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I think I like my BFF’s BF. He’s into everything I’m into. I can’t stop thinking about him. What’s wrong with me?

 

Dear Guilty Pleasure,

Nothing is wrong with you, and it’s not really even wrong to like your friend’s boyfriend. In fact, it’s fairly common since a bud’s BF is easy to get to know. But it would be wrong to act on your feelings. Don’t flirt, and don’t confess all. Instead, be patient and keep your eyes open. Think of a guy in your school you’d like to know better. Say “hi” to him tomorrow and, soon, you may be thinking about him instead of a boy who is taken.
 
 
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by Princess Keziyah on 5/10/2012 11:00:04 AM

 
 



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Okay, so there's the big dance coming up in about a month and guys have already started asking girls. The prob isn't I'm afraid I won't get asked (though it does worry me) its the fact that my kinda 'bf' might ask me, but the dance is right before the last day of school where I plan to breakup with him (I don't have feelings, I'm shy, and he's going to another rival high school). What if he asks me? What should I say?
Please help!




Hey girl!

Eek-dances can be way stressful! It sounds like this guy is your boyfriend, so he is probably going to ask you (who can blame him?!). You should make your feelings clear now to avoid confusion later on. Try saying, "I think it's best we break up for the summer, but why not enjoy one last dance together?". That way you'll both be on the same page. Or if that sounds too complicated, why not go to the dance solo? You can jam out with whomever you want and not worry about being tied down. 

Have a blast!


 

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by emmyie11 on 5/10/2012 6:10:39 AM

 
 



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I have had my period for a few months. anyway sometimes i have a feeling it has leaked out of my pad and onto my pants, sometimes it really has. How do I prevent it? and i do change it pretty regularly, but at school I just leave it in unless i have an extremely bad feeling. whats up? and can i reduce discharge when I'm not on it?

 

You need to change it regularly at school too. Its important to prevent leaks. And no theres no way to reduce discharge. xoxo kerra 


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by way2qt4u on 5/9/2012 10:42:19 PM

 
 



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Ok. My BFF are getting along but she said that when she went to the park she saw josh Mauricio Ryan (bf) and another girl named Maddie I never heard of a Maddie. Ryan told my BFF that him and Maddie hang out when ryan is alone .BFF says that " she is kinda pretty but not as pretty as me" her words not mine. BFF said that Maddie is a girly girl and she also said that Maddie said that she would be a loyal and grateful girlfriend. I found this out 10 minutes ago and I'm still crying
Frown Frown Frown Frown Frown this hurts so bad and my BFF said that he might be replacing me with maddie

 

I would talk to your boyfriend about it. He'll be able to clear up this issue. Plus its always important to be honest about your feelings with your BF. But dont overreact! Just because he was seen with some girl doesn't mean he's dumping you. Just relax and then ask your BF. xoxo kerra 


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by misstomboy1 on 5/9/2012 10:01:56 PM

 
 



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i dont know if you already got this, but sometimes my comments don't show up so im submitting it again, sry. theres this guy i really really like. we always talk and he makes me happy and he says i make him happy. we talk about making summer plans and i love being around him and im so comfortable around him. but he has a girlfriend, hes a grade younger, and we wouldnt go to the same high school anyways. i could care less about all of that. i really care about him and want to see what it would be like if he was mine for once, instead of someone elses. what am i supposed to do? hang on through summer? then give up? thanks a ton Smile

 

Well he has a girlfriend. So hes off limits. I know you car for him. But imagine if he was your boyfriend and another girl came around and tried to steal him. Wouldnt you be angry and hurt? Dont do that to his gf. You two can be friends. But dont do anything to hurt his relationship. xoxo kerra 


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