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I have a crush on my bgf and I'm almost certain he likes me back. But lately I wonder if I like him partly because I didn't think I could get anyone else. Don't get me wrong he is a very nice guy and he cares about me. I thought about this because I found out that other guys like me but I dont know them like I know my bgf. Should I explore my options or pay attention to my bgf? We have been fliffting for about a year and if I try to move on it will hurt his feelings and mine and I just met the other guys who don't even know me.

It's totally okay to be unsure how you feel, so don't be upset at yourself for being confused! It's natural to like someone you know well like your bgf, and if you get along well with him there's nothing wrong with having a crush on him! You can't please everyone who likes you, so if someone you don't like asks you out, it's okay to politely decline--it's better in the long run than leading them on! If moving on will hurt your feelings, that's a good sign you like your bgf, so enjoy your friendship and maybe it will lead to a relationship when you two are ready!

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ok sooo, im going off to college in less than 2 months and my boyfriend is gonna be a senior in high school. we've been dating for 3 months and we havent talked about what were doing relationshipwise when i go to college. yesterday he asked what i wanted to do and i told him i hadnt thought about it yet..kinda true. my college is an hour away from our town. we discussed what love was and decided it meant commitment. right after we said this he said "i love you." idk if this is him saying he wants to try to keep our relationship going when i go to college or not. i reeeeaaalllllllyyy like him and want to keep the relationship but i dont want to be constantly missing him and him being miserable all school year bc we cant see each other very frequently. HELP! idk what to do!

If you want to keep up the relationship, focus on the happy times and not how much you'll miss each other! It will be difficult, but you can still see each other when you're home, and you can still talk on the phone and email each other. If you both like each other that much, it's worth at least giving it a shot while you're in college to see how you handle the long-distance thing.

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So this year I'd really like a date for a school dance in October. There's this guy I think is really cute but I've only talked to him a few times and we aren't friends. Would it be weird to ask my friend who is friends with him to have a get together with both of us? If not... what can I do to get to know him?

Hey girl, that's not weird at all. What else are your chicas for but to back you up when you're eyin' up a potential crush? A group get-together is the perf way to get a li'l more familiar with a guy without it being awkward, so definitely see if your girl can pull somethin' together. Good luck!