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Is your crush sparing another girls feelings or just not into you?


 

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My crush wants to date me, but won't because he feels sorry for another girl who is practically obsessed with him. She cries over every little thing, and he feels bad. What do I do?

 

His Answer: “Your crush is trying his best not to hurt the other girl’s feelings, “says Jake, 14. “The girl will get over him in a few weeks. If he it seems like he keeps putting your relationship off, he might not really like you. Find someone else.”
 
Decoded: Your guy is trying to be chivalrous and not upset the other girl. Eventually, she'll be over him or she'll just have to accept it. If he keeps making excuses about not going out, he might not be interested in you.
 
Your Move: So far your crush is being the nice guy. He wants to put off his relationship with you so he doesn’t hurt the other girls’ feelings. But, if he puts off the relationship much longer he’s not being so nice anymore. He might just be playin’ ya while he sees if there are other girls available. If that’s the case- move on, girly! Look for someone who is totally available.
 
 

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BY MARISA DUNN ON 6/8/2012 4:00:00 PM

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MOD MOD I like to look at pictures of guys online who show their abs and stand, sit or lay in sexy poses. Obviously they have to be cute and if they are a celeb or a male model that is even better.  But maybe I am just overly concerned about something that we all do. Is that what you think or could I have a problem?

Hey girl,

It's normal to be curious about boys and men when you're young, but if you find that it's interfering with your homework or with your real relationships with other people, you may want to reconsider why you're looking at these images. What's normal might be different for different people, so if you feel uncomfortable about this, you should talk to a trusted adult like a guidance counselor, teacher, older family member or doctor.

Meghan D.

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by luckykel on 6/8/2012 11:58:16 PM

 
 

hey if anyone needs advice feel free to post on my profile and ill get back to you asapSmile

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by maddysadvice on 6/8/2012 10:54:33 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
I'm pretty sure my BGF likes me. The problem is, he is truly an amazing friend but I just don't like him like that. What should I say when he tells me which I think he is planning on doing soon? I'm not allowed to date anyway ( even though I'm 14 ). Help?


Hey girl,

If he hasn't told you yet, there's no need to do anything now. If he does tell you that he likes you, just say that you enjoy spending time with him as a friend, but that you don't have any romantic feelings for him. It's better to tell him the truth now than to string him along later!

Meghan D.

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by kayla9 on 6/8/2012 8:50:02 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD i have a little problem. I'm friends with these two girls and i used to be SUPER close to them, until a little thing happened. It wasn't a big deal or anything bad i did, a lot of people actually think it was a stupid thing for my two friends to get mad at. ever since that happened they've been leaving me out big time. they would hang out and act like we did before this happened, and everybody loves them and is 'on their side", so finding new friends is tough. They always talk about their sleepovers and them hanging out on facebook, and it's really hard for me to hear and see this. What should i do?

Hey girl,

Whatever happened, they might just need time to get over it if they're hurt. If you apologize and try to make it up to them, hopefully they'll come around eventually. In the meantime, it never hurts to find some other friends to spend time with, too!

Meghan D.

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by sammy4457 on 6/8/2012 6:39:33 PM

 
 

MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okay so there was this guy last year at my school who was really cute and nice and stuff but I didn't know him that well. And he switched schools to a private school. But I got to know him a little better at this carnival i went to and i've been texting him a lot on my friends phones because i got mine taken away. He told my friend he likes me and he knows I like him, and he wants to ask me out. I'm not really allowed to date, but I might do it in secret. I'm leaving for camp for a month next wednesday. He told my friend he was going to ask me out on monday because we are hanging out with some friends. Should I say yes?!????????!!!!! please help!!!!!!!!!


Hey girl,

It's up to you whether you say yes, though of course I would recommend to obey your parents' wishes to gain their trust! If you won't have cell reception at your camp, there probably won't be a way for you two to talk, so it might be better to wait until you come back. But it's up to you!

Meghan D.

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by reesesgal16 on 6/8/2012 6:37:16 PM

 
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