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7 real girl rules for rocking that summer fling thing

 

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We surveyed 3,324 girls ‘n’ guys for our summer love feature. You can grab all the juicy details on the ins and outs of a sizzlin’ summer romance in our June/July 2012 issue, on stands now, but we saved a few tidbits just for you. Here are seven dos and don’ts to make your seasonal fling totally sweet.

 

 

Do…work those digits

Best way to contact your crush? 64 percent say texting takes the cake—and gets the guy.

 

Don’t…be shy

Nearly half of all girls surveyed say a girl asking a guy out is totally awesome. And yeah, 40 percent say it’s awkward. But go for it anyway!

 

Do…make the most of every single day

Most girls and guys surveyed said watching the sunset is way more romantic than catching fireworks on the Fourth of July. That means you have three months of summer nights to cross that seriously sweet moment off your bucket list.

 

Don’t…try to juggle

Even if your summer romance is nothin’ serious, three out of every four girls surveyed said seeing two or more boys at the same time is a major no-no.

 

Do…keep your eyes open

Look around. See the guys lurking everywhere you go? Funny thing about summer sweeties—you can find them anywhere and everywhere. Chat up a cutie at the grocery store. Ask a soccer star for pointers at camp. All you’ve gotta do to get the ball rolling is say hi.

 

Don’t…be afraid to be funny

Dudes dig girls with a sense of humor—and we know you know that, but now’s the time to show it! Whether you truly have an ace knock-knock up your sleeve or just some so-awful-they’re-amazing pick-up lines to share, pull out your best (or best of the worst), offer up a grin and you’ll win him over.

 

Do…be bold

The guys we surveyed said they wished a girl would come up to them and just tell ‘em straight-out how they felt. So pluck up the courage to tell your crush you think he’s cute, already!

 

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i've liked the same guy for a little over a year and he rarely texts me and only talks to me in person. And since it's summer we don't talk at all. We aren't really friends either (he wouldn't ask me to hang out). I want him to know how I feel so I can get over him because I'm almost positive he doesn't like me back and I don't want to keep wasting my time. I just don't know if I should tell him because I'm not good with serious stuff and neither is he.




Hey girl!

If you're pretty sure he doesn't like you back and you're not going to see him all summer, maybe you should move on. Focus on your plans for summer and hang out with your friends and family a lot to keep you distracted. Don't worry, there are plenty of great guys out there you WILL like you back too. 
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by freshh123 on 6/11/2012 1:12:51 PM

 
 

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I have a thing with a guy at my school, we flirt all the time and both like each other, but at the end of the week, school will be over. I still want to hang out with him over the summer and I have his number, but I don't know how to get him to ask me out before schools out or if I should just text him over the summer?

Hey girl,

Are you allowed to date, and will you be able to see him over the summer? If you are and want to tell him, you could hang out while you're on break! If not, you could just stay friends over the summer and see what happens when you get back to school Smile

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by dancedancedancee on 6/8/2012 9:59:50 PM

 
 

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ok, so i reallly like this guy...John K. and he's in almost every class i have and he just won the american legion award at my school..so now i like him even more! A bout a month ago i had my friend tell him i like him. He said he just wants to be really good friends with me first and he doesnt want a girlfriend right now...ok ur prob thinking that i should go and become bffs with him but heres the problem. i just fount out that the same friend likes him too, plus another girl, but my friend and him are really good friends...idk what to do....he is smart, funny, and really nice to everybody
p.s- she doesnt know i know she likes him...what should i do HELP ME PLEASE I REALLY REALLY LIKE HIM AND ALL MY FRIENDS SAY WE WUD ME CUTE TOGETHER... i need to get the guy and keep my friend but how?

Hey girl,

If he doesn't like you, is it really worth losing your friend? She probably feels the same way you do! If both of you agree to move on since your friendship is more important, it's fair to both of you and you can stay friends. There will be plenty more guys down the road, so enjoy your friendship and freedom!

Meghan D.

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by divasa on 6/8/2012 7:14:00 PM

 
 



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My friend said that she read online that guys are less likely to date a girl of she has braces, 'cause kissing is uncomfortable...and I have braces. Is this true?
Thanks!




Hey girl,

Believe it or not, kissing with braces is possible. You may have to be a bit more careful so that he doesn't get pinched, but trust me, it doesn't make that much of a difference. No worries! Besides, if a guy doesn't want to kiss you just because you have braces, he's not worth even a peck! 
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by Graciegang on 6/8/2012 2:32:23 PM

 
 



MOD   I like this guy and he likes me we always hang out and talk at the pool text most of the day and he calls me at night and his younger brother was talking to me and said his brother is too shy to ask me out and he said he probably wants me to make the first move since his brother is shy. But what is a first move? I know he likes me since he told me but idk what to do as a first move!




Hey girl!

Have you tried telling him that you like him too? Maybe he's unsure, which makes him even more hesitant to make the first move. If he knows he won't be rejected, then maybe he'll make a move. Next time you're hanging out, just do something to show him you really care. Just a hug or a cute nudge on his arm will show your interest. 
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