boy I liked for three years asked me out this year and I was soooo excited.
But, we just recently broke up and we still like each other… sometimes. One day
I like him next, I hate him. He is really mean and does some crazy things, but
when we started dating it was almost too good too be true! I don't know what to
do! Date or ditch? Help!
If it felt too good to be true that is probably because it
was! No relationship is perfect but it sounds like you guys had quite a few
problems. If you like him one day and hate him the next, you probably still do
have feelings for him, but that doesn’t mean you need to act on them. If he is
mean and acts crazy then you should not be dating him. He needs to mature more
before he is in a relationship with anyone and you deserve someone who won’t
give you an emotional roller coaster.
I would say it’s time to ditch the ex-boy toy and chill out
being single for a while. Go through a coping process so you can fully get over
him. Pamper yourself, have a girls night, go shopping, or do anything that gets
your mind off of him. Think about the qualities you really like having in a
boyfriend and once you are ready to date again look for a guy who will treat
Break ups happen and they are a typical part of growing up.
Knowing what you don’t like in a guy will help you discover what you do like in
a guy. Think of this as a learning experience and move better things.
BY AMANDA POOLE ON 5/13/2012 12:00:00 AM
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