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7 real girl rules for rocking that summer fling thing

 

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We surveyed 3,324 girls ‘n’ guys for our summer love feature. You can grab all the juicy details on the ins and outs of a sizzlin’ summer romance in our June/July 2012 issue, on stands now, but we saved a few tidbits just for you. Here are seven dos and don’ts to make your seasonal fling totally sweet.

 

 

Do…work those digits

Best way to contact your crush? 64 percent say texting takes the cake—and gets the guy.

 

Don’t…be shy

Nearly half of all girls surveyed say a girl asking a guy out is totally awesome. And yeah, 40 percent say it’s awkward. But go for it anyway!

 

Do…make the most of every single day

Most girls and guys surveyed said watching the sunset is way more romantic than catching fireworks on the Fourth of July. That means you have three months of summer nights to cross that seriously sweet moment off your bucket list.

 

Don’t…try to juggle

Even if your summer romance is nothin’ serious, three out of every four girls surveyed said seeing two or more boys at the same time is a major no-no.

 

Do…keep your eyes open

Look around. See the guys lurking everywhere you go? Funny thing about summer sweeties—you can find them anywhere and everywhere. Chat up a cutie at the grocery store. Ask a soccer star for pointers at camp. All you’ve gotta do to get the ball rolling is say hi.

 

Don’t…be afraid to be funny

Dudes dig girls with a sense of humor—and we know you know that, but now’s the time to show it! Whether you truly have an ace knock-knock up your sleeve or just some so-awful-they’re-amazing pick-up lines to share, pull out your best (or best of the worst), offer up a grin and you’ll win him over.

 

Do…be bold

The guys we surveyed said they wished a girl would come up to them and just tell ‘em straight-out how they felt. So pluck up the courage to tell your crush you think he’s cute, already!

 

What summer love rule do you live by, lovelies?
 
 

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MOD MOD MOD okay so i just met this really awesome guy at the beach and i want it to be just a summer fling but i'm not sure if he understands that because he keeps talking about long relationships so how do i tell him or hint that once school starts i don't want a difficult long distance relationship????

 

Hey girl!

That's pretty tough, but you have to be honest. Just tell him that you're having a total blast with him this summer and you're so happy you met him. But say that you're just not really interested in having a long distance relationship during the school year because you know you'll both be super busy. Every guy is different so there's no telling exactly how he'll take it. 


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MOD MOD MOD So I was dating this guy and I really liked him. We really clicked and he was one of those guys that won't hurt you like the rest. We're going into 8th grade and he's switching schools. He texted me a few days ago saying that he doesn't think it'd work out. He said its not really breaking up, but more like taking a break. But I know he's just saying that. He didn't even see how the long distance relationship would have worked he just gave up on the whole thing. He didn't try to save what we had. Was he just another one of the bad guys we've all dated? This was my longest relationship that I was happy with. How do I get over this?




Hey girlie,

Just because he is looking at the situation in a different way doesn't mean he's bad! He made you happy for a while and, if he wasn't switching schools, you might still be together so this wasn't a bad choice you made or any reflection of you <3 Everyone is different, and he's probably thinking about how hard the long distance will be. Especially since he's young, he probably wants to fully experience his new school without feeling like he is being pulled back to his old school. He's probably trying to give himself a fresh start - which stings right now because you don't want to break up, but actually makes a lot of sense. It's just that timing means a LOT in a relationship. There are sooo many things that have to jive together, and it isn't smart to force it if something is getting in the way - if one person is in a relationship with someone else, if you don't share each other's feelings, if distance is going to make things difficult, if your needs aren't the same or your goals for that time in your life don't match up. I know it's tough to think about, but a relationship is like a team - and if the goal of each teammate isn't the same, the team won't work. Since this was your longest relationship yet, it's going to just take time to put this behind you. You don't have to forget about him - but you WILL realize that you can live happily without him, and that there are other guys out there. It's normal to feel upset about it and it's normal to wish things worked out differently. But you can do this! <3
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by CristinaHoran on 7/11/2012 12:30:43 AM

 
 

so i like this dude who was in my P.E class. he talked to me every once and a while. anyways hge was friends with my bff. i was always afraid to talk to him. now that its summer i think about him alot.should i ask him out this year?????? HELP!!!!

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by thattaylorgirl6 on 7/10/2012 8:22:27 PM

 
 



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heyyy again so theres this lifeguard at this waterpark and its like a hotel thing and i was like just playing with the water and i turned and he was staring the whole time and smiled then i saw him again and he smiled randomly and kept staring then theres this other lifeguard and he remembers me from last year when i helped with a safety test and he would stare at me and now he does again lol idk but my friends think they like me wat do u think or r they just being nice because i dont really smile or anything at them




Hey girlie,

We can't be sure because we don't know him personally, but it totally sounds like he's checking you out! Do you like him? Think he's cute? If so, try stopping by next time and saying what's up. Have a casual convo with him, flirt a little, get to know him and see where it goes Smile  
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by thepinkyyyyyyyyy on 7/9/2012 9:15:34 PM

 
 



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hey! so anyways theres this guy tht copied my number an stuff nd he usually stares at me but he told my friend that he likes my hair and eyecolor and thinks im sweet and that was what he looked for in a girl, do you think he likes me?
thankyaaaaa very much

 

Hey! There's no one way to tell if someone likes you, but if you wait it out it might just become too obvious not to know ;) 


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