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I just found out that my BF was cheating on me!! I still like him. Should we break up or not? The other thing is that he wants to keep it a secret that we are dating and he would talk about me behind my back. What should I do??

 

Hey chica! I think you need to turn around and run from this guy as fast as you can! The first bad sign was that he wanted to keep your relationship secret. If he doesn’t want the world to know you’re his girl and he isn’t proud to be with you, then he is not as invested in the relationship as he should be. You deserve a guy that will shout from the rooftops about how much he adores you.

 

Next, he talks about you behind your back. If he has problems with you, he needs to address them to you and only you. Venting to friends is one thing, but gossiping about you, which is what he was seemingly doing, is a clear sign your relationship is going nowhere.

 

The ultimate betrayal is that he cheated on you. No one who really cares about you is going to cheat on you. He would not be flirting with other girls if he really was concerned about your feelings. You are worth more than he will be able to offer.

 

I think you know it’s time to break up with him. You should take some time for yourself and then find someone worthy of being your boyfriend.
 
 
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BY AMANDA POOLE ON 4/29/2012 12:00:00 AM

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Hey, okay so this guy who was just an acquaintance at the time were texting and he told me I was beautiful and amazing so I didn't trust him even though he was always respectful and when I asked him to quit he toned it down. He told me that he liked me and at the time I still didn't know him that well though we were friends. Well I was honest and told him he was a great friend but I didn't like him that way. We stayed friends, became closer. Now I think I like him that way. I'm pretty sure he still likes me. I really think I like him now that I know him better and that I've had sometime to figure myself out a little more. How do I tell him after I made it clear I just saw him as friend??? Please help. Thanks. XO A.

 

Hey girl! I think you did the right thing is the first place--the best thing to do is to just be honest, with both him and yourself. Have a conversation with him and just tell him how you feel. Try doing it in person, but if you'd rather tell him through text, that's fine, too. Simply tell him that now that you know him better, you do view him as more than a friend and like him. It sounds like he probably feels the same way but didn't want to push you (which is a good thing!). If it doesn't work out, try to be friends at the very least. 


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by AcutieBookworm on 4/30/2012 1:36:33 AM

 
 



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First, I'mn so sorry I ask so many questions on here! But I like getting the right answers from the right people (:
Second, I kinda have a boy problem.
See, there's this guy who I like. His name is Jason, but I don't know if he likes me back. At the spring fling, I asked him to slowdance with me & we did. We kinda talked and he asked me questions about my life & stuff. It was awesome! I messaged him on facebook saying "Thanks again for the dance!" he said "Hey, no problem, why is it such a big deal to you?" I said "Cause girls like that kinda stuff. Sorry, I shouldn't have said anything. Forget it." and I think that scared him off! What should I do??? I'm sorry if that was really confusing. Plus, I know him because we have english & science together so he isn't a stranger to me. Please help! Thanks!

 

Hey girl! Just try talking to him more. You guys can build a friendship and then maybe think about something more. Get to know each other first and then be bold and go for it! Good luck!

 

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by Blushing-Beauty on 4/29/2012 12:44:47 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! TAELER L.!!
lol nothing important i just wanted to tell u that i LOVE how u spell your name! i bet alot of people mis spell it tho. people mis spell mine too! its AlysonSmile

 

Hey chick! I get a TON of misspellings, but thanks so much! Love your spelling, too!

 

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by Alykat18 on 4/29/2012 12:31:28 PM

 
 

paxetcaritas101: i thought the same exact thing right away! i think the guy has such red hair and that made me recognize the pic so fast! Smile

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by fallsb-ball on 4/29/2012 12:26:09 PM

 
 

am i the only one who immediately recognized this picture from that other article about the girl who's boyfriend was trying to date her best friend or something ?

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by paxetcaritas101 on 4/29/2012 11:24:07 AM

 
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