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Is he flirty or just friendly?


 
What’s the difference between being friendly, joking around and flirting? I can’t seem to tell the difference.
 
Bill: Being friendly is showing politeness: “Hi, how are you?” Joking is trying to make someone laugh: “Hey, what’s with the hair?” And flirting is trying to get someone to notice you: “Hey, do you like this dress on me? Really? You’re just saying that....” Being friendly might result in a casual conversation. Flirting might result in a date.  And joking might result in a conversation, date or breakup. Class dismissed.
 
Dave: The difference is... There isn’t one. That’s what makes flirting so wonderful. You never quite know where you stand. Life would be boring without that tinge of doubt—was that a sly wink or just fluttering to get a lash out of the eye? Besides, if doubts about flirting didn’t exist, neither would Guy Q&A columnists. As for Bill’s hair comment, that’s not friendly, joking or flirting. Take it from a guy with goofy hair—that’ll get you nowhere.
 

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i have a bff and she has a bf but he is so nice but it seems like he's hiding something ( my bff has a long distance but her bf he's moving down here again) he seem so cute for her and i don't want anything to happen to her i just wanna protect her i think he has another girl like others said
i still don't wanna break her heart what do i do i need some BIG HELP

by jaynasa on 12/29/2012 1:12:02 PM

 
 

tht "do u like this dress on me? really? ur just sayin tht..." part on bills colomn, almost made me wonder if he WAS/IS a girl!... :o Laughing lol

by *epic fail* on 8/4/2012 9:49:10 PM

 
 

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I'm in a pretty sticky situation with a guy I've liked on and off for almost three years now. He's just one of those guys where no matter how many times you get over him, there's something so attractive about him that you just can't absolutely forget him. I told him the second year I knew him that I liked him, but he wasn't interested and found himself a girlfriend a few days later. I got over it. They broke up pretty fast, and it's been two years since his last relationship. I've recently really liked him again, and he was even flirting back....until he asked me the other day if "I thought he was leading me on." The thing is, I didn't feel like he was because it seemed sincere. He said he didnt want to hurt me or to expect anything, but at the same time he didn't mind seeing, flirting, or talking to me. I'm so confused, because successful relationships rely on two-way streets. I really think fate wants me to keep going back to him, but idk why! PLEASE HELP!



Hey babe,

I know you don't want to hear this, but if he's said he's not interested, then he's really not feeling it.  He wouldn't lie to you and tell you that if he liked you.  I know those feelings that come back after a while like that, but they go away with time.  You will find somebody you like even more, somebody who makes those other feelings just seem like a shadow.  But, you have to be willing to let that happen and let this fade.

Sometimes things that weren't meant to be fall out of place for something new and better to fall in. Jordan S.

by aeroangel87 on 6/12/2012 12:05:59 AM

 
 

Mod mod mod! I just put up an issue and then read the answer, however, I realized it was the same as some other answere, what's up?

Hey girl,

If multiple chicas have the same question, we'll give you similar advice  because we want to help all of you! I'm not sure what question you're referring to, but if you'd like to post again I'll answer!

Meghan D.

by guy gal on 5/11/2012 9:24:01 PM

 
 



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Ok, so there is this guy I really like and I think he really likes me too! Theres just a few small problems...1) he's three years older than me. 2)I only see him once a week. 3)We live 40mins away from eachother.
Should I keep my hopes up or just give up? I think he really likes me because he put his arm around me on a plane ride, and flirts with me everytime were together. I really like him, but how can I tell if he likes me the same way? HELP HELP HELP HELPE HELP HELP! WHAT DO I DO?

 

Hey! It sounds to me like you really like this guy Smile congrats, it can be fun to have a crush. The best way to deal with this is to be his friend and see if something more happens naturally. I have seen so many girls get hurt and ruin friendships because they "had to know" if someone liked them, and they asked the guy about it and made the whole situation awkward. I even did that myself when I was younger. It's better to have a secret crush on your friend than to have a public crush on your ex-friend. good luck!   


Helen S.

by SoldierGirlSG on 5/11/2012 8:27:51 PM

 
 



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k, so theres a cutie in my grade and i adore him! in fact i have since 3rd grade! im major crushing on him and theres only two more weeks of school! were going to seperat middle schools next year. anyway i have some probs,
1 he tells me jokes a lot and when his friends make fun of me or ask me to leave he says im fine or changes the subject, what is this?
2 he is dyslexic and im a straight a student, is he intimidated? does he see me... how?
3 plz help! i wanna snag him but not make him uncomfortable or have him laugh at me, what should i do?

 

Hey! 1) It sounds like he's flirting with you ;) 2) That's hard to predict, unless he says otherwise he's probably not that intimidated 3)It sounds to me like you really like this guy Smile congrats, it can be fun to have a crush. The best way to deal with this is to be his friend and see if something more happens naturally. I have seen so many girls get hurt and ruin friendships because they "had to know" if someone liked them, and they asked the guy about it and made the whole situation awkward. I even did that myself when I was younger. It's better to have a secret crush on your friend than to have a public crush on your ex-friend. good luck!  


Helen S.

by guy gal on 5/11/2012 8:11:50 PM

 
 

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Ok so there's this guy i really like and hes in my soanish class. We talk all the time in school and sometimes outsde of school. He teases me sometimes too and i cant tell if its his way of flirting. (calling me short) Everyone thiks we like each other and we would make a cute couple how do i find out if he likes me back and wants to go out with me without asking him??

Hey Amandaa15, sounds like this guy likes ya to me. Maybe hint at going out and see what he says. You could try saying something like “That (name of a movie) looks soo good. I really want to see it. But none of my friends want to go with me.” or “Do you like bowling?” Letting him know you want to go out without actually saying it might give you a clue if he wants to go out with you. Hope this helps! Xoxo
Lynae P.

by Amandaa15 on 5/5/2012 2:08:21 PM

 
 


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Kay so there is this guy and i like him a lot, but he is dating one of my friends and they like each other a lot. She talks about him all the time. We hanged out all night last night and she wasnt there. It was awsome. And it seamed like he was flirting with me. Me and my friend are really close and we have 2 classes together. We have already got in a huge fight this year. So what do i do? Do i iust give up on the guy?


 


Hey Girly!


This is a very sticky situation! I think it would be best, as hard as it sounds, to give up on the guy. Guys will come and go but you will always have your friends there with you. I think it is very important to never let a guy come in between a friendship. Put yourself in her shoes, how would you feel if she was talking to your boyfriend that you really liked behind your back? I think it is best to just give up on the guy and be more committed to your friendship. I hope this helps and good luck doll! 



Lynae P.

by May6teen on 4/28/2012 6:53:18 PM

 
 


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ok so there is this guY i like but my friend likes him to! i dont know what to do he's always joking around with me but also with her but not as much. me and my friends can tell she is trying to make a move on him and i dont know what to do! i really like him. HELP!! also we used to sit together in math but we got separted from being to talkitive and loud. is that a sign that he likes me?!?! please answer back soon!


Hey lovelife123, this is a tricky sitch. You want the guy to like you, but then what if your friend gets hurt? And what if he likes your friend and you get hurt? There are two things you could do. One, you could talk it out with your friend, and see if you guys can come to an agreement that neither of you will be mad if one of you start dating him. Or two, you both can decided to let him go and find other guys, because you don’t want a guy to break up your friendship. Boys will always come and go but your girls will always be there. Hope this helps! Xoxo
Lynae P.

by lovelife123 on 4/28/2012 2:01:52 PM

 
 



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I have a problem. My fam just recently starting spending more time with our friends who have a son my age. He's really cute and nice and everything I look for in a guy and I like him a lot. We were texting and I thought that he was flirting back. Even my friends and mom did. Plus I took him to a dance at my school and he seemed to have fun. It's a little awkward when our families hang out but we talk and have fun. But just recently he started not replying to my texts. This has happened three times so I know it wasn't an accident or anything. I'm worried I intimidate him or that he just doesn't like me. I don't know what to do because I really really like him and we're into the same stuff and everything. I don't want to look desperate though by texting him again. The problem is that we're not really close enough for me to confront him without ruining things and making it totally uncomfortable every time our families hang out from then on. Thanks for your help!




Hey girl,

There's no reason to confront him! You're not dating each other, so he really doesn't have to respond to your texts if he doesn't want to. There's no way for us to know exactly why he's become distant but, just like you said, you don't want to come off as desperate or look like you're forcing it, so try to take a step back and focus on other things. (Friends, meeting other potential crushes, etc.) If he misses you and wants to talk again, he'll text you! And the next time you see him at a family thing, it's only going to be awkward if you let it be that way. Personally, I would just act laid back, say hey in a friendly way, and move on. Don't let him see that it bothers you - and it'll make it easier for YOU to move on too Smile
Lauren C.

by sel105 on 4/26/2012 7:06:57 PM

 
 



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OK so there's this dude whose a grade younger than me n my friend ..........he likes my friend A LOT and asked her out. She just had a break-up and she's not sure what to say. But he's being SUPER nice with her and even me. Always ask me to convince her. My friend is not sure if she likes him and another problem is that the guy is a grade younger and a little shorter than her...so shes super confused but those sweet looks he give her when they pass each other in the hallway r just too cute!! So need help on this..what should she say to him especially when shes confused about her feelings!!

 

Hey girl! There is no reason for your friend to rush into a relationship, especially if she just went through a break-up. Although he seems sweet and gives her cute looks, it doesn't mean that he is necessarily the right person for your friend. Try hanging out with him in a group setting so that your friend can get to know him better and have a chance to sort out her feelings. If she's confused, she definitely shouldn't start dating him right away. Tell her not to worry about the height thing--most guys hit puberty after girls, so it's likely that a lot of guys will be shorter at this point in your life.  


Colleen K.

by mademoisellexX on 4/25/2012 10:23:19 AM

 
 

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OKAY, So I like this guy. He’s really nice to me and my friends. Tong Anyways today out of the blue he posted this on my wall (on Facebook) “go on twitter (:” I said ok. We talked for a few minutes on face book and twitter and I asked him wazzup? He responded oh nothing much playing mw2. I said oh cool! I then asked him if he was still playing. He replied no I stopped it. I asked why?!? He said cuz I want to talk to people like you (: My friends say “if a boy stops a video game for you marry him! xD” Does it seem like he likes me back?

 

Hey Girlie,

It definitely sounds like he likes you! Keep talking to him and get a little flirty! I'm sure he'll make a move soon! BF alert Smile

alicia m.

by KitKatgurl44 on 4/24/2012 11:19:58 AM

 
 

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So I met this guy a few months ago when I was on vacation and he gave me his number to keep in touch. It's kind of a coincidence that we ended up living in the same city. He's a year older than me and very cute, nice, etc. We've been texting and having our own little jokes and teasing each other. (I don't know if that's considered flirting?)But recently he hasn't been texting me, what's the deal?



Hey girl,

He may have started meeting new people, or maybe he just has been too busy to text.  See if there's a way you two can hang out and hopefully reconnect. Jordan S.

by macyg on 4/23/2012 6:33:52 PM

 
 


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this may sound dumb but i have no idea how to flirt... PLEASE help me thx


 


Lynae P.

by favcolorgreen on 4/21/2012 2:23:07 PM

 
 



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Okay, so there's this guy I know who's my age, cute, sweet, and fun to hang out with. He texts me, made a point to sit by me in the computer lab, helped me with math, and makes me laugh. I think I might have a crush on him. The problem? A) I kinda have a boyfriend( we talk but don't really hang out after school and I'm just not feeling it) B) he has a girlfriend ( my BFF thinks she fake; looks like me, lives far away) and C) HE'S MY BEST FRIEND'S BROTHER!! I don't want to mess up our friendship but I enjoy hanging out with him, he's nice to me, and bought me chocolate. Please help!




Hey girl,

First off, if you're not happy with your BF (and uh, not even talking?), you should totally end that relationship. You're only sticking around in something bad because it's easier than talking to him about it, so be true to yourself and be honest with him. It's better to be single and happy! As for his GF, you can't do anything about that situation, so sit tight for now. Be patient and get to know him even better as friends for now. NO FLIRTING while he's off the market - would you want someone flirting with him if you were his GF? Probably not! So respect them both by staying friendly. Chat with your bestie and make sure she knows about your crush. You might need to let it sink in, but be honest with her and make sure she tells you if it bothers you. If you DID date, she'd obviously still be a major part of your life - so it's not worth ruining your friendship. But who knows, she could be super supportive! Smile 
Lauren C.

by emmyie11 on 4/19/2012 6:27:50 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!! I've liked this guy since 6th grade and he's suddenly become a lot more flirty;like full-on wrestling me for a swivel chair before the fifth period bell rings EVERY DAY flirty. The last 2 days have been kinda embarrassing for me. Yesterday a guy said that 'everyone knows you like each other just make out already':, and just today, after he had helped me finish a worksheet, one of my class friends asked if I liked him (he was eavesdropping and pretended to ask if i liked her) and when i stammered out no she said why didn't i (i didn't have a reason). I unconvincingly said no both times. He's one of my best friends and he only flirts like this when we are in science, a class none of our other friends are in with us. He gets really shy when someone says something about someone he likes and he always told me first who that was. Sooo...what's going on? Do i have a chance?

 

Hey girl,

You totally have a chance! He sounds super friendly and like he enjoys your company. And now that he's become newly flirty, that's another great sign. That means he's comfy around you! Try returning the flirting and chatting with him more to get to know him beyond it - his interests, hobbies, friends, fam, etc. If you connect on another level, it'll bring you even closer together! Smile And that's the best way to see if he really likes ya and if he'll make a move.

Lauren C.

by fenderbender1014 on 4/18/2012 10:52:10 PM

 
 

My crush is a really funny guy so I have a hard time tell if he is flirty or friendly. Today his friend made him hug me and most guys like act to cool for that but he didn't care. We are both in the"popular" group at school and obviously i want him to be more than just a friend! help please!!!! And join my club boy probs 101 please!

by novalesko on 4/17/2012 5:52:54 PM

 
 



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I have this crush, and he always is being friendly and saying I'm hot and calling me nicknames, but we don't even really know each other and he is really popular! Is he flirty or friendly? ASAP!

 

Hey! whichever he is, he wants to get to know you, and that's a good thing Smile just keep chatting with him and see what happens Smile 


Helen S.

by jumpersb on 4/13/2012 5:42:19 PM

 
 

ok so i know you already know my story from before but i was dating a boy (who happens to be a twin *well a twin-ginger so at my school they're kinda a big deal) but last month he broke up with me because i would say some things that i kinda regret now.. well my question is, is it THAT bad to say wat i said? i mean there was one time when we were hanging out at break and i wanted him to put his arm around me or watever, but he didnt want to, so i kinda said "well a REAL man would" (i was trying to be joking but it came out a little more harsh), another time we were eating lunch together and i was trying to tell him that i thought he was better than me (the number system), so i said i was like a 4 and he was an 8, *which now i KNOW i was wrong* but all he kept asking was why he wasnt a 10! i kept trying to tell him that in my mind a 10 was like Zac Efron! but so yeah...




Hey girly! The truth is that the truth hurts. And sometimes it just does not need to be said. Some things may be better to just keep in your head in order to not hurt others feelings. If you were trying to be sarcastic, he may not have understood and think that you were trying to be mean so cutting back on the sarcasm may be a good idea, especially if you are not obviously sarcastic. 
Ana D.

by chelseabites on 4/13/2012 1:52:55 PM

 
 



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so my bf broke up with me a month ago and im seriously over him (even though i still catch myself talking about him sometimes). But lately i found out that his band broke up and hes not friends with his only friend (anymore) and now his twin and him dont even talk, is it bad that i feel bad? I mean i dont like him and i do NOT want to get back together but i just kinda wish he would at least try to talk to me about it...Another reason why we dont talk is because (1. he doesnt want to talk to me anymore) and 2. hes been texting *and flirting* with my (ex) best friend who HAS a BF!! so her and i "broke up" as him and i broke up...now all the drama is over but im still kinda lost on wat to do? I mean idk if i should try to "make him jealous" like date another guy, or wat? i mean i tried to be friends with him but i guess i freaked him out so now he wont talk to me at ALL and he barely looks at me either. PLEASE HELP!!
thanks,
~MacK Attack




Hey chickie,

It's not bad you feel bad! Or that you catch yourself talking about him sometimes. When we date someone, that person becomes part of our lives. So even when you're officially "over" him, you can still miss him sometimes, or think about him, or feel sorry/happy/worried/whatever for him, etc. It's totally normal Smile But he caused some major drama and you don't want to play games with him - don't try to make him jealous, don't check in with him to see if things are ok, etc. You want attention from him, but you don't need attention from him because you don't need all the drama that would come along with it. Instead of constantly wishing he would contact you, do something to distract yourself from it. Join up with another friend and try joining a new activity, starting up a new hobby, or meeting new people by taking a class/getting a part time job. It's not easy to be 100% finished with an ex, but you gotta try to move on! You might not want to be back with him, but you still need him to pay attention to you and make you feel special/needed. But if you focus on moving on by making yourself happy and reminding yourself about all the other possibilities out there, you'll start to depend on him less Smile
Lauren C.

by chelseabites on 4/12/2012 10:11:21 PM

 
 



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So I like this guy, Chuck and I told my friend I liked him to get her to investigate and see if he liked me. But her way of investigation was to tell him that I like him!!! She said, "He responded with a confused face and said That's awkward." So he stopped being friendly to me and he started talking to me again after two days but he's not as friendly. And during spring break I showed up to swim practice and was talking to my friends and he was there and he was looking at me.... I'm wondering how I can make things between us unawkard again cuz I miss when he'd say hi to me in the halls.




Hey girlie,

It's only gonna be awkward if you let it be awkward! Instead of acting freaked out and avoiding him, try talking to him like you normally would have before. Give him a subtle smile in the halls or a little wave, chat about random stuff before class starts, stress about the homework with him, etc. Just act laid-back and comfortable around him, even if you have to fake it a little at first. You know he felt uncomfy when he found out about the crush, so just keep it friendly right now - try to avoid flirting, which could make him freeze up again. Keep things light and non-awkward - he'll take the hint and start acting that way too! <3
Lauren C.

by TinaTime on 4/12/2012 9:31:16 PM

 
 



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So, there is this boy that i like and all my friends think he likes me, but he's Mormon. He has to wait until he's 16 to date. Some other people at school are all like "you should ask her out" and making <3 signs with their fingers. The only problem is, one of my sorta friends (I talk to her) likes him too. To not hurt her feelings, I've kinda been avoiding him. Frown I don't know what to do!!!!! Help!




Hey girlie,

Don't avoid him! That's sending him mixed messages and might make him think you don't actually like him, when you do. Instead, try to get to know him as a friend right now. Learn more about each other, hang out as friends, work on homework together, and grow closer as friends. Then, when he gets closer to turning 16, you'll already be part of his life! Even if you don't still have a crush on him then, at least you'll have gotten to know him better and spent time with him while you did Smile
Lauren C.

by sailorgirl13 on 4/12/2012 6:14:33 PM

 
 



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i am crushing of my best friends bro!!! she is a year older then me and he is a year younger.(she knows i like him) i dont want to date him and make things awkward between me and her but i like her brother!!!!! what do i do!?




Hey girlie,

Talk to her first! She's your bestie so it wouldn't be smart to ignore HER feelings on the issue, so bring it up and have an honest chat about it. If she seems freaked out, decide whether you want to put the friendship or the crush first. If you choose friendship (good move), try to distract yourself from liking him by meeting new people, taking up a new hobby, or keeping in mind his bad qualities. But who knows - she might feel kinda weird but, in the end, support you! Just talk it out and see how it goes - then you can decide what to do <3 
Lauren C.

by Jewels415 on 4/12/2012 5:49:36 PM

 
 



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I've been dating my first boyfriend for over a month now, he's a grade above me. he's recently messaged me and asked me, when are we going to hug or something, I just said whenever, i looked at what i said and thought, "WHENEVER, REALLY!?" well anyway, I've never done anything like this before, not that it's a big deal, I'm just so confused, where can we go private, ????? It's kind of puppy love, idk how to handel anything!!!!!




Hey Chica,

This is so exciting! Your first boyfriend and pretty soon your first hug, too! I know this may seem super confusing right now but just try not to over-think it! Let him take the lead and figure things out. All you gotta do is think about if you're ready for it! There's nothing wrong with waiting a little longer if you don't feel like hugging him yet - just be honest with yourself and let him know if you feel rushed! But in case you're ready for your first hug, stop worrying and just enjoy it Smile
alicia m.

by maggiemay1703 on 4/10/2012 10:45:58 AM

 
 



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I really like this guy at my tennis class but hes really shy! He barely talks! So, how can I get him to talk to me or how can I talk to him so that we can become friends?




Hey Girlie,

The perfect conversation starter in your case is TENNIS! Compliment him on his skills or make a joke about the teacher! Once you guys warm up and get chatty, you can ask him what his favorite movie is or if he can suggest an exciting book to read! Good luck, babes!
alicia m.

by claudsoda on 4/10/2012 8:04:42 AM

 
 

i agree. someone should rly write a book on guys. they r soooo confusing. n i hate how i cant tell the difference, you know? i have a bgf n he highfives me all the time, like he begs for them. n he touches my shoulder n pats my heads n everything. he commented on my hair once! we have a lot of conversations n in every one he trys to make me laugh, and he usually succeeds. i dont kno if he is flirting or just being my bgf. he flirts with like almost every girl. and i get jealous. but hes not mine so i guess he can do watever he wants. and people agree with me. hes such a flirt! but he will always be my bgf. no matter what. <3

by musikluvr17 on 4/10/2012 7:42:10 AM

 
 

Guys....someone needs to right a book on them.

by amileofroses on 4/9/2012 8:31:15 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD! So I just had my first kiss and idk if I did it right it was the first time for both my BF and I so what's the right way to kiss and all that? And when should I go for a full on kiss instead of like little pecks? (pecks are fine but I want a 'lil somethin' more lol)



Go here, babe:



http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/01/11/kissing-guide.aspx
Jordan S.

by TeamAlice33 on 4/9/2012 8:18:47 PM

 
 

lol i just notice that my crush really likes me.

by alissa101 on 4/9/2012 7:39:21 PM

 
 

Boys...you never can tell! I have a lot of guy friends and from what they tell me, the difference from flirty and friendly is the topic of conversation and how its talked about. Like, lets say a guy you like is sitting next to you and starts talking to you about the class your in. Now, if hes trying to make you laugh by commenting on the teachers outfit or something, thats flirting. If he is only asking what your doing for the project though, that just being friendly. ALSO if a guy is trying to touch you (not creepy, like a high five or a slight touch on the hand or shoulder) its a very good sign!!

by **Summergirl** on 4/9/2012 6:53:13 PM

 
 

Good advice! Smile

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by future_artist on 4/9/2012 6:45:28 PM

 
 

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i help with this situation... So this guy I have liked for a while is dating some girl who hates me because she thinks i flirt with him too much... But, i was talking to the guy the other night, and he said that he has liked me for a reallyyy long time now, but he also still likes his girl friend that he's dating right now.. so he knows i like him and he always compliments me and everything but like not with his gf... but.. his locker is right near mine, and she always comes up to him all flirty and acting dumb and showing off her body and whatever.. but the guys also likes me.. but he doesnt act like it around school cause hes already dating her.. but all of this bugs me a lottttttt causee we both like eachother...
sooo please help me! thhanks!



Hey babe,

I'm not sure what your question is.  There's nothing you can do about his dating her, but you can work from the sidelines, out of her view, to get closer to him.  You could play as the confidant, and let him know that it's fine for him to be with her right now.  If you do that, you would want to start talking to him about her and (discreetly) what's wrong in their relationship.  That way, whenever something happens with them, you're the first person he will come to.



Essentially, just take this time to get in with him and build on your friendship in hopes of later being more. Jordan S.

by Sing4life3 on 4/9/2012 5:31:46 PM

 
 

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my friends bf and her hav been dating 4 at year on sat. and shes rly excited. a few nites ago, i asked him if he was thinking of breaking up w/ her and he said yes. his reason is tht he doesn't like her anymor and he doesnt wanna stay w/ her out of pity, but some1 else told me tht its cuz he wants 2 b single so he can flirt w/ girls (which hes already doing) and cuz he doesnt wanna date some1 4 a whole year. thing is, idk if i shud tell her about the flirting so tht she can possibly break up w/ him and save herself from humilition, or if i shud tell her about it after he breaks up w/ her so tht it helps her healing process. if i do the first option, some1 mite find out tht i told her and get mad. plus, she mite regret breaking up w/ him and feel bad if she still liked him. the 2nd option cud b bad cuz she mite get mad @ me 4 not telling her sooner, and some1 mite still get mad @ me. he's such a jerk and doesnt deserve her or any1- wut do i do???

 

I think you should just tell her what is going on and let her make her own decisions with the information. 

Amanda P.

by pinkninja64 on 4/9/2012 4:50:28 PM

 
 

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So, I have an amazing best friend. Her and a guy dated for about 2 months, and then broke up. She is pretty upset about it. They hate each other. Her ex and I have been talking, and we like each other a lot. My friendship with her means a lot to me, but I really like they guy! The funny thing is, she did the same thing to her friend with the same guy a few months ago! What should I do?? Please help!!

 

I think you need to ask her first if she would be upset if you dated him. If she is OK with it then go for it, but if she is not OK with it then you probably should not date him. Your friends are always more important than guys. 

Amanda P.

by *B*E*<3 on 4/9/2012 3:28:29 PM

 
 

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by honeycakes on 4/9/2012 2:20:56 PM

 
 

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ok so I have been having trouble getting a tampon in. And i read somewhere that it is easier to get it in when you are on your period (i have been pracicing when im not on my period) So my period started friday and it usually lasts 5 days. Last night, on my 3rd day, I finally got a tampon in. I went to take it out and I couldn't. It was stuck! I finally got it out and I haven't bled since. My period just stopped. What happened? Thanks

 

Your period might have just ended early. Periods are very unreliable and can start and stop whenever. Don't be alarmed by this. It has nothing to do with the tampon. 

Amanda P.

by alluneedisluv14 on 4/9/2012 1:35:47 PM

 
 

good advice!



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by frannysback on 4/9/2012 12:47:38 PM

 
 

seems like a lot of boys flirt with me then, which i doubt so i guess so i guess they are just being friendly...

by colorqueen101 on 4/9/2012 12:34:05 PM

 
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