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My BF asked me inappro questions


 
I’ve had a BF for about two months. He has been asking me nasty questions. Like, he asked me to make out, so we did. Now he’s asking to see and touch things. Ewww! I can’t tell him I’m not into that. I’m thinking of dumping him.


Dear To Dump or Not to Dump,

You say you can’t but, yes, you can tell your boyfriend that you don’t like the pressure. You can say that you enjoy talking to him but not about sexual stuff. If you can’t bring yourself to speak your mind and he keeps making you feel uncomfortable, free yourself from this relationship—immediately. Don’t worry about being mean. Right now, he’s not worrying about how you’re feeling, is he? Trust me—you’d survive a breakup, and so would he. If you feel you are ready to be in a relationship, then you also need to be prepared to assert yourself in situations that make you uneasy.
 
 
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Eww! you should totally tell him that you are not ready for that!!!

by HarryStyles<3 on 5/19/2012 2:56:31 PM

 
 



MODMODMODMODMOD.
My boyfriend and I were uh, making out today for the first time and it was great. except he wouldn't stop shoving his tongue down my throat any time we kissed after that! I don't know what to do.....




Hey girlie,

Try taking the lead and mixing it up a little bit! It's ok if he wants to French kiss, but making out is about combining lots of different types of kisses - short pecks, longer kisses, subtle tongue kisses, etc. Maybe if you change the pace and show him how YOU like it, he'll follow along and won't be so aggressive Smile Your kisses will get better the more honest you are about it - and the more you practice with him!
Lauren C.

by ashie39 on 5/12/2012 9:54:58 PM

 
 

Ok so I am 12 and I had my first kiss last Tuesday and I cant tell my parents cause it is against there rules. I kiss my boyfriend everyday now. I don't know what to do cause I can't let my parents find out but I really want to kiss him again. HELP!

by Minimo99 on 5/5/2012 6:55:04 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD,
I was at my BGF's house the other day and no one else was home. (we've known eachother for like ten years) we've been alone a lot and it's never mattered so it wasn't like we had never been alone. we were up in his room doing homework together when he got up and said we should take a break. I said ok and then sat down on his bed with him. then the crazy thing happened. he suddenly just put his hands on my hips and started kissing me on the neck, lips and so on. I asked what he was doing and he didn't respond. then he took off his shirt and tried to do the same to me and I ran out of the room and outside and drove home. he's really nice and he's never ever done something like that. I haven't told anyone and I haven't seen him since. (it's only been two days) I don't want to get him in trouble because I'm sure he didn't know what he was doing. please help! I have't told anyone yet. HELP!




Hey girl,

He knew what he was doing, but you did the right thing in response. You didn't want things to go further than they did, so you clearly left the situation and didn't get pressured into doing anything you weren't ready to do. That's awesome! He might've thought he was sensing some signals that you liked him more than a friend, so he jumped right to acting on them. You should probably talk to him and let him know you're sorry you ran out like that, but you think you really should just be friends and that was way too much for you. Be honest with him. You don't owe him anything - he kinda forced this on you and you don't need to go along with it if you don't feel the same way. Just be straight with him and let him know you still want to be friends, but you have to talk about this kind of thing before springing it on someone. <3 This can be a good learning experience for him! And it doesn't have to be awkward - it was a misunderstanding that you can totally smooth over Smile
Lauren C.

by ilovequotes on 5/3/2012 9:04:45 PM

 
 

Pressuring is wrong both ways!

No one should ever be pressured into doing something. Guys who do that are just not worth our time, so stay away from them. It just so wrong in so many ways. And that goes both ways, I have talked with guys who we share a lot with and they have mentioned that we can pressure guys sexually to do things just like they can pressure us, and that is wrong too.

by luckykel on 5/1/2012 2:32:56 PM

 
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