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Why did your BGF ask if you like him?


 

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My BGF was talking to me one day and all of the sudden he asked me if I had a crush on him. I said no, but he thinks that I was lying. Now he won't even talk to me. Why is he so hung up on that? It's been like a month or two.

 

His Answer: “Sounds like your guy friend has a crush on you and was embarrassed you didn’t feel the same way,” says Ethan, 14, “Now he doesn’t know how to act around you and has decided just to avoid the situation.”

 

Decoded: Your BGF’s feelings were – and probs still are – hurt. He was crushing hard and is now majorly self-conscious that you weren’t feeling the same way. He thinks it’s easier to stop talking than dealing with his emotions.

 

Your Move: How would you react if you were secretly crushing on your BGF and he told you the feelings weren’t mutual? Super embarrassed, probs. That’s how he’s feeling right now. Although he never straight out said, “I like you,” that was his way of hinting that he likes you. Let him know that you still want to be friends and try to give him some space. It will take time for him to be comfortable around you again, but it will happen.
 
 

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BY MARISA DUNN ON 6/15/2012 3:00:00 PM

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by jennanatasha on 6/15/2012 11:23:22 PM

 
 

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Ok so my bf asked for a bikini pic and I said yes but I thought about it and I didn't want to do it anymore. Now he' acting completely different, I REALLY like him but I don't know what to do? Help!!!!

Hey girl,

You should never be pressured into doing anything you don't want to, especially when it comes to your body! Tell him that you like him but that you don't feel comfortable with that pic. If he's a good guy, he'll respect that and leave it alone, but if he keeps pressuring you about it, you may want to rethink your relationship.

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by Haileygab on 6/15/2012 11:19:05 PM

 
 

That is sad

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by amileofroses on 6/15/2012 11:12:04 PM

 
 

Same happened to me omwhy is that nm

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by sparkyallee1 on 6/15/2012 11:02:08 PM

 
 

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There are only 2 full days and 3 half days left of school, and i STILL cant talk to my crush. I am in 7th grade and hes in 8th grade. next year, he will be in the high school while ill be in the middle school still. Should i forget about him or get the confidence and ask him out even though there is roughly a week of school left? thanks a lot! and if i should ask him out how should i do it? (he doesn't have a phone, email, etc.)

Hey girl,

You don't have to ask him out if you're not ready... if he doesn't have an email address, can he use his parents' account to send messages with you? You could also get his home phone number and call him there. If you want to ask him out, you might not have too much to lose since the year's ending, but don't rush into something you're not sure about. The new school year will be here before you know it, and you might meet tons of cute guys this summer!

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