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Can I get a do-over on a first impression?


 
I have a crush on a guy who doesn’t know me. I smiled at him at the pool, and now he probably thinks I’m a freak.


Dear Bad First Impression,

Everyone feels self-conscious around a crush. For all you know, he’s kicking himself for not smiling back. There’s plenty of time to make a great second impression. When you see him next, instead of smiling, talk to him. Ask if the water is cold, or say you need a fourth person for volleyball or a card game. Anything! If he’s nice, great. If not, at least you won’t squander any more time on a jerk.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 6/20/2012 4:00:00 PM

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Ok so there's this guy in my martial arts class I kinda like but he's also my bgf. Believably he teases me a LOT. So here's the hard part: he's been on the wrong side of one of my kicks before and apparently it hurts. So I know when he teases me I merely draw my fist back and he stops. I mean, I know he's just being my friend and we tease each other all the time but... Is there a more attractive way to quiet him than drawing back my fist? Don't get me wrong, he knows I would never (intentionally) hurt him but… I need a better method. And soon!!! Please help ASAP!!!!

Hey girl,

Instead of threatening him with violence, I would try talking to him about the teasing. Just say that you don't like how it makes you feel, even if he says things in a joking way. If he's your bgf, he'll understand and will stop teasing you!

Meghan D.

by Taekwondolover on 1/5/2013 9:49:45 PM

 
 



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So I was at a swim meet when my friends told this guy I barley know I like him. And its true. So now at practice and team party's its weird. Therefore idk if I should let it go or try to get to know him. But without making it awkward for both of us... please help!!! ANYONE




Hey girl! Definitely try to talk to this guy, but don't come on too strong because he may be feeling shy.  Try to get to know each other and go from there. xxoo 
Maggie P.

by epicvicky on 7/26/2012 3:11:44 PM

 
 



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My ex was a jerk to me when we broke up, and said a bunch of mean things about me on FB. I started ignoring him and such and now he said he wanted to be friends and he kept texting me about that! Now he always come by my house and shows off!! What does this mean!?




Hey girl,

It's possible he just wants to be friends so he doesn't feel guilty anymore, but chances are you guys broke up...and you started ignoring him...so he realized he couldn't have you anymore...and he realized he missed having you around. It's your choice what you want to do here - you could either start talking to him and see what he wants, or tell him you're broken up and you don't want him to bother you anymore. The thing about being "friends" with an ex is it's dangerous - if you're not over him yet, you'll totally start falling for him again if you talk all the time. I know you don't want to hurt HIS feelings, but sometimes the smart thing is to have some space and give yourself time to put the relationship behind you. Don't forget the bad things he did and the mean things he said - you broke up for a reason, even if he's acting friendly and nice now. 
Lauren C.

by CandyLoverr99 on 7/9/2012 9:21:40 PM

 
 



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So there's this guy ( when is there not?) and I really like him. Let's start from the begging. I was txting some guys for like a month and my mom found out that I was and now I can't txt them because it wasn't proper and one of the guys was my crush. I was so happy that I was finally texting him and everything came crashing down And I can't txt him anymore. Should I keep txting him? What should I do? I really like him and he is gonna be in my Spanish class next year!

 

If your mom doesnt want you to I would suggest you not. IT could go badly if she finds out again. Just try talking to him at school! xoxo kerra


Kerra S.

by Leb1199 on 7/7/2012 11:50:22 PM

 
 



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how can i make a conversation to a guy without sounding annoying & desperate ?
thanks!

 

Hey girl, just talk about whatever makes you comfortable. If its about school or music or whatever. See what your likes are. Spark a conversation maybe by complimenting something he's wearing. 


lauren r.

by forever21.love on 7/6/2012 7:35:17 PM

 
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