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My BF is out of town--should I make a move on my crush?


 

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I like this guy, and he likes me. But my BF is out of town, and I have no way of contacting him to tell him I like someone else. Should I go out with the guy I like and tell my BF when he gets back? My BF never calls me anyway.
 

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Your BF never calls? I’d say you’re a free girl. It’d be different if your BF had gone off for a brief trip. But, it sounds like you and your BF broke up a while ago and forgot to tell each other. It’s OK to move on. If and when your BF calls, explain that you met someone but had no way of getting in touch with him to tell him.
 
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so my bgf likes me and i like me he knows i like him and has asked me out several times and i dont know how to say no but say i am still interested because i am not ready for a serious relationship yet




Well, hunnie, it sounds like you just need to tell him the truth. Say exactly that - that you really like him and would eventually like to go out with him, but you just aren't ready for that yet. Explain that it isn't him at all, but that you just wanna wait a li'l while. Now, he may wait around for you or he may not, but that's a chance you'll have to take. And if he doesn't, then you'll know he wasn't the one. 
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by seliskey on 7/16/2012 3:58:21 PM

 
 

okay first i would say no beacuse . but then i think do u like your boyfriend does he treat you nice if you say yes to all of that then i would say no if you hate your bf then go for it girl i would not stop you frokm that you a have a right and if he get mad at you break you you do not desvere that kind of person

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by kenna1023 on 7/5/2012 8:41:09 PM

 
 

This article is pretty much saying "yeah, sure, it's fine to cheat on your boyfriend while he's away; go for it!" thats just wrong, girls life. i thought you would know better.

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by purplestars on 7/5/2012 12:44:10 AM

 
 



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alrighty so this is really difficult for me to ask advice on but i need some serious help with handling my peers and my best friend. 

 




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