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10 ways to K.I.T. with your crush over summer


 

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Trying to keep in touch with your cutie this summer? Here are some cute 'n' clever ways to keep those feelings strong when school rolls around in fall.

If he’s home:
1. Just pick up the phone. Go ahead, it won’t kill you. It’s a classic way to keep in touch with your cutie! Sometimes hearing your voice is all he needs to be reminded of how totally awesome you are.
2. Let’s turn it up a notch... Video call him. The face time will let your relationship blossom more than it can through letters on a page or words through a phone.
3. Wanna catch up, but don’t have that much time? Text him. This quick method of communication can cut the awkwardness of a phone call if you don’t have much to say, but shows you're thinking about him.
4. Throw a party and invite him. Hanging out with him is a great way to get reconnected.
5. If he goes to summer school or a day camp, swing by his house and drop off homemade goodies when he’s done for the day.

Either of you going to camp or on vacation?
6. Write a letter or send a postcard. A handwritten note shows you’re interested.
7. Talk to him through Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or Tumblr. With Facebook it’s even better – you can have a private conversation in an inbox.
8. Make him a mixed CD for him to take on the road. He’ll think of you every time he listens to it.
9. Take a road trip. If he’s nearby, ask your parents or a friend whether they would drive you to see him to hangout.
10. Make plans for the end of the summer. Fantasizing about your crush isn’t bad if you can come up with some good hangout ideas.
 
 

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BY SARAH OLEISKY AND TESS MORAN ON 6/9/2012 12:00:00 AM

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Help! I just met my crush this week at camp and I really like him, and I think he likes me too. But the problem is that he's here on vacation. He really lives in Newfoundland! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What should I do?!!?!?!?!?!?!

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by scissorluv101 on 7/25/2012 6:55:17 PM

 
 

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by coolgal332 on 7/21/2012 8:59:52 PM

 
 

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by boypolar on 6/27/2012 7:02:03 PM

 
 



I'm new to the website and I have one quick question: what does MOD stand for???




Hey girl! MOD stands for moderator. We do things like answer questions and make sure the comments are appropriate; stuff like that! Welcome to the site! 
Rachael A.

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by macinriley on 6/22/2012 1:24:16 PM

 
 

but he doesnt have a fb and dont know his number what do i do

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by britnie13 on 6/21/2012 11:54:45 AM

 
 

MOD!!
ok so ihave this friend and she gets all crazy around boys and takes their shirts and puts it on herself and takes their shoes ect.. it gets realy anoying and i have told her to chill and take a brake b/c her bf brooke up with her b/c of what she does. She just doesn't get it. i think i should ignor her when she does this. is this being a bad friend or no?




Hey Girl,

She sounds like quite the aggressive flirt! If you bring it up with her, she might get defensive, so I would be careful. You could try making a joke like, "hey, don't scare them all off!"-- bad joke, but you get the idea.




good luck!  
simone s.

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by kathapple17 on 6/19/2012 3:41:39 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!! Okay, so about 2 weeks ago, my school had an 8th grade dance. I went with some friends because we didn't have dates and it was really fun! We hung out with some guy friends and stuff and things weren't awkward at all. Until my friends started noticing one of them kept flirting with me. During the last slow dance, he asked me to dance and I said yes (after protesting for a second). Apparently, he's been flirting with me since forever and I never even knew! After that, things just went along and now that summers here, I thought we would text a lot. But everytime I do, he doesn't (or rarely) responds. What should I do?




Hey girl!

Texting can be super confusing because you never know what's going on at the other end. Maybe he's super busy with a job or camp? Maybe he's just nervous to text you back, or just a little intimidated that a girl is interested in him! Maybe try waiting a few days and seeing if he texts you. If so, great! If not, you can try texting him again. But if he continuously doesn't respond, I don't think he's worth your time. 
Rachael A.

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by cupcake901244 on 6/18/2012 12:06:28 PM

 
 

Ive tried asking this question more than once but I doesn't seem to be coming through because that's what mu computer is telling me so I'm just gonna keep this one shot and hope someone will give me an answer. Ok my crush has an ipod touch so he might be able to txt and I Abm almost positive he does not have a phone. How do I ask him for his numeric without knowingg he likes me cause we r kinda close friends, and wow this isn't as short as it should be

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by ealaplante on 6/16/2012 6:52:03 PM

 
 



MOD???
well hi!!! so i have this amazing boyfreind that i am in love with so much today we have been going out for 4 months <3 anyways i was wondering what some fun summer dates are?
i have stuff like : bowling, movies,concert, festival , carnival , the zoo? i dont know what else we have only been on 3 dates to the movies twice and bowling .. but like we do other stuf together Smile i love him so much , n we tell each other i love you all the time but my mom knows were dating but she doesnt know how much i love him n how much he loves me i mean seriously we've talked about our future together so much gah i love him o and also i know this is off topic but what colors look good with brown skin , i have brown skin brunette colored hair and brown eyes, we have homecoming and my mom wants us to look for dresses soon so im wondering what dress colors would look good with my skin? THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!! XOXO love ya!




Hey girl!

All of the ideas you have so far sound good. You could also do simple things like a picnic or riding your bikes together. A simple outing can be just as fun as an entertainment-filled one! Any colors would look great with your skin - you can experiment when you go dress-shopping and try all diff colors on. 
Kelly G.

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by beautiful nerd! on 6/15/2012 10:36:40 AM

 
 

MODMODMOD!!!
the guy i like is 3 years older than me.Im 14 and hes 17. He acts like he likes me but i dont know what i should do please help.




Hey girl,

There's nothing wrong with a harmless crush but be aware that an older guy may be ready for things that you aren't. Just be friendly but maybe you should think about why an older guy might want to pursue a younger girl. 




best of luck--  
simone s.

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by bunnybaby on 6/14/2012 12:14:02 PM

 
 

That's what KIT means

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by Girlygirl0906 on 6/13/2012 10:38:04 AM

 
 

@cutiepie14231 Well guess what? I'm quiet at school too. But I couldnt stop thinking about him. (I still think about him and it's summer!) So I came up with an awesome plan to confess to him on the last day of school. And guess what happened? He didn't reject me! Instead......he wasn't even at school. Frown So that ruined my day. Plus if I still like him, I'm gonna tell him over Christmas vacation. Or if something happens I might tell him earlier. Because he might lose interest if I for once don't make a move and I stop being an awkward person.

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by Gabriella123 on 6/11/2012 9:58:21 PM

 
 

Hey, I"m so excited that summer is here but bummed since i cant see my crush!! I really like him but im not sure if he likes me. He sometimes answers my emails and txts but he never checks his phone...?? He talks 2 me and ppl say he likes me but then i had like my bgf ask him if he likes me and he said no but appearently he doesn't express his feelings really well. I know he's giving me mixed signals but do you think he possibly has feelings 4 me 2 or am i just another girl??? BTW I'm in high demand cause im kinda popular so i really want to know cause then i would like this other guy that i know likes me back!! I really want to know your take on this and plz respond!!!!!!!!!!!!! THXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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by slgoethel on 6/11/2012 5:24:31 PM

 
 

i will never EVER have the nerve to talk to my crush!!! NEVER!!!!!!!!!

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by cutiepie14231 on 6/11/2012 1:49:58 PM

 
 



MODMODMODMOD
Okay so I just went to a bat mitzvah thing and I my crush ran up to me, grabbed my waist and started slow dancing with me and like 30 people were clapping and wooing. And later on, he kept staring at me and he wished me happy birthday (cuz its tomorrow) and held my hand for like 30 seconds. The only problem is that he apparently likes my friend, but I dont think that that's true. HELPPP I don't know what's going on!!!




Hey girlie,

This totally sounded like a flirty move! It's impossible to say for sure because we don't know him personally, so what you should do is talk to him more! Casually text him or chat him on Facebook. If you see him out and about during the summer, go up to him to say hey. It's all about getting to know him better so you can figure out what these signals mean! Smile 
Lauren C.

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by joelcourtneysuper8 on 6/10/2012 7:37:39 AM

 
 



MODMODMODMOD
Okay so I just went to a bat mitzvah thing and I my crush ran up to me, grabbed my waist and started slow dancing with me and like 30 people were clapping and wooing. And later on, he kept staring at me and he wished me happy birthday (cuz its tomorrow) and held my hand for like 30 seconds. The only problem is that he apparently likes my friend, but I dont think that that's true. HELPPP I don't know what's going on!!!

 

Well he danced with you out of no where. So I think he likes you. I say you get to know him better and talk to him some and see what happens. Good luck! xoxo kerra 


Kerra S.

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by joelcourtneysuper8 on 6/9/2012 11:56:45 PM

 
 

i have like no way to get in touch with my crush. i guess i could get a facebook and get his sister to let me talk to him....omg i just might do thatSmile

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by Alykat18 on 6/9/2012 3:09:28 PM

 
 

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by Princess Keziyah on 6/9/2012 11:55:57 AM

 
 

These are all good, except I really wouldn't recommend going to your crush's house while he's not there and dropping of presents (#5), that might seem super stalkerish unless he's like your boyfriend. And please don't plan a family trip around where your crush might be (#9)... that's awkward. The rest are cute!

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by fireworks1071 on 6/9/2012 11:43:17 AM

 
 

Hey honeycakes, aw no I wonder why they're acting like this. Maybe they think you are mad at them and they thought that by avoiding you they were giving you time to cool off. Try talking to them and see what they say. Maybe it was all a big misunderstanding. Hope this helps! Xoxo



MOD MOD MOD MOD!!
please help me?!!
It feels like my friends are leaving me out of things or something, like they just walk to the bus stop without waiting for me and in gym class they partner up and I'm always the one who doesn't have a partner or like in english class when we need groups of four I'm always the one who has to go find another group. Its sometimes depressing for me and I feel like crying...so I started hanging more with three of my other friends but their not in most of my classes and I want to still hang out with my friends that sometimes leave me out but I don't want to be left out. Yesterday one of them asked me if I was mad at them and I said Why would I be? but later I realized I should have said something bc I am kinda upset though not exactly mad...help please!! Lynae P.

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by honeycakes on 6/9/2012 10:42:08 AM

 
 

These are great ideas! I plan to keep in touch with my crush by email through summer! Smile

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by PinkDancerBabe on 6/9/2012 10:20:57 AM

 
 

Hey musicismylife198, just let him know how private it is to you. He may not know how serious you are about your journal. Once you make it clear to him, he'll understand and won't ask again. Hope this helps! Xoxo



MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!
Okay so a couple nights ago I was sitting in the living room watching tv and I was doodling and writing in my doodle journal which everyone knows is my PRIVATE journal. My dad sat down on the couch and when I was going up to bed he asked what I wrote in there so I said nothing and that I just doodled in there because that was true I just doodle in there then he asked if he could look in it and thank god my mom came in right then and told me I had to go to bed because I didn't know what to say! that was my PRIVATE journal and I don't want anyone to look in it! I don't know why he wanted to look in it! Do you think you know why he wanted to? HELP!!!!! and how can I prevent that from happening again? I mean it's private and he should know not to look in it! thanks!! Lynae P.

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by musicismylife198 on 6/9/2012 10:15:59 AM

 
 

Haha I don't have a crush so this is not needed haha. By the way, I'm trying to help a friend get more fans to her advice page so please go check it out! And don't be afraid to ask advice too haha! This is her... MyStyle22

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by topchef88 on 6/9/2012 9:51:21 AM

 
 

Hey rubyeve12, I think you should tell him y'all should just be friends because if you talk to him it might ruin y'all friendship. Hope this helps! Xoxo



MOD!!!!! ok so i have a huge crush on this guy but the problem is hes my best friends boyfriend, I've known her since forever and were like sisters. so its summer and she comes to my house and then we walk to the pool and her boyfriend (Justin) meets us there I've know Justin for two years and were pretty good friends. so when shes not looking or in the bathroom he'll pick me up and thrown me in the water or chase me around, one time i was about to fall and he grabbed me around the waist and kept his hands there for a while and whenever he leaves he hugs me. but my friend really loves him and there is NO way i could let him cheat on her with me but if he broke up with her i still feel it wouldn't be right to go out with him cause hes her ex but i REALLY like him, but i don't want my friend to feel like shes competing with me if she sees how he acts with me please help!!! Lynae P.

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by rubyeve13 on 6/9/2012 9:12:43 AM

 
 

Hey PinkDancerBabe, I would if I could but I'm not in charge of moderating profiles. Hopefully it will be back to normal soon. Sorry about that! Xoxo



Moderator Moderator Moderator!
Can you please check my profile and moderate it? Because it has been 14 hours since it said "check back in a few, you are being moderated!" and I don't think I am being moderated... Thanks! Lynae P.

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by PinkDancerBabe on 6/9/2012 9:11:43 AM

 
 

Hey EgirlH..78, who says anyone will think bad of anyone? All your parents might get along and become really good friends. I wouldn't think about it too much. Get everyone together and I'm sure it will work out fine. No worries chica! Xoxo



ModModMod!
Hey! This is kinda mean, but my BEST FRIEND has really poor, bad parents. And my BGF has poor, good parents. I'd really like to do something with our families, but I'm afraid of what my parents will think of their parents. My parents are not snotty in any way, but we're poor but act higher class than we can afford to be. And 1 of my four BFFs has parents like mine, but one has rich parents. I'm afraid of what her parents will think of mine! What should I do? I don't want to be embarrassed like this! It's mean ): Lynae P.

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by EgirlH.97 on 6/9/2012 8:52:07 AM

 
 

GREAT TIPS i love all these ideas!

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by j4zm09 on 6/9/2012 12:50:32 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!
Ok so iwas chatting with this guy on FB and then he randomly asked me if i had a bf. But then he said not to take it the wrong way. SO i said i don't and asked him if he has a gf, and he said no. THen he said that he wish he had one tho and that he was surprised that i don't already have one. I think he likes me, but im not sure! what should my next move be? THANKS! Smile

Hey girl,

If you're not sure if he likes you, why not keep it casual and stay friends for now and see what happens?

Meghan D.

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by LAS625 on 6/9/2012 12:46:40 AM

 
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