SIGN UP
FORGOT MY PASSWORD
GUYS

What he really thinks of your fave summer outfit

MORE
  • GUYS MAIN
  • GET A BF
    • CRUSH MUCH?
    • ICE BREAKERS
  • DATING 101
    • DUDES DECODED
    • CUTE DATE IDEAS
    • SPLITSVILLE
  • ASK BILL & DAVE
  • DEAR CAROL
  • WHAT GUYS THINK
  • SWEETIE
  • MEANIE
ADVICE

My dad is sexually abusing me. How can I tell my mom?

MORE
  • ADVICE MAIN
  • IN THE NEWS
  • DEAR CAROL
  • FAMILY
  • FRIENDS
  • SCHOOL
  • TOUGH STUFF
  • ON THE JOB
    • GET STARTED
    • BABYSITTING
    • GOAL GETTER
    • DREAM JOB
  • DO GOOD
    • GET INSPIRED
    • TAKE ACTION
FUN STUFF

25 things to do before school lets out

MORE
  • FUN STUFF MAIN
  • STAR SIGNS
  • BLUSH MUCH?
  • SURVEY SAYS
  • CLUBS
  • ADVICE QUEENS
  • CRAFTS
  • RECIPES
  • CONTESTS
  • WINNERS
  • ROCK YOUR WEEKEND
  • YOU WROTE IT
ENTERTAINMENT

Tune up your summer concert wardrobe with these picks

MORE
  • ENTERTAINMENT MAIN
  • GOSSIP
  • STAR STYLE
  • GL EXCLUSIVES
  • EDITOR'S PICKS
  • BOOK CLUB
STYLE

Ed. obsession under $20: Primp out your keyboard

MORE
  • STYLE MAIN
  • FASHION
    • CUTE & CHEAP
    • STYLE 911
    • TRENDS WE HEART
  • BEAUTY
    • BEAUTY SPY
    • BEAUTY TRENDS
    • BEAUTY 911
    • HAIR STYLES
    • HAIR TIPS
    • SKINCARE
  • HOW TO
  • FAB UP YOUR LIFE
HEALTH & FITNESS

6 graphic tees to get ya movin'

MORE
  • HEALTH & FITNESS MAIN
  • WORKOUTS
  • RECIPES
  • EAT RIGHT
  • HEALTHY STUFF WE HEART
  • YOUR BOD
    • SKIN
    • HAIR
    • BOOBS
    • DOWN THERE
    • PERIODS, PERIOD
    • EVERYTHING ELSE
QUIZZES

Are you a 'fraidy cat?

MORE
MAG

Show some #GLcrew love, babes!

MORE
  • MAG MAIN
  • INSIDE THIS ISSUE
  • COVER SHOOT
  • BEHIND THE SCENES
  • BE IN THE MAG
  • EDITOR'S BLOG
  • OUR BOOKS
  • ABOUT US
VIDEO

Bella Thorne rocks WAT-AAH!'s Move Your Body Flash Mob

MORE
avatar

Allie S.

is modding

Caroline M.

is modding

avatar

Hannah M

is modding

Lynae P.

is modding

 
 
 

GL PROFILES

More Friends = More Fun

MY ACCOUNT

MY PROFILE

CREATE A PROFILE

 
 

GL
Tweets !

8 HOURS AGO Are you a creative chica? Get started in the 30 day craft challenge!: Click Here!

9 HOURS AGO 4 things you might not know are killing your cardio workout: Click Here!

9 HOURS AGO Attention glossy girls: Tweet your #LipSmackerLove for the chance to win a new @Lip_Smacker gloss.

 
 
 
Girl's Life Newsletters

sponsored links

GUYS | DEAR CAROL

38 Comments | Add Yours

My first kiss was a major letdown


 

Check these out, too...

  • Help! My BF told everyone we kissed--but we didn't!
  • Look. Love. Repeat.
  • Do long distance relationships work?
  • What he really thinks of your fave summer outfit
I've always dreamed of my first kiss being wonderful. But a couple days ago, my boyfriend kissed me and it was kind of nasty because he shoved his tongue down my throat. Then he said I was an OK kisser for a first-timer. I felt insulted. I want to break up with him, but I can't get the words out. My other plan was to make him want to break up with me, but it’s not working. What should I do?


Dear Wants to be Single,

Breaking up is tough, but it’s better than staying in an uncomfortable romance with an insensitive guy. You want out, so let him know. In person or on the phone, say, "We’ve had fun, but this isn’t working. Let’s go back to being friends, OK?" Once you’ve let him go, don't second-guess your actions. Instead, have faith that your next kiss, whenever that might be, will have more sparkle. And it will be a first kiss with someone new.
 
 
SERIOUS STUFF? For serious issues, don’t wait. Visit our HELP! page now.
For more on Carol Weston, visit her website: carolweston.com or like her Facebook page.
 
To order Girltalk: All the Stuff Your Sister Never Told You, click here.

To order The Diary of Melanie Martin, click here.
 
 

Love this post? You’ll heart these, too!

» Dates he really wants to go on

» Aww! Cute guys doin' sweet things

» Talk about hot: The boys we're crushing on all summer long

 

WIN BIG! Score a sizzlin' summer wardrobe from Mambo Australia

Want more ways to get GL? Like us on Facebook or follow us on Twitter, Pinterest and Tumblr!

BY CAROL WESTON ON 5/23/2012 12:00:00 PM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, kissing crash course, first-kiss freak-out, mean, pressure to get physical, too far too fast, dealing with a breakup

< PREVIOUS   NEXT >   

Previous1…2345678NextShow All
38 Comments | Add Yours
SORT: OLDEST FIRST | NEWEST FIRST
 

my first kiss wasn't extravagant but it also wasn't like that, it was just a simple cute kiss

report

by Tiger Lily on 5/23/2012 11:27:49 PM

 
 



Mod Mod Mod!!!! ok so i just found out that my boyfriend has some friends who are girls that are sluts! I talked to him about it and he told me that they just recently became like that. He thinks that are sluts too. Worst thing is he told me that they don't like me because I'm his GF and they like him. Weird thing is they have BFs and they are pretty intimate or act intimate with them. I'm confused and I don't know how to deal with this. Thanks




As long as your relationship with your boyfriend is healthy you do not need to worry about the other girls. It is good that you and your boyfriend can talk about your concerns and that he agrees with you. Stay true to who you are and do not let their behavior confuse you or influence they way you act. Focus on your relationship and everything will work out for the better. Good Luck! xoxo Kerra 
Kerra S.

report

by Tiger Lily on 5/23/2012 10:39:06 PM

 
 



MODMODMOD
I got my period on the 19th last month, and didnt get it yet. I think I have an infection down there because my discharge is stinky and green and it itches all the time. I dont want to get it treated. Could this cause my menstruation to be late?




Your period can be very irregular within the first couple years of it starting so do not worry if you are a couple of days late. It sounds like you may urinary track infection and yes this could be the cause of your late period. Unfortunately it will only continue to get more uncomfortable if left untreated. Do not feel embarrassed to talk to a parent or doctor about this as vaginal infections are very common among girls! Your doctor will be able to give you antibiotics that can have the infection gone within a couple of days! You can also try drinking cranberry juice, this can help if you do have a urinary track infection. If you do have an infection you really do need to talk to a doctor before the infection spreads. Again, this is not something to be embarrassed about as it really is common. Good luck! xoxo Kerra 



 

Kerra S.

report

by futurewriter16 on 5/23/2012 9:56:28 PM

 
 

Gross. And sad that your first kiss was ruined..

report

by curlygirl16 on 5/23/2012 9:48:02 PM

 
 

That's gross and rude. Sorry about that Frown

report

by unicornninja on 5/23/2012 8:27:37 PM

 
Previous1…2345678NextShow All
You must be signed in to post a comment. SIGN IN or REGISTER

ADD A COMMENT


 

 

 

  • RENEW
  • SUBSCRIBE
  • GIVE A GIFT
  • DIGITAL EDITIONS
  • ACCOUNT STATUS
 
Got beautiful weather? You're spending spring's sunny days...



 
 
WIN
TODAY
GRAND
PRIZE
GIVEAWAY
CALENDAR
Strawberry Cheesecake

Flavor: Get the perfect mix of fresh fruit and creamy cake with this delish gloss.

Fab Fact: First introduced in 1999, this fave flave was brought back in 2010 by popular demand.

Are you and your guy meant to be? Select your sign first then his to find out if the stars see love in your future!
YOU
YOUR CRUSH

Write your roots...and win a vacay for the fam!


Every family—and every girl—has an incredible story. Discover, write and share yours
to win an epic vacay for your fam!

CLICK HERE to enter GL’s
Write Your Roots! contest
 
Posts From Our Friends

sponsored links

  • About Us
  • Advertise
  • Privacy
  • Terms & Conditions
  • Home
  • Free Newsletters
  • Subscribe
  • Give a Gift
  • Renew

  • Model for GL
  • Pay Bill
  • Questions?
  • Contact Us
  • © 2013 Girls' Life Acquisition Co. All Rights Reserved.