I never have as much
fun with my boyfriend as I do with my girls. My boyfriend doesn't want to hang
with my friends, and get really upset about it, because I always have to choose
between my friends or my boyfriend! HELP please!!!
Hey girl! All relationships go through dull patches—it
sounds like you’re getting bored or you’re just changing. If you begin to dread
hanging out with him, it may be time to rethink your relationship. But it is
totally normal because a relationship is something that is constantly changing
and needs work to maintain.
Figure out why you guys started dating in the first place. Maybe
it’s that he always listens to your problems or you both really love soccer. If
you can figure out why you guys really click and can reconnect on something as
simple as that, then everything should get back on track. Also, try going on
some fun dates instead of doing what you normally do. It can spice up a routine
date to make to more exciting.
As for hanging with your BF and your friends, make sure
you’re open with him and tell him how you’re feeling. Tell him that you don’t
like having to choose, and that you’d love it if you could all just hang out,
even just once. If you let him know you’re down because he doesn’t wanna hang
out with your friends, he may surprise you and come around. Sometimes you have
to compromise, and the best relationships are those where one person does
something for the other to make that person happy.
BY SARAH OLEISKY ON 6/10/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN bff, bust my bestie problem, guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, weird guy stuff, how can I choose