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For over a month, I’ve been with a boy I like very much. I want to take it to the next level by giving him a simple kiss. That’s all I want to do—get that kiss out of my system. But I get so frustrated with myself because I can’t get the nerve to do it. What do you think I should do?

 

Dear Frustrated Kisser,

Give yourself a break. Hey, that kiss can wait—and waiting is smart. Relax, and enjoy your crush. When you’re ready and the time is right, the kiss will come on its own. Who knows? Maybe he is trying to find his courage, too, and appreciates not being rushed. The best kisses aren’t pre-planned.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 7/18/2012 12:00:00 AM

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MODMODMODMOD (i'm the one who was talking about the texting issue and how this guy hasn't talked to me.)
well, now i know for a fact that he has his phone, becuase he texting my BFF!!!!!! i'm SOOOO confused!!!!! he said that he liked me, so what does he really mean, because now i dont think he does!




Hey girl, he doesn't sound like a really great guy if he told you that he liked you but has been ignoring you. You should start looking for someone who will be honest with you, unless he contacts you and apologizes. 
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by isas456 on 7/18/2012 3:46:18 PM

 
 



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Ok so this guy that ive liked for over a year now, and i were texting last night and out of the blue he says oh and btw i broke it off with my gf. Anyway, in the past he knew that i liked him and he told my friends that he wanted to ask me out but then his ex gf asked him out. And I'm trying to figure out the meaning behind him telling me that he broke up with his girl friend.... Because I don't want to get my hopes up. Hes so nice to me, but I don't think he understands how much i do like him. And I don't think i can tell him how much i actually do like him.... PLEASE HELP!!!!!




Hey girl, make sure you're takin' things slow with this guy. Because the last thing you wanna be is a rebound. So don't say anything about liking him until you know just how over his gf he really is. If they've already gone out twice, you could be in danger of getting his attention and then losing it immediately. Which is not gonna be fun. So just be patient and see how things go. 
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by ell08 on 7/18/2012 3:35:23 PM

 
 



MOD MOD! I have kind of a weird problem sometimes when I wanna do something like go out with my bf I don't like asking him if he wants to go somewhere with me I feel like he wouldn't want to he asked me out to dinner Saturday night and I haven't seen him since but I Wanna see him again I asked him to do something Sunday and he was going to but we were gonna leave soon and the weather was bad j just feel like I wanna see him alot more than he asks to hang out with me is this weird or should I ask him if he wants to hang out? Thanks mod




Hey babe, I used to have the same problem. But don't worry - chances are, he'd love to see you, too. There's no harm in asking. If he starts giving you excuses why he can't, then you'll know to back off a bit. But as long as you're not bugging him to hang with you every day, you shouldn't feel bad about wanting to see him. 
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by Colorful1 on 7/18/2012 1:58:22 PM

 
 



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I'll ask him...but Im scared of his response




You can do it, babe. Just remember - when you're asking, be polite and stay calm. You've gotta show him that you're mature and strong, so whining or crying isn't gonna help. If he says no after you've explained your reasons, ask him politely why not. If he starts getting annoyed, drop the subject for a while, and come up with a new plan based on his reasons why you can't go. Good luck! 
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by futurewriter16 on 7/18/2012 1:37:41 PM

 
 



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My parents are divorced....




Oh, sorry to hear that, hun. Okay well is there another adult that is close to your dad who could support you? If not, it's fine. Just ask your dad if he'll take you one day. As a practice run. If you can show him you're up for the challenge, he'll probably change his mind. 
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