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Ever get stuck, deer in headlights-style, when you wanna chat it up with your crush?  With a little practice, you’ll never worry about what to say to your cutie.  Check out these 9 examples to work your flirting magic and get your crush! 

 

1. “So, how about last night’s game?”  Keep up with your crush’s fave team and he’ll be totally impressed by your sports knowledge.

 

2. “You look really awesome in that color!” Next time you see your crush, try complimenting him on little things, like that cute haircut he just got or how he got an A on that really hard history test.  He’ll take it as a good thing coming from you.

 

3. “This totally reminded me of you….” Tell him something that made you think of him.  It’s casual enough but lets him know he’s on your mind.

 

4. “What was the homework in English?” Next time you have class with your crush, ask him about that math question you don’t understand.  Even better, if you missed class one day, call or talk to him in person about the material you missed in class. It’s an easy excuse to talk to your crush!

 

5. “Wanna sit here?” Maybe he’s too shy to chit-chat, but simply asking him to join in with your friends will make him feel comfortable around you and want to get to know you better. 

 

6. “Hey, what’s that song?” Next time he’s rockin' on his headphones, ask him what music he’s listening to. Ask to listen to see why he loves it so much (and it’s an excuse to get close to him!).  Try listening to some of his fave songs and artists afterwards for an instant convo next time.

 

7. “So, how was The Amazing Spider-Man?” Want to know a good movie to see? Try asking your crush! Ask him about what he thought of that new comedy movie or if the new action movie was way better. It’s an easy way to talk to your crush and you’ll have a good movie to see!

 

8. “Wanna go for a walk?” Do you see your crush around the neighborhood walking his dog?  Next time, ask if you and your dog could join in! Walking your dog can actually be fun with your crush beside you talking to you one-on-one.

 

9. “So you know my friend!” Is one of your BFFs already close friends with your crush or one of his friends? Ask her to introduce you to him and to see if all three want to hang out. You guys will get to know each other better and it won’t be as awkward with your best friend around. As you two get closer, try hanging out on your own with him.
 
 
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BY MAGGIE PERKINS AND HOLLAND BURKERT ON 7/11/2012 12:00:00 AM

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Okay so I've always been horrible at talking to guys! And I don't know how to flirt! Frown I just get so nervous and don't know what to say or do! I'm going into my freshman year at high school and I want to be able to talk to guys when I start school. Any tips?




Hey girl!

Instead of trying to "flirt" just try to talk. Try not to view every guy you see as a potential crush-- look at them like friends. That way, they'll get to know the true you.




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by toinfinityandbeyond on 8/14/2012 3:05:15 PM

 
 



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So last wednesday I was at an outdoor movie with my best friend at her church. I'm going to start going to her church every other weekend but at the movie I met a guy (We will call him P) and he is super nice and sweet. My friendCool and P are close friends. I only met him for 3hrs but I really like him. The problem is, H likes him too I found out afterward. She texted this guy(N) who is friends with P and N told H that P "likes your friend a little bit". But when H called P to ask him who he likes, he said you (meaning H) and quickly hung up. Who do I believe? Because a few weeks back H and P were on a mission trip together and he said he liked her. H suspected that he didn't like her anymore because of what N said. And also, what do I do if P likes me? I can't go out with him because that wouldn't be fair to H, right? Even if she were to tell me it was ok? Please help!

 

Hey chica! You're right- it would be mean to date a dude your friend had a crush on.  My advice is to leave this guy to your friend and find a new guy! xoxo 


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by minkymouse on 8/13/2012 3:45:52 PM

 
 

Okay so a coupe years ago there was a guy that really liked me (oh at the time he was my brothers best friend) I didn't like him that much but the more the more time I spent with him the more I liked him. Well I invited him to this thing the church I attend puts on for teens. Well, after that he seemed to like me more, but he left for high school and I haven't seen or talked to him since then. My cousin is best friends with him now and he told her that I scared him off. Well, tomorrow is my first day at high school and I'm kinda scared about who he else he told that to. I just done really know what to do. Do you think I really scared him off?

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by m&m2016 on 8/8/2012 2:38:48 PM

 
 

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i have a crush on this boy at my church i got confirmed with him and you have to take classes so we spent alot of time together. Well this week we are both counslers for vbs and he sits right in front of me so i talked to him today and pizza came up (haha idk why) i said our group should all go out for pizza because i like the people in our group and i looked at him and he smiled (the pizza was a joke because we had stuff to do) he looks at me alot too but im not positive he likes me help please!?!?
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Hey Girl--

Your story made me say "Awww." You sound like you're great at talking to him and taking initiative. Just get to know him better and hopefully he'll make a move to let you know you like him. 




good luck!!  
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by makmnm on 7/31/2012 4:14:33 PM

 
 

Ok I really need some advice here...So I'm dating the most amazing guy, we've been dating for 9 months, and I couldn't be happier, until I got into this musical. Well,I've kind of fallen for the boy that plays my opposite in the show. I don't know what to do, I'm so confused! But the show ends on Sunday and I'm afraid I'd never see him again. Help me please, girls!

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by fantabigail on 7/25/2012 6:05:49 PM

 
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