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My BF is out of town--should I make a move on my crush?


 
I like this guy, and he likes me. But my BF is out of town, and I have no way of contacting him to tell him I like someone else. Should I go out with the guy I like and tell my BF when he gets back? My BF never calls me anyway.
 

Dear Boy Trouble,

Your BF never calls? I’d say you’re a free girl. It’d be different if your BF had gone off for a brief trip. But, it sounds like you and your BF broke up a while ago and forgot to tell each other. It’s OK to move on. If and when your BF calls, explain that you met someone but had no way of getting in touch with him to tell him.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 6/27/2012 12:00:00 AM

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I've had a crush on my BGF for about 3 or 4 months now, but I know I want to keep our friendship bcuz its amazing. But its still hard whenever he likes another girl! He has dated a lot of girls since we became friends and 3 girls like him even tho they're two years older than him!!! And lately he seems so distant and weird whenever we tall or tx. I really miss his friendship and just wish for once that he'd pay attention to me!! What should I do??

 

Hey girlie!  It stinks to have a friend who doesn't give you enough attention: even more so when he's being chased by all sorts of girls!  Let your BGF know you're missing his friendship: nothing more.  I know it might be tempting to jump into telling him about your crush, but he's already juggling more girls than any guy can handle.  By letting him know you want to hang as friends, you're setting yourself apart from the other girls.  You already know don't want to admit your crushin' and lose his friendship, so stay chill for now and be his bud.  Just let him know you aren't interested in hearing about all of his other girls!  Good luck! xoxo


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by soccer.bear1 on 6/28/2012 7:30:56 AM

 
 

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by xXMissBehavedXx on 6/27/2012 8:35:00 PM

 
 

OMG! I love Dear Carol but seriously? Your boyfriend might not be the best (not calling, etc) but that doesn't mean you're single! I don't think Carol interpreted this post correctly, because going out with your crush while you're STILL IN A RELATIONSHIP with your boyfriend is CHEATING. When your boyfriend gets back, break up with him. THEN feel free to do whatever you want. Please don't make a move on the new guy UNTIL you break up with your boyfriend! Not okay!

by fireworks1071 on 6/27/2012 8:26:51 PM

 
 


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Ok so I'm really sad and mad right now....my BFF likes like a different guy every few months and every guy she likes winds up liking her back and asking her out. It's not fair...her family is also super rich and she gets everything she wants. I know I'm her best friend and I should be happy for her but...I'm not. I'm sick of this, being around her makes me feel awful about myself. And she didn't even tell me this latest crush of hers asked her out until last night and appriently they've been dating all summer. Am I right to be insulted that she didn't tell me?
Also it's just not fair. I've liked the same guy for the longest time and I swear I'm not ugly or "uncool" or anything but NO GUY has ever asked me out...forget my crush, like NOBODY. Guys have liked me but none have asked me out..and I'm 16. What do I do? I want a bf so much.




Hey babe,

I used to be in the exact same situation, so I know how hard it is.  But, when it comes down to it, it sounds like she may be more harmful as a friend than she is helpful.  Ask yourself if she makes you insecure more often or happy more often.  If it's the former, then I think you should maybe distance yourself from her.

This is something you might have to deal with on your own, because at the core, it's not just her fault, you must have some layer of insecurity that is fueling this.  So just keep that in mind.
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by maggie183 on 6/27/2012 5:30:38 PM

 
 



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I Have a boyfriend and i love him, but lately i've been thinking about this other guy that loves me soo much and he's been chasing me for almost more than a year now, at first i didnt like that guy ,, but idk why am i thinking a lot about him , yesterday i saw an old chat between him , my boyfriend is an amazing person , idk what to do ! Its not like i wanna cheat or anything , but i feel like i'm falling for the other guy, my friend told me to call him and see how hes doing, but my boyfriend would be CRUSHED if he knew, Idk what to do i cry every night ! i really need advice XoxO




Hey girl, you have two options. First, you can break up with your bf and get to know this other guy as more than a friend. If you're thinkin' about the other guy more than your bf, that might be a sign that your feelings for your bf are fading. And if that's the case, you just have to be honest with your bf. But option two is that you can chat with this other guy and just be friends with him. Your bf should be okay with you having guy friends, and if you wanna get to know this other guy, you can. But as soon as you start thinking of him as more than friends, you gotta tell your bf because otherwise, it's not fair. So decide what you want this other guy to be - a friend, or a bf. 
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by rolapa on 6/27/2012 4:43:53 PM

 
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