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Crush confession: The whole school knows who I like!


 
My friend told everybody my crush the other day. It's like the biggest thing in my grade. What should I do? Do I embrace that it or hide it and tell people I don't like him to save myself from humiliation? I wish he would ask me out, but he knows now. What do I do?

 

Hey girly! Embrace the fact that you crush now knows that you like him and that there is no confusion. Now that he knows for sure there is no reason for him not to ask you out if he is feeling the same way. Also, that awkward “who likes who” stage is over and you two can just move forward and build your relationship.

 

If he doesn’t feel the same way, that’s okay, too! At least now he knows that you like him for sure and he will feel flattered to know that someone cares. Simply shrug it off and remember that everyone has crushes – even if it’s not out in the open.
 

BY ANA D’AMBROGI ON 5/5/2012 12:00:00 AM

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Ok so I play soccer and my crush was on my team last spring. He was pretty nice to me and is cool. My parents won't let me date and I'm ok with that.But I kind of wanted to get to know him better and be friends. I'm playing again this spring but he is on another team. I'm homeschooled so I don't go to school with these kids in the league. Anyway some of my teammates this spring who go to school with my crush say he is a total jerk! Whenever I ask why they hate him they avoid the question. Do you have any idea why they might hate him? I thought he was really nice! Thanks in advance Smile this is kind of a silly question!

 

Hey girlie,

It's not a silly question! It's good to do research on your crush to make sure he's actually as cool as he seems, but sometimes the answers aren't very good. The truth is, people can act one way around one group of people and TOTALLY different around another group. It's possible that he never showed you how he really behaves since you didn't see him every day in school, while it's also possible that the kids in school don't know the "real" him. It's tough to say. The best thing to do would be getting to know him better on your own. Keep in mind what your teammates have said about him, but at the same time try to judge for yourself <3 While sometimes a person's reputation lets you know you should stay away from him, you can't let someone's reputation cloud your opinion of them ALL the time!

Lauren C.

by augie on 5/10/2012 1:07:19 AM

 
 

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Okay me and my BFG like each other. I told him I liked him. But we decided to just stay friends because we are in the same social circle and it would be awkward to treat each other differently then the other people. Now all my friends expect me to be depressed, their saying stuff like, "Oh, Hermione, it's okay! I'm here for you if you need to talk blah blah blah..." And this is not the first time I have told a guy I liked him. Why is it such a big deal now? Please help



Hey babe,

Ignore them.  If you're feeling okay, there's no reason to feel the way they think you should.  They probably just think that because they know the whole situation and because he's in your circle, that they're involved more, when they really shouldn't be. Jordan S.

by hermionegirl12 on 5/7/2012 8:07:32 PM

 
 



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so there's this guy that I think may like me but I'm not exactly sure. We were in this play together and backstage he would talk to me and my friends, but there was this scene that mostly all the characters were on stage and then we would come out later. at that time he would always talk to me, make me laugh and stuff. on the second night of our play I started to freak out a lil bit and he came over and started to calm me down and helped me with me lines. I catch him starting at me sometimes too. But the play is over and I don't get to see him much cuz we dont have classes together and it's like somedays he doesn't talk to me and then others he does. I'm not sure if I like him either, it's like wen he doesn't talk to me I sorta like him and wen he does talk to me I want to be friends. I'm so confused sorry this was long. Thanks!!




Hey girlie,

Try being a little more out-going and getting to know him better as friends! That's the best way to decide between "just friends" and "crush status" - getting closer to him, figuring out if you have chemistry or if you have enough in common, and spending more time talking to him. Add him on Facebook so you can chat, or smile at him in the halls. Make small talk in the lunch line or get your crew to sit next to his at lunch sometime. Ask for his help with homework for a class you've both taken (maybe he did it last year or is in another period) or ask him a question about a club/sports event that he's involved with. Get creative and think of ways you can start short convos with him. This will help you grow closer to him, figure out your feelings, and will also keep you on his mind - which is great if you end up liking him for sure Smile
Lauren C.

by forevercolors on 5/5/2012 10:59:13 PM

 
 



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thank you so much...i'm going to go for it! <3




You're welcome, babe! We're here for ya anytime! Smile 
Lauren C.

by Alykat18 on 5/5/2012 10:50:58 PM

 
 



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ok this is really something i need to talk about. ok there is this boy. i use to hate him. untill last year we became friends...best friends actlly. i talk to him everyday and well sometime we will admit to eachother that we like eachother but then i freak out and say no we r just friends. mainly cause he isn't cute and i'm afraid of what people will think(mainly my mom) but then i'll start thinking about what a great guy he is and i really think that i should give it a shot but i'm just afraid i will make things awkard and i'm afraid of what my mom will say just pleaasee help!! thanks...




Hey girlie,

You can't make decisions about love based on what other people will think! You have to do what is right for YOU. If he's a great guy, who has lots in common with you, who treats you with respect, makes you laugh, makes you happy... go for it! It's normal to judge people a LITTLE bit based on appearances, but what's underneath matters so much more. Since you know him well and you really like him, the right thing to do is to admit that to yourself - and don't let the opinions of others get in the way of that Smile Plus, if you really like him, you can tell your mom all of his wonderful qualities and how he treats you well. She'll care so much more about that than his looks! 
Lauren C.

by Alykat18 on 5/5/2012 10:38:33 PM

 
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