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Why did your BGF ask if you like him?


 
My BGF was talking to me one day and all of the sudden he asked me if I had a crush on him. I said no, but he thinks that I was lying. Now he won't even talk to me. Why is he so hung up on that? It's been like a month or two.

 

His Answer: “Sounds like your guy friend has a crush on you and was embarrassed you didn’t feel the same way,” says Ethan, 14, “Now he doesn’t know how to act around you and has decided just to avoid the situation.”

 

Decoded: Your BGF’s feelings were – and probs still are – hurt. He was crushing hard and is now majorly self-conscious that you weren’t feeling the same way. He thinks it’s easier to stop talking than dealing with his emotions.

 

Your Move: How would you react if you were secretly crushing on your BGF and he told you the feelings weren’t mutual? Super embarrassed, probs. That’s how he’s feeling right now. Although he never straight out said, “I like you,” that was his way of hinting that he likes you. Let him know that you still want to be friends and try to give him some space. It will take time for him to be comfortable around you again, but it will happen.
 
 

BY MARISA DUNN ON 6/15/2012 3:00:00 PM

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All my friends have boyfriends and already know what the experience is like i haven't yet . I want to have a summer fling but i don't know what to do or how to do it . I'm only 12 . My parents want me to wait til I'm 15 but i just don't know what to do . I wanna date !




Hey girlie,

First off, you should def talk to your parents about the "right" age to date. It's not worth going behind their backs, so talk to them about wanting to date and see if you can reach a compromise. But remember to be patient - if you don't have anyone in mind yet, you can't force it! Over and over, girls tell us that they find a crush/BF when they're least expecting it. So try to go on with your life, focus on the things you love, and remember to be out-going, take risks, and talk to new people. And check out these articles for some great tips to keep in mind! You'll find that person who is right for you - just be patient! Smile

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/08/01/How-do-I-find-a-BF.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/12/27/Make-2012-your-year-to-have-a-BF.aspx
Lauren C.

by Mericel on 6/21/2012 6:12:09 PM

 
 

I just found out my crush likes me back and he knows i lke him and he has been avoiding me since then no eyecontact. Why is he avoiding me?

by clll4321 on 6/20/2012 5:02:23 PM

 
 



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So i'm not sure if i should break up with my boyfriend or not! im not exactly into the whole relationship anymore but he's so nice and i'll feel bad breaking up with him because he has depression....he's always down on himself and i dont want him to hurt himself or anything!! i still like him i'm just not into the whole relationship thing.... what should i do!! pleaseeeee helpp!!!!!!!!!!!




Hey babe,

You need to be honest with him. It would actually hurt him more if you strung him along and were with him even though you don't have feelings for him. I know it's hard, but he deserves to know the truth. Just because he is having a hard time doesn't mean you need to suffer as well. However, if you're concerned about his mental health, talk to a trusted adult so he can get some help. 
Kelly G.

by mckey101 on 6/20/2012 1:51:25 AM

 
 

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So, my crush's friends constantly ask me if I like my crush and they all say that my crush likes me. My crush is kinda shy. So, I admitted that I liked my crush, and now, my crush won't talk to me and he's avoiding me. Why? How can I get him to talk to me again?




Hey Girl, 

Sounds like he's just shy. He's probably embarrassed that you know his secret and may be worried that you don't really like him. Just be friendly to him and avoid talking about "liking"-- he might come around soon.




best of luck  
simone s.

by stephzhang9 on 6/19/2012 1:46:46 PM

 
 



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Okay, well I like this guy and I am not sure if he wants to be with me or if he just wants to hook up with me. I really like him, and I want to be with him, but I don't know if he just wants to "get with me". Everyone in my school doesn't like him because they think he's a bad guy and just wants to get with everyone, but inside he's not like that. I think he likes me but I don't know. What am I supposed to do? Also he just asked me if I wanted to see a movie with him...I don't know what to say. Should I follow through with him, or just stop flirting and be friends? HELP!




Hey girl!

I think you should go to the movie with him so you can really see what he's all about. If he tries to kiss you right away that's probably a sign he's not interested in who you are as a person. If he wants to have a conversation with you then he probably wants to get to know you to see if you two would be compatible. If the date doesn't go too well, then let it go and move on. But you're just going to have to take it one step at a time. 
Rachael A.

by i<3suz on 6/18/2012 2:37:33 PM

 
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