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Help! My BF caught me snooping through his phone


 
I have a hard time trusting my boyfriend. I have no reason not to, but I’m so paranoid since I’ve been burned before. I went through his phone the other day to see if he got any texts from his ex, who I really don’t like, and he caught me. I apologized and meant it, but I can tell he’s still upset. How can I rebuild the trust?
 
Hey girlie! You and your dude are in the same boat: you’re both bummed that the other person doesn’t trust you.  The only way to fix it is to show him that you trust him, which in turn will make him feel better.  Once he sees the change in your attitude, he will relax and start to trust you again.  As much as it stinks, that’s going to require a lot of waiting.
 
Can you just not trust him, no matter how hard you wish you could?  Try to fake it ‘til you make it!  If he’s friends with his ex and wants to hang out with her, take a deep breath and let him.  It’ll be hard at first, but after a little while, you’ll see that he can be trusted.  You might not like her, but no one can dictate who their BF or GF should be friends with. 
 
As for his ex, is your problem with her or with the fact that she dated your dude?  If it’s the latter, you’re going to have to figure out a way to handle ex-girlfriends: they are everywhere!  If you don’t like her for her own reasons, try and focusing on coexisting- you don’t have to get along with her, but you should be able to have a relationship with your BF without worrying about her all the time.
 
 

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. We are so perfect for each other. We have the same interests and we are so happy together. I never want to leave him.
But the thing is...he's moving 25 hours away. 1,590 miles away.
I don't know what to do. I don't wanna lose him, but I don't want to try a long-distance thing because I'm afraid someone will get hurt.
Please help me. I really need it.

 

Hey girlie,

Check out this article for some tips on the sitch: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/05/24/My-boyfriend-is-moving-across-the-country.aspx This isn't easy and I'm so sorry it's happening to you <3 If you're both committed to staying together though, it could totally work. You'd have to plan phone calls, Skype sessions, trips to visit each other, and other cute ways to stay in touch/communicate so neither of you feel like you're being "left out." But since you're hesitating and worrying about whether it would work or not, chances are you both have your doubts. Talk to him and see where his head is at. Like the article says, if you decide that being on your own and being "long distance friends" is better for you both, it's going to be sad but probably the best choice. Breakups are hard no matter what - especially when you both love each other. But you gotta choose the best, healthiest option for the both of you <3 If you love him, you'll want him to be happy! 


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by candycrush12 on 7/15/2012 2:06:28 AM

 
 



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So, my bf and I got back together after breaking up for 3 days. Well, he used to call me baby and stuff and now he is sad when we text, but not in person. He is all spacy when we text and he used to send me long sweet messages. He is afraid we will go back down the wrong path. I REALLY want him to know how much I love him and I care about him. What should I do to get him interested and to care?

 

Tell him! In your text messages ask him what is up and make him know you care about him. Honesty and communication is the best way to make a relationship last. Don't give up yet! xoxo kerra 


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by allisonwostn on 7/15/2012 12:06:04 AM

 
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