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Why are guys so hot and cold?


 

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I’ll be talking to one of my guy friends about his GF, and he’ll tell me how much he likes her, how cool she is, blah blah blah. The next week, he tells me he’s lost interest and is breaking up with her. And nothing has happened—she’s the same girl! How can guys like a girl one week and not like her the next for no reason?


Dave: Who says we have to have a reason? Guys can be hot and cold when it comes to relationships. Sometimes, we like the security of knowing we always have someone to hang with. But being with the same person can do a couple of things to the male psyche. First off, it can be boring. Same girl, same stuff, same One Direction posters on her wall. Second, steady companionship can be scary—an intimidating jump from being with your core group of guys to kickin’ it with the same girl all the time. We need a break here and there. Normally, a few days with the guys has us longing for our gal. And the cycle starts all over again.…Arrrgh, if I have to see that Harry Style dude’s face one more time!


Bill: I’ll tell you why guys are so fickle at times, if you’ll tell me why so many cool girls go ga-ga over creeps. The point is that logic takes a vacation in matters of the heart. When logic comes back, the heart usually hits the road. The enduring dilemma of love!
 
 

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BY BILL AND DAVE ON 5/7/2012 9:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, crush crash course, boyfriend Q & A, guy friend Q & A, weird guy stuff

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i think somebody is jealous over harry!

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by asw14 on 5/7/2012 5:59:31 PM

 
 

Ok guys, I'm going to clear up a few issues. I don't think that Dave said it right. I think he meant that boyfriends like their girlfriends and they get bored, but not in the way you think. You don't like to spend everyday with the same person right? They don't want to have to spend every waking hour with you. And no, Dave does not have relationship problems!

For Bill, he didn't mean that our boyfriends are creeps, he meant people like Taylor Lautner and Harry Styles who ARE creeps.

Bill and Dave give awesome advice if you actually listen to what they say and don't think of the absolute WORST thing it could mean. Cut them some slack!

Your awesome advice queen,
Elizabeth (snoodle9)

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by snoodle9 on 5/7/2012 5:53:02 PM

 
 

Please tell me I'm not the only one thinking that Dave is having relationship problems?

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by Dani143 on 5/7/2012 4:34:42 PM

 
 

huh?that doesn't make since

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by VNJ99 on 5/7/2012 4:12:49 PM

 
 

Yea Dave. Sure. It can be BORING being with the same girl! SERIOUSLY?! Did you ever think how that girl feels after he is in love with her one week and breaks up with her the next week?! Then after he breaks up with her and crushes her until he cries he is gonna hang with his guys and then few days later..."Oh I miss her!" Then he gets back together with her and does the same thing over again. NO GUYS DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE LIKE THAT! How many girls do you see like that?! I never see girls playing guys. Gosh. And Bill, who are you to say that girls like creeps. I mean your girlfriend likes you, does that make you a creep?

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