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How do you stop liking a guy that you know won’t like you back? I've tried everything!

 

It always sucks when your crush doesn’t like you back, but you shouldn’t waste anytime dwelling on that fact. The most important thing is to distract your mind and make yourself so busy that you literally don’t have time to think about him. Here’s how to move on without looking back.

 

Spend more time with your friends and family. Closing yourself off only makes it worse. Get out there and laugh with the ones who know you best.

 

Get back into an old hobby. No, we don’t mean stalking him on Facebook. Step away from social media for a sec and do activities that put a smile on your face.

 

Take your frustrations out through exercising. Pick yourself up and hit the gym or run around the block. A daily dose of endorphin-raising activities will kick your brokenhearted blues fast.

 

Look for someone new to crush on who is nicer and cuter. He’s out there somewhere. Even if you don’t find him right away, keeping your eyes open helps you lose focus of the old flame.

 

Focus on your schoolwork. Crushes only last so long. That gleaming sense of accomplishment from boosting your GPA outlasts any heartache.

 

Learn to cook or bake something new.  We know you’ve got oodles of recipes on your pinboards, and we’ve got tons here and here. Try ‘em out, sweetness!

 

Clear out the mess under your bed and in your closet. A clean start should start with a clean room. Any cutesy momentos that remind you of him? Toss ‘em fast and relish in an uncluttered mind.

 

Start reading a new book. Preferably one that doesn’t draw parallels between the dreamy hero (ahem, Twilight) and your former crush. Pick one that puts your mind as far away from him as possible.

 

Crank up the tunes and dance. Because life’s too short to be a wallflower at your own party – even if it’s just a personal dance party in your room.

 

It won’t be an instant cure, but the ache won’t last forever. Remember that he isn’t the only boy in world and you’re way better off finding a guy who’s just as crazy for you as you are for him.
 
 
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There's this guy in my geography class, and he is really cute, and sweet. When my eraser fell on the floor, he picked it up for me. Then when he saw something in my binder, he asked if I was in special series arts (I go to an art and drama focus school), and that my drawing was pretty good. One problem is that he is 13 and I am 14. Is it okay to like a younger guy? Or is it creepy, and I should just stop liking him?


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by pokemon_girl11 on 9/7/2012 4:43:06 PM

 
 




Hi Mod! Happy SummerSmile
So, I have had a crush on this guy for pretty much my whole high life (I’m going to be an upcoming senior). He was a former senior, so he graduated. I was so sad when school ended and I thought about letting him know how I felt to get it off my chest. Then I realized that he would either say no he doesn’t feel the same way or yes he does. Even if he says yes and we ended up doing the long distance thing and ended up in love forever and ever, I don’t think our future plans (college, career, and etc) fit together. Anyway, I think that one way to get over my long crush is to get a summer fling. I even have someone in mind. He’s cute and sweet. We live super far away from each other and will probably never see each other ever again after this summer. And he really likes me! Do you think it’s bad if I get into a fling with him to help me get over my crush even though I don’t quite like him like that?

 

Hey girlie! Sounds like a summer fling is just what you need.  Just make sure you keep things light and don't get too involved- sometimes getting over somebody with another person can backfire a little and make you miss your old crush even more! Good luck! xoxo  


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by Stargirlcandy3 on 8/9/2012 12:55:50 AM

 
 



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so i have liked this guy cody since like second grade. we have become freinds over the years. I try so hard to shake my crush off but he is really sweet and i just cant. i dont have the courage to ask him out and i just dont know what to do. Please help!!!!!




Hey girlie,

Why do you have to get over your crush? Is it really that bad to like Cody? Try talking to him more, growing even closer as friends, and flirting/complimenting him/teasing him. Be playful and laid back, 100% yourself. Before you give up, you should at least see if you work well together! You don't wanna "shake" your crush off before you even know if something good could happen Smile
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by Hailiethecool on 7/29/2012 9:42:41 PM

 
 



Hi ModSmile
What exactly are spring dresses? Are they just light above-the-knee dresses? I have this pretty (but fairly simple) sundress that I would love to wear. Would it be okay to wear to a banquet that has a dress code of spring/summer dresses for girls?




Hey babe!

Sundresses totally fit the dress code of a spring/summer dress! Have fun! 
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by Stargirlcandy3 on 5/28/2012 4:47:11 PM

 
 

Hey daisie5, this is a tough sitch. I know you like Matt but it seems like he hurt your friend Emily. Sometimes it's better if we don't date the exs of our girlfriends, because it can lead to drama. It might be better if you and Matt are friends for awhile. I'm not sure Emily will be okay with you two dating. Just imagine how you would feel if you were in her shoes. Hope this helps girly! Xoxo



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Okay so my bgf lets call him matt has been flirting with me for a long time now. Matt broke up with my best friend, Emily lets call her, about a month ago. Emily and my other best friend, Molly we'll say, always talk about how much they hate him, but they don't know i like him. Matt and me text each other every night and last night we played 20 ?'s and he asked out of all the guys in our class who would i go on a date with. Me being so "secret" said all the guys r nice but some nicer than others. I told him about the really creepy guys in my neighborhood and he said want me to come beat them up. Does he have a crush on me? Should i tell emily and molly that i like Matt? Please help!!!!!!! Lynae P.

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by daisie5 on 5/19/2012 1:48:28 PM

 
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