Hey chica! I think you need to turn around and run from this guy as fast as you can! The first bad sign was that he wanted to keep your relationship secret. If he doesn’t want the world to know you’re his girl and he isn’t proud to be with you, then he is not as invested in the relationship as he should be. You deserve a guy that will shout from the rooftops about how much he adores you.

Next, he talks about you behind your back. If he has problems with you, he needs to address them to you and only you. Venting to friends is one thing, but gossiping about you, which is what he was seemingly doing, is a clear sign your relationship is going nowhere.

The ultimate betrayal is that he cheated on you. No one who really cares about you is going to cheat on you. He would not be flirting with other girls if he really was concerned about your feelings. You are worth more than he will be able to offer.