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I like this guy, and he likes me. But my BF is out of town, and I have no way of contacting him to tell him I like someone else. Should I go out with the guy I like and tell my BF when he gets back? My BF never calls me anyway.
 

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Your BF never calls? I’d say you’re a free girl. It’d be different if your BF had gone off for a brief trip. But, it sounds like you and your BF broke up a while ago and forgot to tell each other. It’s OK to move on. If and when your BF calls, explain that you met someone but had no way of getting in touch with him to tell him.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 6/27/2012 12:00:00 AM

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I need some help! so today, since my mom is a teacher, I went with her to her school after my exam and I went outside for a while and some gr 8's were out there (i'm gr 9) &a girl from my soccer team was there&there was this guy who used to go to my old school in like gr 2 but moved& now hes like super cute & tall & I got talking to him & it was totally un-awkward and I think I might like him...and it was really nice because he was genuinely interested in me, and my friend from soccer says she thinks he likes me, and she asked him and he didn't reply (?!) but he is younger, what are your thoughts on liking/possibly-in-the-future dating a younger guy? I just have a really happy feeling inside of me & I can't stop thinking about him! also I won't see him for like the whole summer until he comes to high school, what if he forgets about me and finds someone else? Any tips and advice would be great! thanks soosososo much!




Hey babe, one grade of difference isn't much. It's not usually the guy that's younger, but that's not unheard of. If he's mature enough, then why not date him? And for this summer, you have a few options. First, you can see if your friend could arrange a group hangout so you can see him and chat him up. Second, you could get your friend to give him your number and see if you guys can connect that way. Or third, you can just wait it out and see how things go this fall. He's probably not gonna go gettin' a gf the summer before high school. Most people like to wait 'til after they start, just in case there's a new face that snags their attention. So if you don't wanna force something over the summer, you should still be safe. 
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by honeycakes on 6/27/2012 2:34:39 PM

 
 

I totally agree with HungerGamesRox99! Wait until he gets back! If you do make a move on your crush now, you'll be cheating on your BF. It won't hurt to wait cuz if your crush really likes you, he'll wait.

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by Princess Keziyah on 6/27/2012 12:14:42 PM

 
 

don't use technology to break up with him. face-to-face is good...my BF broke up with me half over the internet and half through someone else:_(

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by myfatsquirrel on 6/27/2012 11:55:24 AM

 
 



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So during the school year I use to text my crush every now and then; But now that it is summer I haven't texted him because I think he might think it's "weird" that I just randomly texted him out of the blue. I have no idea whether or not to text him!
Oh and 1 more question-
Sometimes I would text him from my friends phone and my phone at the same time, but he would only reply to my text. My friend said that he stares at me a lot; and I have caught him staring at me. We didn't have any classes together so we never really got a chance to talk. Do you think he likes me?
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Hey girl,

You can always just text him and ask how his summer is going! There's no harm in that, especially if you used to text him before. I don't know for sure if this guy likes you, but it's much easier to tell if he does if you spend time with him in person rather than just texting. Try to get together with some friends and hang out with him and see how he acts around you! 
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by basketballover5 on 6/27/2012 11:45:52 AM

 
 

You probably shouldnt tweet him. If you text, call or FB him but don't know if he got the message, wait until you see him to do it face-to-face. You both need closure and to make sure you 2 are over.

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by scamp24 on 6/27/2012 10:31:13 AM

 
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