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First-Kiss Freak-Out: Is it normal to get nauseous?

 
A boy I've known for 12 years asked me out on my first date. We hung out a couple of nights ago and he was so serious about me; I could tell that he really likes me. He almost kissed me, and I was so nervous that I became nauseous. I even pushed him away. Is it normal to feel this nervous before a first kiss?

 

Hey girl! Your first kiss is a major moment in your life. Very few girls are not nervous before their first kiss…it’s perfectly normal. It sounds to me like this boy was pretty intense, so that definitely could have contributed to your nerves. Your first kiss may seem scary, but it will be so special and wonderful when it happens. If not, you’ll have plenty of other times to get that special kiss with someone you really like.

 

With that being said, don’t rush it! This boy is obviously into you, but how do you feel? When he went in to kiss you, did you push him away because you were nervous or because you simply didn’t want to kiss him? Take a moment to stop and think about your feelings for him before diving into a first kiss that you might not be ready for. Take your time, follow your gut, and when that special moment comes, relax and enjoy!
 
 

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My BF and I wanna go out today.... But we don't know where to. He told me to pick but I have no idea where to go. What would be a good place (we've gone out for almost a year)

 

Hey girlie! There are a ton of good movies playing, so you could head to the theater.  If you want to go somewhere you can talk more, why not pack a picnic and hang in your backyard (if it's nice out).  You can pretend you're somewhere exotic and use it asa mini vacay.  xoxo 


Kate G.

by swifty#1 on 8/3/2012 11:57:56 AM

 
 



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Thanks so much Smile and the kissing guide really helped me Smile I went back to my bf's house (he lives next to me) and I apologized for running away. I said almost exactly what you wrote in ur response and he forgave me then he leaned in and we kissed Smile. It was amazing Smile thanks so much Smile




Oh yay, that is sooo sweet Smile He sounds like a great guy! <3 Never forget - just be open with him about how you're feeling and you'll be ok! 
Lauren C.

by swifty#1 on 8/2/2012 6:43:51 PM

 
 



Mod mod mod.... Today I went to my bf's house and we were just hanging out like we usually do. Then he tried to kiss me and I didn't want to... So I turned away and pretended I had
to go home..... He looked disappointed. Next time I come to his house I'm going to let him kiss me but (this is weird) I don't know how to kiss (awkward) and plus when I went there today he started touching my hips and my thighs which made me uncomfortable. Here are my questions:
-how do you kiss? (awkward again)
-how do I tell him that I'm not comfortable with him touching me?
Thanks Smile




Hey girlie,

First off, here's my fave kissing guide on GL: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/01/11/kissing-guide.aspx

Next, don't ever let your BF push you into doing something that you don't feel comfy with! If you don't feel ready to kiss, you don't have to "let him" kiss you. Same with the hands on the hips/thighs - if you feel uncomfortable, pull away and make it stop. But don't just turn your back on him and run home - tell him straight about how you're feeling. He's your BF, so you should be honest with him! Say something like, "Listen, I really like you and I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but I just think we should move slower. This is all kinda new and I don't want to rush into it, so do you think we could stop for now?" (Other variations of the last part: "so do you think we could just stick to kissing, not all the touching?") I know it sounds bold, but you gotta stand up for how you feel and what you want. It's your relationship too, so don't ever feel like you're being pressured into it! <3
Lauren C.

by swifty#1 on 8/2/2012 5:31:00 PM

 
 



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ok so i am dating this guy but he lives like an hour away from me and i realy like him but only get to see him this summer for camp should i still go out with him or not??
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Hey girlie,

It's up to you! You said you really like him, so are there other ways you can keep in touch when you don't get to see him? Text, phone calls, Skype, email, Facebook chat... do you feel like you're growing closer to him even though you don't get to see him a lot? If you feel like your relationship isn't what you wanted or you want to get to know him better, talk to him about it. If you're not into him enough for the "long distance" to be worth it, then you can break up too. It's your choice and neither option is "wrong" or "right" - ya gotta do what's right for you <3 
Lauren C.

by marggieluv on 7/26/2012 8:40:13 PM

 
 

I have a question. I'm in love with my BGF. But he cant date until he's 16. ACK!!! now what?

by FtLouie on 7/21/2012 10:07:37 PM

 
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