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Two of my favorite things about being an adult are that we
don’t mind when friends have other friends and that no one tries to rub it in.
Have you really been betrayed? Your sister didn’t steal your boyfriend. Your
parents didn’t give away your room. Your neighbor didn’t post your secrets on
Facebook. True, your friend made another friend, but that’s not so bad—what’s
bat is that she’s boasting about it and that you’re letting it get to you.
Try to be honest with her and say, “Look, I know you’re
excited to see your camp friend, but enough already.” Also, why not work harder
to make your own new friends? Even if it’s too late to join chorus or try out
for the play, it’s never too late to say hi to a girl in chemistry lab or
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 5/25/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN bust my bestie problem, dear carol solves BFF probs, growing apart, how can I make new friends, dealing with jealousy, I'm feeling left out
by tigersfan40 on 8/27/2012 7:48:53 PM
Yes! And make sure to get your point across.
Hey this friend of yours
Made you betray me
Forget about her
Or I'll tell mommy
by peppercyndaquil13 on 8/20/2012 6:18:35 PM
I'm in a similiar situation, except I made the new friend. I met her online, and I consider her my best friend. I get along with her way better than my school friends, and yes I talk about her to them. Does she act the same around you, except for mentioning her friend? If so, I don't see the problem.
by FatDancingPanda on 6/23/2012 3:08:15 PM
I think you should talk to your friend about this. It is prob a misunderstanding between you and your friend.
by Lexrox13 on 6/20/2012 8:07:37 PM
Just going into Middle School?
Don't know what's the trend?
Love is coming your way?
Friends pretending they're not?
You people need me I'm fun and very stylish and has had TONS of experience with friends. Middle School isn't a deal ITS A BIG ONE join now! :0
by GeenieD on 6/14/2012 9:20:14 PM
I understand what your going through i have two best friends and sometimes they make me feel jealous by running off together and they always call each other before me like one time i was face timing one of my bff's and the other called her so she just hung up on me and didnt call back so i down i agree with carol
by mackandally on 6/14/2012 5:30:12 PM
my bff goes to camp with her other best friend but i dont see how it matters i have other friends too its not the end of the world maybe you should try making other friends.
by Miepster99 on 6/8/2012 1:32:20 PM
okay so i have a friend,lets call her penny, who is a decent friend to me but it always seems like im always trying to prove to her that im good enough, but when she is around her friends she seems to become the one reaching for the other girls approval. I wasnt invited to one of my friends birthday party, but penny was. Penny keeps messaging me on facebook rubbing it in my face. the day before i was joking and told penny on fb that the girl who didnt invite me hated me. the day of the party penny started messaging me, and im positive that she showed the girl hosting the party my message. Today I messaged her and said "you showed Livie the message i sent you a couple days ago, right?" after about 15 minutes of convo, she never answered after this. What is going on?
by sakeluvz on 6/6/2012 11:29:29 PM
Hey anikadandekar, let them know you don't want anymore of their suggestions, and when they say stuff like "do you want to look bad?", reply with "I want to look the way I want to look not the way you want me to". You could also try ignoring them and changing the subject when they start commenting on your outfits. And give them tips on their ensembles every once in while so they can see how it feels. Hope this helps! Xoxo
okay this is my sitch- my so my so-called "friends"
always tell me what i should change about my clothes. For example, say i wear my shirt tucked into my skirt one day they'll say "Untuck ur shirt it doesnt look good" they always pretend like their trying to give a friendly suggestion but their actually hurting my feelings. And i have tried to tell them "thanks for the suggestion but i like it this way" but then they keep on saying stuff like "it looks bad, do you want to look bad?" Untuck it" this stuff happens almost everyday and i dont really like it what do i do? Lynae P.
by anikadandekar on 6/5/2012 8:09:48 PM
how do u become an advice queen? also do the advice queens anwser MOD questions? i would luv to become one! LUV U ALL
by lizzierox on 6/5/2012 4:54:30 PM
by TheMentalistgurl on 6/5/2012 2:39:26 PM
how do you know if a mod has answered a question
You gotta' go back to the page/article you asked it on and if it's there, it should have a mod answer. If it's not there, then they likely haven't gotten a chance to answer that one. Jordan S.
by Beachlover1417 on 6/4/2012 11:45:45 PM
hey how do you join the mod group that anwsers peoples questions? id really like to join! luv u all lizzie
by lizzierox on 6/4/2012 4:30:32 PM
Hey Makeup Artist #1, yep you can become a moderator by getting an internship through GL. Click this link to find out more about internships. Good luck!
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thx Lynae P.
by Makeup Artist #1 on 6/2/2012 4:33:24 PM
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by texgirl12345 on 5/30/2012 6:56:28 PM
Hello, good students! If you get good grades and want to KEEP getting good grades or are trying to get better grades, you should join the club, HOW TO BE AN A STUDENT! We will talk about tips and studying together. Together, we can all be A students!
by Glitterheart16 on 5/26/2012 9:07:35 PM
Hey StellaBella101, no there's nothing wrong with you. It's completely normal to have feelings for a girl, especially if you're really close to her. I think it's sweet that you care about her so much. Some people aren't lucky enough to have friends like you in their life. Is there anyone else you're interested in? Xoxo
MOD MOD MOD!!!!
I have a huge crush on my girl best friend. I'm bi. I think I live her so I stayed away from her but my feelings didn't go away and I became suicidal. After months I finally apologized to her and we talk again. I know she's straight and who she likes and she knows I'm bi but not who I like. I decided that even If it is killin me on the inside thy she doesn't like me I will be her friend and make sure a guy likes her as humanly close as I like her. Are these feelings okay or is there something wrong with me? Lynae P.
by Stellabella101 on 5/26/2012 3:07:27 PM
by New_York_City on 5/25/2012 11:04:24 PM
by Effervescent on 5/25/2012 10:39:01 PM
by pinkguitar98 on 5/25/2012 9:49:31 PM
Anyone else see the typo? "What's bat is that she was boasting about it..." I'm pretty sure it's supposed to say bad not bat.
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by artistchic99 on 5/25/2012 5:45:04 PM
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by ziirnn on 5/25/2012 4:57:35 PM
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