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Dear Guilty Pleasure,

Nothing is wrong with you, and it’s not really even wrong to like your friend’s boyfriend. In fact, it’s fairly common since a bud’s BF is easy to get to know. But it would be wrong to act on your feelings. Don’t flirt, and don’t confess all. Instead, be patient and keep your eyes open. Think of a guy in your school you’d like to know better. Say “hi” to him tomorrow and, soon, you may be thinking about him instead of a boy who is taken.

BY CAROL WESTON ON 5/9/2012 12:00:00 AM

My problem soo relates to this article! Well my younger sister did a 2 week sailing camp this year and it was the last day recently. I have a couple of friends who did the same camp. My friend who did it told me she liked this certain guy and thought he liked her back. She has gone out with like 5 people before and has liked a ton of guys. I have gone out with 0 and have liked a decent amount of guys. (Relationships never last in my school) Anyway he was leaving and my other friend went up to him a told him that my friend liked him. The friend who likes the kid turned bright red and she told me she was about to pass out. He left and he came back 4 her! He said "By (Friends name)" in a really sweet way. I like him now! NO OTHER GUY I KNOW WOULD DO THAT! She said she never wants to see him again. She has liked so many people before. I would NEVER steal someone away from her though. I have never got that good feeling about a guy before. One of my other friend said he would like me better.

by bridget.murphy134 on 8/11/2012 3:39:01 PM

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Ok, so i've been crushing on my best friends boyfriend, and i haven't told anyone because i didn't want her to find out. I don't know what i should do! My friend says he likes me because he is always looking over at me and talking to me more than his girlfriend. She says we would be a great couple together, and his gf was saying to me that she needs to date someone taller that her, which he is not!!!!!! Help, I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!

Hey babe, I know it's hard, but ya just gotta keep your hands off. Even if your bestie breaks up with this guy, you shouldn't go out with him. Your best friend is more important than any guy, and even if she said she was over him one day, chances are she'd still get super jealous if you dated him. So skip the drama and find a new guy.

Carrie R.

by LaxLover12 on 6/20/2012 2:46:18 PM

Hey pianist915, mhmm I'm not sure. Maybe he's changed since he has come back from his new school. Forget this guy, if he wants to be rude who needs him? You can do so much better girl! Xoxo

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im in 7th grade and theres this guy and ive been in school with him forever and he left for a year to go somewhere else becuase he got excepted into a really good school and then one day last year he came back for a day to see my school because he ws coming back and i realized i missed him. ALOT. so its been like 2 years since ive talked to him and i sit behind him in class now and i said hi and he just completely ignored me, as usual, What gives?!?!? Lynae P.

by pianist915 on 5/19/2012 3:28:26 PM

Can someone help? i have a boyfriend and tomorrow it will be our 9month!!! the other day he got kinda mad at me because I'm too much of a flirt. all my friends agree with my flirty problem. i can't help it though! it alwas makes sad and angry what do i do?!

by kayscout on 5/13/2012 9:47:32 PM

Hey misstomboy101, I'm sure it's not to late to get back wiith him. If he really loves you he'll jump at the chance to date you again. So call him up, apologize and see where he wants to take things. Hope this helps!! Xoxo

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I dumped my boyfriend but while I was leaving afteri dumped him he said that he loved me! What should I do? I am mad at him cause he said 20/100 he likes my friend but I still like him!!
HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP!!!! Lynae P.

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