 

Standing up to bullies can be really scary, but when people like Sarah expose the shortcomings in the school system it only works to ensure a safer future for everyone else.

 

If you are being bullied, try these tips to seek support from your community:

 

Tell everyone! Don’t be shy or ashamed of the fact that someone is picking on you.

 

Tell any adult who will listen to you because even if some of them dismiss you, someone is bound to take your concerns seriously. Tell your parents, teachers, the principal, the school nurse, your aunts, uncles, grandparents, even older siblings.

 

Reach out to your friends for help. Use your Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, blog and any other form of social media to speak out against bullying and share your personal experiences. The more people know about you and how you are being hurt, the more they will feel inclined to help. Be aware though that you are putting your personal story out in a public sphere and some people could comment rudely.  Stand strong!

 

Start or join an anti-bullying movement in your school or neighborhood. Being bullied is a common experience so many people will be able to relate to what you are going though. When anti-bullying becomes more popular less people will bully since they want to seem cool.

 

Never stand for being bullied. Each and everyone of us is an important and special person with awesome things to contribute to the world  and no one has the right to tell you otherwise. Stick up for other kids who are being bullied. Visit thetrevorproject.org to learn how.
 
 

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BY AMANDA POOLE ON 4/9/2012 4:38:00 PM

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Ive tried all that stuff before to do something about my bullies... but it didnt work! But whatever, i shook off all the bullies. I hate them! They bully me for no apparent reason and im sick of it!

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by KatieBieber on 6/7/2012 6:20:23 PM

 
 

That is so sad that is what you have to do to be heard. When I was in school they told us that if we were being bullied, tell a teacher. Luckily for people in my class (including me) if we were being bullied it was minor things like being excluded from a group. If someone was being bullied someone would tell a teacher and they would just look at us and say "So what? What can I do about it?" It wasn't until I was in 4th grade teachers really started paying attention because a kid who lived in the same county as us killed himself.

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by libby22 on 4/16/2012 1:08:25 AM

 
 

also, plz join my bullying group. it's called "stop cyberbullying!" bullying doesn't always happen face to face, but online too. thx and let me know if u would like to be VPSmile

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by myfatsquirrel on 4/13/2012 4:47:31 PM

 
 

wow! i need strong, brave ppl like that at my school! way to goSmile

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by myfatsquirrel on 4/13/2012 4:33:43 PM

 
 

WOW!
hey girls do you need some advice on anything or do you like to give it out? Join my club Queens of Hearts <3!!! advice on EVERYTHING! bullying, fashion, fitness, beauty, health, self esteem, boys, friendships and MORE! plus daily Tip of the Day to make your life just that much better! JOIN NOW!

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by honeycakes on 4/10/2012 4:08:47 PM

 
 

Wow that just shows how people try to push things under the rug and pretend it never happened. I know what its like to be bullied personally speaking from experience sometimes even when you stand up for yourself you just get pushed down again. Though I hope what happened to sarah opened up people's eyes to what truly happens in schools

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by Jacki_Katie on 4/10/2012 3:20:29 PM

 
 

Ppl o ly bully becuz they feel insecure about themselves or their parents hurt them and try to cauz harm to their well being
9/10 that's the reason 1/10 the ppl r just jerks

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by Firefox101 on 4/10/2012 2:13:23 PM

 
 

I was bullied last year and all they did was tell her that she can't sware in school! She ended up stopping anyway though...

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! Join my club: Operation: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Our mission is to post anonymous notes in public places for other people to find. The point is that WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL!!! In my club, we will have daily quotes that you can put on post- its to uplift girls. So please join my club so we can tell everyone that we are beautiful the way we are!

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by heather99 on 4/10/2012 8:18:27 AM

 
 

Great job girly! Laughing

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by Princess Keziyah on 4/9/2012 7:42:04 PM

 
 

Well, I'm a really big anti-bully activist and so are my best friends and my favorite bands. But girls, be mindful that sometimes your actions can be misunderstood. I know from personal experience. Someone in my class was being picked on, so naturally I stood up. He turned around and got really mad at me. So just know that you can't stand up for everyone. Especially people who don't want to be stood up for.

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by angelicjade on 4/9/2012 6:58:32 PM

 
 

Bullies are extremely stupid for doing that stuff. Its just dumb. Very, very dumb.

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by future_artist on 4/9/2012 6:49:22 PM

 
 

Well did y'all hear about that video that the highschoolers at that Texas school made
Well that was very brave of her and now there is barley any bullying at that school The song is they sung and one of the girls wrote was called who do you think you are

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by Girlygirl0906 on 4/9/2012 6:29:28 PM

 
 

:'( I wanted to see if it would come up as a smiley

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by JessiJo77 on 4/9/2012 5:26:37 PM

 
 

good job 4 standing up! Smile

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by mandapanda10 on 4/9/2012 5:24:26 PM

 
 

Thanks GL! I had some of these tips already, told to me by my mother. I was being bullied as well, last year anyway. I had told my mother and gave me advice like talk to the bully about how much it hurts you, which was one of the most unlikely things because that would just let the bully know that she was getting to me. I told my friend and she talked to the bully about it. After the recess that my friend had talked to the bully about it, the bully was willing to give me answers, etc. A couple days later she was bullying me again! I couldn't believe it! The next year at school she left! I was really happy (no meaning to sound rude) because I couldn't stand her. I thought it was just because of her home-life that she was bullying me, but then I re-thought it and it couldn't have been because of that because she was rich, popular, and had good grades, and her parents bought her anything she wanted. I don't know why she was being mean in the first place.

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by skyfashions123 on 4/9/2012 4:59:34 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!
is it true that zayn malik from one direction died!?!?! PLEASE SAY NO!!!
if he did, do you think that means one direction break up?
i would die...Cry

 

He is definitely not dead.

Amanda P.

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by abcgirl790 on 4/9/2012 4:50:49 PM

 
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