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The Real Deal: Is he just using you?


 
How do you know when a guy really likes a girl or is just "using" her? I'm fourteen now and I'm dating my crush since middle school. At first I felt like I scored because I finally got him. But now I'm just afraid he plans on "using" me like most teenage boys do in relationships.

 

His Answer: “Sometimes guys are insecure and don’t know how to show a girl that they really like her, so he may be nervous around you and not really know how to be in a relationship,” says Jack, 15. “But he could be using you if he pressures you into doing things you don’t want to do.” 

 

Decoded: It’s possible that you two just need to get to know each other better before you can get that cool relationship you want. What’s not cool? Feeling like he is pressuring you to do anything you’re not ready for. 

 

Your move: If he ever tries to make you do anything you’re not ready for, tell him you’re not okay with it. Your relationship is 50/50, you both should have an equal say in what happens. If he doesn’t respect that, dating him is so not worth it. Look for a cutie that is honest with you about why he likes you, and be honest with him too!
 

BY ANDREA CWIEKA ON 7/13/2012 12:00:00 AM

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So my step cousin (who I think of as a real cousin) and his friend (who I've never met) seem to be fighting over me. It's just a very odd situation and it makes me kind of uncomfortable. What do I do?

 

Hey girl! Tell your step cousin that you think of him as family and dating him would make things awkward for the fam.  As for the guy you've never met, unless you plan on getting to know him, just avoid talking about it.  If you meet him and like him, be careful.  It might make things awkward in for your cuz.  xoxo 

Kate G. Maggie P.

by atisa7 on 7/19/2012 10:57:35 AM

 
 

Some guys are just mean. They don't seem to know how much they can hurt someone.

by LovelyDays111 on 7/14/2012 11:06:57 PM

 
 

About a year ago, the guy that i have liked since about 3rd grade asked me out. So we go out for 6 months. Durning that time i thought that i had just won the lottery. Turns out durning that time 'boyfriend' was justa word. He still was with other girls, but just never called them girlfriend. I was so mad. He used me the whole time; asking questions about how to talk to girls, and what they like. It never came to my senses that it wasn't about me. Now were not friends but i think i made the wrong decision.

by TrueGirl14 on 7/14/2012 8:30:04 PM

 
 



mod mod mod
so me and my besties love going to the beach and would like it even more if we new what to say to the cuties we see. we r both natural flirts but we get tounge tied alot around guys. any idea what we could do or say? Thanks in advance.
-myth_lover

Hey girl, you could start by introducing yourself! Ask what grade they are in and what hobbies they like, and it will go from there. It's the same as talking to guys at school! But keep in mind that you might not see these guys again, and there's nothing wrong with having a girls day out!
Meghan D.

by myth_lover on 7/13/2012 10:19:26 PM

 
 



MOD MOD I'm Wondering if this is normal I have a new bf and we used to text almost every day and he would come over to my house and we'd go out and do stuff now I haven't seem him since Saturday and he hasn't texted me in a long time and the last time I texted him first. And he is just continually not talking to me. He Told me he loves me is this normal ? Or am I overreacting thanks Mod Smile

Hey girl, 

If you're having communication problems, you should talk to him about it! If he cares about you, he will want to talk to you about it. He might just be busy, but you need to talk it out if you want your relationship to last!
Meghan D.

by Colorful1 on 7/13/2012 9:08:43 PM

 
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