GirlsLife.com - Why do guys bad-mouth their exes?

Bill: Because most guys have been dumped by their ex-girlfriends.

Dave: Guys pattern their lives after sports, so there must be a post-game show. Games are blown because somebody goofed. Ever hear a coach blame a loss on his own players? Nope. It’s the ump’s fault. Or the difficulty of playing in front of a hostile crowd. Or that idiot girl who’s too stubborn to see what a great guy she had.

BY BILL AND DAVE ON 6/18/2012 2:00:00 PM

Hey topazrg, here are some links to articles about getting over exes. I hope these help you girl! Xoxo

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/04/27/9-tricks-to-get-over-your-crush.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/06/13/How-to-deal-with-a-summer-breakup.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/06/18/Why-do-guys-bad-mouth-their-exes.aspx

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I dated this guy on and off for a little over a year, and when we finally broke up about 5 months ago it was pretty nasty. About a month ago I was finally over it and we were on speaking terms, thankfully (We have a lot of mutual friends, so it was pretty awkward) - well, until he took my little brother aside and told him some pretty awful lies about me. I've stopped speaking to him, but for some reason I can't get him out of my head. I don't like him at all - I just can't get over all the stuff he did to me and also everything we did together. Everything I do somehow reminds me of him and my friends bring him up in every conversation. How can I get over him? I don't like him, I just don't want to think about him anymore!
Thanks! Lynae P.

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Thanks for the advice! I might get to know this boy a little better during the class, but it's not a lot of talking to each other. And the class is only 3 weeks long. Is that enough time to get to know a boy? And also, chances are I'm never going to see this boy again. Do you think he's worth it?

Hey girl, I'm happy to help! Three weeks is definitely long enough for you to determine if he's worth it or not. Your goal for this first week should be to watch him and figure out if he's a nice guy. If he is, try to start a convo next week. By the end of the camp, your goal should be to talk to him enough that it's not awkward for you to ask him to hang out. Or at least get his cell number. If he lives close by, you can make it work, even if you don't go to the same school.

Carrie R.

by MusikRox1999 on 6/20/2012 3:30:31 AM

I just found out my crush likes me back and he knows i lke him and he has been avoiding me since then no eyecontact. Why is he avoiding me?

by clll4321 on 6/20/2012 3:05:07 AM

by topazrg on 6/19/2012 8:15:43 PM

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I really, really like my bgf. All my friends and even his friends say that we would be a cute couple and that he likes me. I have liked him for almost a year and he used to know I liked him but I don't think he does anymore. It's hard to tell if he likes me though because one day he is wanting to be near me, always waiting for me from my classes, staring at me, flirtingly touching me and flirting with me constantly. Then the next day he acts hot and cold around me. We always text. Do you think he likes me? Also I am going to hang out with him this summer and I want to pick up the flirting...what should I do? Pls don't send me to a link.
Thanks!! xoxo

Hey girl, it could be that your guy just likes flirting with you for fun, or he could be into you. The easiest way to find out is to ask him to do something that's more like a date than just hanging out at your house. See if he's interested in going out to dinner or getting ice cream, just the two of you. If you make it clear that you still like him, maybe you'll find out that he likes you, too.

by HorseGirl2998 on 6/19/2012 12:52:49 PM

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