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okay soo is it okay if i always text my crush or does that make me seem desperate!? I dont think he minds texting me cuz when ever i text him he usually answers within a few minutes and we talk about a lot of stuff...its not a dull conversation!and he has asked my friend to have me text him before too.so how come he wont text me first? and is there a way to get him to?
Also we have never really talked in person(he use to say hi to me but i was too shy to answer so i ignored him)..but we are always in the same places, like basketball games or practices, with our diffrent groups of friends.how can i get closer to him!? i always get soo nervous and shy around him!! please help!!! and sorry this is soo long!

 

Hey girlie! If he says hi, don't ignore him, you're sending the wrong message! If he's saying hi to you, he probably wants to talk to you, so there's no reason to be shy.  If you want him to text you first, hold off on texting him for a few days and he'll most likely text you asking what's up.  Maybe he's just as shy as you and doesn't want to text first. xoxo 

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I have a crush problemo. My best friend and I are crushing on the same guy (we're so alike that we like all the same guys-it's awesome but annoying). It shouldn't matter because we're not dating until we're 16 anyways, but we like to talk about our crushes all the time. The problem is, she told us she liked him first. Should I tell or keep it quiet, since it doesn't really effect anything except cause tension?

Hey girl!

Since neither of you can date, there's no sense in bringing it up. Why cause tension in your amazing relationship if you don't have to. If she brings up crushes in a conversation, just try and subtly change the subject. Good luck!