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How do you stop liking a guy that you know won’t like you back? I've tried everything!

 

It always sucks when your crush doesn’t like you back, but you shouldn’t waste anytime dwelling on that fact. The most important thing is to distract your mind and make yourself so busy that you literally don’t have time to think about him. Here’s how to move on without looking back.

 

Spend more time with your friends and family. Closing yourself off only makes it worse. Get out there and laugh with the ones who know you best.

 

Get back into an old hobby. No, we don’t mean stalking him on Facebook. Step away from social media for a sec and do activities that put a smile on your face.

 

Take your frustrations out through exercising. Pick yourself up and hit the gym or run around the block. A daily dose of endorphin-raising activities will kick your brokenhearted blues fast.

 

Look for someone new to crush on who is nicer and cuter. He’s out there somewhere. Even if you don’t find him right away, keeping your eyes open helps you lose focus of the old flame.

 

Focus on your schoolwork. Crushes only last so long. That gleaming sense of accomplishment from boosting your GPA outlasts any heartache.

 

Learn to cook or bake something new.  We know you’ve got oodles of recipes on your pinboards, and we’ve got tons here and here. Try ‘em out, sweetness!

 

Clear out the mess under your bed and in your closet. A clean start should start with a clean room. Any cutesy momentos that remind you of him? Toss ‘em fast and relish in an uncluttered mind.

 

Start reading a new book. Preferably one that doesn’t draw parallels between the dreamy hero (ahem, Twilight) and your former crush. Pick one that puts your mind as far away from him as possible.

 

Crank up the tunes and dance. Because life’s too short to be a wallflower at your own party – even if it’s just a personal dance party in your room.

 

It won’t be an instant cure, but the ache won’t last forever. Remember that he isn’t the only boy in world and you’re way better off finding a guy who’s just as crazy for you as you are for him.
 
 
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BY AMANDA POOLE AND KARMEN FOX ON 4/28/2012 12:00:00 AM

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@aikostar12 I totally agree. When I was decrushing someone, I kept thinking about all of his good qualities. But once I thought about his bad qualities, I realized that he wasn't worth it. And a MOD is a Moderator, or someone that answers your questions on GL. Smile

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by CupcakeCutie_21 on 5/4/2012 10:18:02 PM

 
 

Also, how am I sopposed to run off my frustrations if we run together two times a week sometimes only once and we r on the same track team so we see each other at least once a week. My hobbies r to run and jump and the only thing that keeps us seperated is our feild events,I high jump he long jump but once a week I long jump without my friends which makes some things harder to cover up when I'm talking to him. SOS

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by ealaplante on 5/3/2012 9:32:19 PM

 
 

Ok so there is this guy that I like but i don't want to. I just want to be one of his good friends. I think he thinks that I like him and I definatly don't want that happening. How do I prevent this and keep my self from not liking him but being close friends. Btw wat does modmodmod mean plz tell me and help me whither my sitch

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by ealaplante on 5/3/2012 9:27:05 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD! SO I like this guy and he knows and he lives next door, but theres 2 problems I have no idea how to start a conversation and he may or may not have a GF. Like I once think I saw them hold hands and on facebook her profile picture was picture of them both in a classroom. The thing that confuses me is that he looks at me alot. Me and him usually make alot of eye contact at lunch and today i was walking in the cafe and I saw him watching me out of the corner of his eye. What does this mean I'm confused?

 

Hey girlie,

First thing you have to do is figure out whether he's single or not. If he has a GF, he is off limits! If that's the case, you should only get to know him as a friend and try not to let your crush get in the way. If he's single though, go for it! Chat on Facebook when you're both online. Smile at him as you pass in the halls. Compliment him in class on his awesome new leather jacket. Ask him a question about the basketball game this weekend since he's on the team. Basically, get creative and find those little excuses to strike up a convo! It doesn't have to be an amazing chat and it doesn't have to last long - you just want to put yourself on his radar so these convos can happen more often and you can grow closer together! Smile

Lauren C.

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by ladyinlike on 5/3/2012 5:33:56 PM

 
 

personally, another way to get over him is to think about all the bad things about him. it seems sortta mean but it usually works

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by aikostar12 on 5/2/2012 11:05:23 PM

 
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