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What "going out" means to guys


 

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What does a guy expect from you if he asks you to “go out” with him? I’m only in eighth grade so, technically, I can’t actually “go” anywhere with a guy.


Bill: Guys don’t expect much. Just total worship, sports tickets, and validation of the egotistical belief that they’re funny and good-looking. I’m kidding! When a guy asks you to “go out” with him, he basically wants to share good (and bad) times with you. With the right person, that can be kind of cool. The truth is, you really don’t have to “go out” with someone to care a lot about him or her.


Dave: To some guys “going out” might mean an occasional call or text after school. To others, it means spending all your free time with each other. Figuring out what “going out” means is just one more issue in the long, long laundry list of things involved in sorting out the BF/GF thing. Find a guy who’s looking for the same thing as you…and you’ve got yourself a keeper.
 
 
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BY BILL AND DAVE ON 4/30/2012 9:00:00 AM

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um..you can never know what a guy means when he asks you out he's a guy..unless he tells you before he asked you out then he might not even like you

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by beautifullife on 5/13/2012 12:01:59 PM

 
 

ughhhhhh i need help....................

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by PoohBear:) on 5/11/2012 1:24:43 PM

 
 



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Me and this guy just got together and i feel like were spending a lot of time together. Is there like a normal amount of time to spend with someone if your in a relationship? Thanks!




Hey girl!

Don't fret-there is definitely no "normal" amount of time to spend with your guy. It's whatever makes you comfortable. If you feel like you need some space, plan a girls night with your favorite gals! As cute as he may be, he's no substitute for your best friends.  

 

Marisa D. Marisa D.

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by atisa7 on 5/8/2012 11:24:01 AM

 
 

So I slow danced with this really shy guy at our spring dance. He was really sweet and told me straight out he didn't know how to dance (I didn't either so it was kinda akward at first) then at the end of the song he was like oh that wasn't as bad as I thought it was gonna be. But he hasn't talked to me since and I've seen how he acts normally and he's kinda obnoxious...not at all like he was at the dance. Should I try to talk to him or what should I do? I kinda like him...

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by dolphinlover#11 on 5/5/2012 10:16:53 AM

 
 

Ok so I've liked this guy for a long time...problem is he is a player and has crushed on my older sis. He always tries to make me jealous by telling me stuff like how he loved the bday card another girl got him...over the one I made. Another slight prob is he is the bro of my BFF...but I've told her before that I like him and she was cool with it. But I'm still just a friend at most to this guy. Should I try to let him go or should I try to get his attention? And how would I get him to notice me??? Help me please!

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by dolphinlover#11 on 5/4/2012 4:19:05 PM

 
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