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by pandasrock292 on 9/30/2012 11:46:02 AM

Modmodmodmod!!!!
I talk to Kate a minute ago so I would like to talk to her again.
So a few weeks ago I asked a questian similar to my 1st one and got basically the same answer(so its good advice) I tryed it and think he's Getting the idea. So what do I do now? Plus I was very sutle flirting and afew days later he was kinda doing it back. Does he like and how do I knw for sure without telling or asking him? How do I make him like me

hey! Kate's not online anymore, but maybe I can help. The truth is you can't know for sure if someone likes you without telling or asking. But you can get a pretty good idea just by reading the signals. Does he go out of his way to talk to you? does he seem like he wants to impress you? Does he ask about whether you have a bf? Does he make casual physical contact like patting you on the back sometimes? All of those are good signs that a guy might like you.You also can't make someone like you, and why would you want to? If you made someone like you that would mean they didn't have a choice.You can try your best to impress someone by acting the way you think they'd want you to act when you're around them, but it's way better to just be yourself. That way, if they don't like you who cares? why would you want to hang out with someone you can't be yourself around? and if they do like you, you'll know it's real and that you don't have to pretend to be someone you're not around them. good luck!

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by Katnissgirlhg on 8/13/2012 5:22:50 PM

ModModModModMod!!!!!!!!!!!
1. So I really like my BGF. Every nite I dream of us making out and stuff. (I am only 11) How do i hint I like him WITHOUT being obvious.
2. Is there anything I can do to make him like me or notice me more. Thx a bunch!!!
*~*Katnissgirlhg

Hey girl! If you're already friends, he's noticing you! Try flirting with him and complimenting him, it'll give him the hint! xoxo

Kate G.

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by Katnissgirlhg on 8/13/2012 4:54:39 PM

modmodmod!!!!!
I've liked this guy for 2 or 3 years. I thought he liked me when i was in 4th grade but im not sure. He'll be moving up to the highschool and I'll still be at the middle school(I WON'T SEE HIM FOR A YEAR). He lives in my neighborhood, but I'll be moving closer to my school in early july. I don't know what to do I might see him for a camp in 2 or 3 weeks. Help Please

Hey Girl,

That's a long time for a crush! I think you should make a move before you move. Are you good friends with the guy? If so, ask him to help ya pack or catch a movie together. It won't sound weird since you're already close. By hanging out alone you'll be able to see if he feels the same way as you. If you're not good friends with him, get a little friendlier. Ask him what his plans are for the summer. Say, "Hopefully I'll see you around the neighborhood before I move". It's an excuse to hang out!