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Is your crush sparing another girls feelings or just not into you?


 

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My crush wants to date me, but won't because he feels sorry for another girl who is practically obsessed with him. She cries over every little thing, and he feels bad. What do I do?

 

His Answer: “Your crush is trying his best not to hurt the other girl’s feelings, “says Jake, 14. “The girl will get over him in a few weeks. If he it seems like he keeps putting your relationship off, he might not really like you. Find someone else.”
 
Decoded: Your guy is trying to be chivalrous and not upset the other girl. Eventually, she'll be over him or she'll just have to accept it. If he keeps making excuses about not going out, he might not be interested in you.
 
Your Move: So far your crush is being the nice guy. He wants to put off his relationship with you so he doesn’t hurt the other girls’ feelings. But, if he puts off the relationship much longer he’s not being so nice anymore. He might just be playin’ ya while he sees if there are other girls available. If that’s the case- move on, girly! Look for someone who is totally available.
 
 

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BY MARISA DUNN ON 6/8/2012 4:00:00 PM

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There is this guy in school who I like. All of his friends call me "his girl" and say that he likes me but I'm afraid they are just saying this stuff to joke around because they are always doing dumb things I cant tell for sure if he likes me or not? how can I find out if he actually does?

 

Hey cutie! How does this guy act around you? If you notice that he's very friendly and even seems to flirt with you, his friends may be right. Guys can be pretty crazy sometimes, so I'd mostly focus on how the guy you like is acting. Maybe even ask your close BFFs to see what they think. A lot of times other girls will be able to tell just by watching how you two act around each other. Keep up the flirtin' and good luck! 


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by Confusedbeyondbelief on 6/22/2012 1:41:40 AM

 
 



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So I have liked this guy for a really long time now. He acts like he is into me too, but he is such a flirt it is hard to tell. A mutual friend told me that whenever she is with us, he acts different around me.. She said he acts like he is trying harder to make me like him than he does with other girls. My friends used to tell me to get over him, but now they really want us together. Everyone constantly tells me how cute we would be together. He used to Skype me almost every night, but we haven't really talked much in a few days. There is one other girl that he might possibly like, but she likes a lot of guys so I'm trying not to worry about her. My sister tells me that "he isn't the type of guy that likes girls", meaning he is just a player. I just really need to know if I should keep trying, or just forget about him.. And if I was to forget about him, what's the best way to do it? HELP MOD.. thank you;)
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Hey girl!

Next time you two Skype, give him your number in a flirty way. Tell him to text you. If he does, it'll help you gauge whether he's into you. If he makes the effort to text you then it means he cares! It's hard to know who to listen to: your friends, your sister, etc. Try to tune them out and do what YOU feel like doing. If you want to keep pursuing it, then by all means, go for it! If you're just not feelin' it, then don't. You have to take the situation day by day. Good luck! 
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by graciegurl on 6/18/2012 10:25:11 AM

 
 



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IM NOT ALOUD TO DATE! AND I REALLY WANNA GO OUT WITH MY CRUSH, EVEN IF ITS AT THE SCHOOL DO YOU HAVE ANY TIPS ON HOW TO CONVINCE PARENTS TO LET YOU DATE???




Hey! The best you can do is ask your parents to reconsider. Explain your feelings and see if they'll compromise. If they still say no, try to respect them and remember they're just looking out for you. Good luck! 
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by YayaYuiki on 6/12/2012 5:11:10 PM

 
 

Hey! I will be posting amazing tips everyday on my blog! There are only a couple spots left! Hurry while you can and tell your friends! Thanks so much! If you visit mine i will visit yours and tell all my friends!
xoxo, Paige

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by paigeee on 6/11/2012 3:48:20 PM

 
 

Hey juegee, thanx for that correction girly!! Xoxo



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Hey GL, while reading this I noticed that in the section where it says "His answer" I believe there might be a typo. It says "If he it seems like.." I don't know if it really is a typo or if you can fix it, but if you can fix it it's there. Smile Lynae P.

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by juegee on 6/9/2012 9:58:40 AM

 
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