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I've always dreamed of my first kiss being wonderful. But a couple days ago, my boyfriend kissed me and it was kind of nasty because he shoved his tongue down my throat. Then he said I was an OK kisser for a first-timer. I felt insulted. I want to break up with him, but I can't get the words out. My other plan was to make him want to break up with me, but it’s not working. What should I do?


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Breaking up is tough, but it’s better than staying in an uncomfortable romance with an insensitive guy. You want out, so let him know. In person or on the phone, say, "We’ve had fun, but this isn’t working. Let’s go back to being friends, OK?" Once you’ve let him go, don't second-guess your actions. Instead, have faith that your next kiss, whenever that might be, will have more sparkle. And it will be a first kiss with someone new.
 
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 5/23/2012 12:00:00 PM

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My crush and I almost kissed this summer, but we both kinda chickened out Frown

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by iloveballet&singing on 11/16/2012 6:58:32 PM

 
 

Remeber never try to make him dumb you if you dont like him just dumb him especially he could spread rumors about you when you were trying to make him break up with you

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by zania on 7/15/2012 4:36:36 AM

 
 



MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD!MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD!MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! Ok, I'm going into high school this year and, this is really embarassing, but I have never been asked out- no one knows but me( cuz I have told everyone who asked me that I have) I'm REALLY behind and this is driving me crazy! I know I should expect this since I am so shy around guys i like and pretty much avoid them, but I'm ready for something, anything. Help!

 

Hey girlie,

I know you feel totally behind (especially compared to your friends), but the truth is... you're not! It's totally normal to start high school never being asked out, never being kissed, whatever. The timing has to be right for that to happen - there has to be someone around that you like enough to want to date, and he has to like you, and you have to be allowed to date, and you have to get to know each other enough for dating not to seem weird... basically, a whole bunch of things have to "line up" to make that happen. And it's completely normal if that hasn't happened yet! Try not to stress out too much about it. Just focus on adjusting to high school, meeting new people, and talking to new guys. Be open with them, be yourself, get involved in clubs/sports, and don't forget to be out-going if you see someone (boy or girl) that you want to get to know better. If you expand your social circle and make an effort to get to know everyone, you'll be in great shape for scoring your first big date Smile


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by theatrenerddd on 7/15/2012 1:31:16 AM

 
 

My boyfriend has told my friends that he wanted to kiss me , but he hasn't and I'm really scared. This will be my first kiss and I just don't know what to do Frown

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by Hannahp11 on 6/23/2012 11:02:26 PM

 
 



***MOD!MOD!MOD!***
This is probably really wierd, but, My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 months and.. I really want him to kiss me.. He's said he wants to too, but he still hasn't.. I'm waaayyyy too timid to kiss him (plus, I've never kissed anyone before) and he's pretty shy too, do you have any advice on how I can get him to kiss me?
please answer..
thanks Smile




Hey babe,

You can't really force him to unless you take the initiative and kiss him yourself.  You're gonna have to talk to him about it or set up an ideal situation in which he might feel like it's a good time. 
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by thecheergirl98 on 6/6/2012 7:15:04 PM

 
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