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I've always dreamed of my first kiss being wonderful. But a couple days ago, my boyfriend kissed me and it was kind of nasty because he shoved his tongue down my throat. Then he said I was an OK kisser for a first-timer. I felt insulted. I want to break up with him, but I can't get the words out. My other plan was to make him want to break up with me, but it’s not working. What should I do?


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Breaking up is tough, but it’s better than staying in an uncomfortable romance with an insensitive guy. You want out, so let him know. In person or on the phone, say, "We’ve had fun, but this isn’t working. Let’s go back to being friends, OK?" Once you’ve let him go, don't second-guess your actions. Instead, have faith that your next kiss, whenever that might be, will have more sparkle. And it will be a first kiss with someone new.
 
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 5/23/2012 12:00:00 PM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, kissing crash course, first-kiss freak-out, mean, pressure to get physical, too far too fast, dealing with a breakup

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Mod Mod I like this guy from work I think he likes me too as a friend at least because when he took his break he came back up where I was and talked to me and then when I went on my break he followed me and talked but he's kinda shy so we just became friends on facebook would it be alright if I sent him my number in.a message on facebook and said text me sometime? Or would that be to bold? Thanks much mod

 

Hey girl, no I think that's fine! Or you can just chat him on facebook and start there? That might be easier. 


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by Colorful1 on 5/23/2012 8:22:50 PM

 
 



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I need help keeping healthy. I always try goals but I can never keep at it! Iv'e always been stick skinny and now im getting bigger. I want to start eating healthy foods but idk what to eat! (and what foods make your breath stink and what make it smell good?) I understand if you cant answer all my questions thankyou!!

 

Hey girl, try and eat from all the food groups and keep healthy proportions of each. If you're working out, be sure to eat lots of proteins to help your muscle groups! Also, if you're craving sweets, eat fruit! Those are the good sugars that taste good and are good for you. Honestly, I would just do a good search for stinky foods, but stay away from garlic, that stuff makes people smelly for too long! 


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by chick987 on 5/23/2012 8:00:41 PM

 
 

i hope my first kiss isnt like that! gross!

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by fearless;) on 5/23/2012 7:05:32 PM

 
 

hey girl,

when i kissed a guy for the first time he texted me a couple hours later saying i did it wrong! how embarassing! dont let this guy get you down! hahahah there are other girls out there like me who had the same thing happen!

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by gozuko4740 on 5/23/2012 6:33:39 PM

 
 



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Hey again Smile I am usually WAY to nervous to call him! Any tips? Thanks Smile

 

 Hey girl, if you're too nervous to call right away, text! Or maybe contact him through Facebook. It's always easier to build confidence through text than voice. Then when you're ready give it a go and call! 
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by xXMissBehavedXx on 5/23/2012 5:58:33 PM

 
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