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friday night, was my 8th grade grad dance. this guy asked me if i wanted to slow dance. i said no, but now i feel bad. what should i do? i asked two of my friends. one said that i should have danced with him but she is also the same person that tried to get me to go to the grad dance with a few different people. my other friend said that i should not feel bad about it because it was my chose to dance with him or not but she keeps trying to go out with a guy that i used to have a crush on. also, another guy asked me to dance, but "just as friends" but i know that means something more and i am not really friends with him in the first place. the second guy that asked me keeps following me around but we do have the same classes. i just want to know what to do about these guys because they are very annoying!

Hey! You just have to be friendly and if they ask you out or something tell them you are not interested. 

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I'm really confused. There's this guy I've liked on and off for a really long time. He told me a few years ago that he was interested in another girl. I was okay with it and got over it quickly. and him. A year later I liked him again, and have ever since. We've always been decent friends, and have hung out a couple of times. Just recently though, we've both been a little flirty with each other, but he texted me over the weekend and asked if "I thought he was leading me on." The thing is, it honestly felt like he wasnt, but I didnt say that. He said he didn't want to hurt me, but at the same time didnt mind seeing or talking to me. i thought things were going in the right direction this time, but I guess not? PLEASE HELP!

 

hey! Wow, that is complicated. I think the notable thing here is that you felt like he wasn't leading you on, but you didn't tell him that. Why do you think that is? i think the answer to that question will help you understand your feelings toward him better. I hope this helps!