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My BF and I have been going out for a month, and we haven’t even held hands. I want to take it slow, but all my friends are already kissing their BFs. He and I talk a lot, but I don’t know if I should make the first move.

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If you want to reach for his hand, go ahead. But since you’re not sure, why pressure yourself? It really is fine to relax instead of rush. And it’s smart not to let your friends set the pace for your romantic life. It’s also smart to take the time to get to know each other. Kisses mean more when you wait for them.

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 5/16/2012 11:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, kissing crash course, pressure to get physical

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there is a formal dance for the eighth graders at my school. There is this boy i want to go with but idk how to askhim without sounding desperate or anything.
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Anna

Hey girl, if you're friends with him, casually bring it up in a conversation. See if he's going. If he says he is, ask him if he's going with anyone already. If he's not, then ask him if he wants to go with you! Just like that. Go for it!