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Flattery or fakery: Are your crush's compliments legit?


 

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When a guy says you’re pretty and perfect and is really nice to you, does he really mean it or is it just a ploy to get you?
 
Bill: A few guys play the flattery game really well, but most guys are terrible at it. If a guy gets up the nerve to give you props, you can be fairly sure he means it. Compare notes with other girls. If he feeds them the same lines he feeds you, he’s a poseur and isn’t worth your time.
 
Dave: If a guy tells you you’re perfect, run with it. He’s letting you know that, in his mind, there’s nothing about you he’d change. That’s quite a compliment.

 

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So last year my crush was flirting with me but then he said he didnt like me. a few weeks later he started flirting again and then school let out for the summer. i just started school again and the same guy and i talked for a little bit he hugged me and he seems different than last year, he seems more caring. is he just flirting again> does he like me? what should i do?

 

Hey emcsoftball, I'm not really sure girl. I would wait it out and see what his next move is. Hope this helps! Xoxo 


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by emcsoftball on 9/2/2012 10:48:56 AM

 
 



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I FINALLY told my crush that i like him after 2 years of having a crush on him, hes the sweetest guy you would ever meet, after telling him hes been acting strange.hes flirting with me more than usually,he usually picks on me about my bffect.,but after i told him its been diffrent between us.Why do you think he changed?




Hey girlie,

If he's flirting with you more than normal, that's a great sign! Maybe you 'fessing up about your crush made him feel comfy flirting and seeing where that might go. If he's becoming distant though, that might mean he just wants to be friends. Try to feel him out and see how he's acting differently - then you'll prob have your answer! Smile 
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by aweaver13 on 6/28/2012 9:02:31 PM

 
 



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I just realized that i'm crushing on my friend's younger brother. We have never really talked but from what my friend tells me and what i see on his facebook page, we have a lot in common! Only... he just turned 16 and i turn 19 in 2 weeks. Is that too big of an age difference? Is it stupid to keep crushing on him?




Hey girlie,

It's def not stupid - you can't help who you like! But we usually draw the line at 2 years, maybe 3 tops. Sure that's usually when the girl is younger, but I think it still applies. You might have lots in common, but you're also at VERY different points in your lives! Try talking to him and becoming friends, but give him some time to grow up a little and catch up to you. If you still have a crush on him in a little while (and after getting to know him better), then maybe see where things go. <3
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by djdangerjonasluver on 6/21/2012 11:22:47 PM

 
 



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i also want to ask my crush to go surfing with me and my dad and my uncle and my sister. how do i ask?????!!

 

Hey! You just have to get the confidence to say, "Hey, do you ant to go surfing with me later? Me and my family are gonna go." Remember, you have nothing to lose by asking the guy Smile 


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by waffles4eva! on 6/18/2012 7:57:37 PM

 
 



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my bgf aka my crush and i are doing a lifeguarding camp together.i REALLY want to ask him to do a 2 person event with me. how do i ask him???
also i wanna get his #. any tips on how to get it?
ps: i cannot stop thinking about him! hes always been on my mind lately!!!!

 

hey! Just ask him casually if he'd like to go with you. If he says no, just move on naturally. If he says yes, ask him for his number so you can plan to meet up Smile  


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by waffles4eva! on 6/18/2012 7:37:08 PM

 
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