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Why do guys like girls who act stupid to get attention?


 

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Why do guys seem to only be into girls who wear skimpy clothes, flirt with every boy they see, and always act ditzy and constantly try to be the center of attention? I don't think I'm bad-looking, and my friends say that I'd be a great catch, but guys never notice me! What's wrong with girls who don't feel the need to always be in the limelight and act stupid to get attention?

 

His Answer: “Sometimes guys get distracted by how girls look, especially if they’re begging for attention in the middle of everyone,” says Jack, 15. “I know that most guys are looking for a girl they can actually talk to and have fun with.”

 

Decoded: Guys can get totally caught up with the crowd when everyone is paying attention to a particular girl, just like you and your girls might all be obsessed with the same hottie. But also like girls, guys want to hang with someone that has similar interests to them–and maybe that’s not the cutie you had your eye on, but someone totally unexpected! 

 

Your Move: Be yourself and don’t compare yourself to other girls. If a boy is interested in you for the right reasons, he will show it by having conversations with you and seeing your smarts instead of just your looks.  Stand out and be the smart and self-secure girl–it will definitely help you to get noticed. If you’re open to meeting people that like you for who you are, not just how flirty you can be, you will totes make some connections.   
 
 
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BY ANDREA CWIEKA ON 7/20/2012 12:00:00 AM

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So I'm looking for a good brand of bras that are high quality but not uncomfortable!
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Hey girl!

Victoria's Secret PINK and regular Victoria's Secret have very high quality bras that are super comfortable. 
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by snagmonkey on 7/20/2012 4:20:08 PM

 
 



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okay, so the other day i asked you guys about a friend situation where my 2 closest friends randomly stopped talking to me after we "hung out" for a night (one ditched, the other talked to people she knew but i didnt and never bothered to introduce) well anyways its been 2 weeks and i apologized and explained how i felt and stuff, and neither of these friends will talk to me anymore, and i just found out that one of them has blocked me from her phone and email and all that other stuff. and the other friend just wont talk to me. i dont really even know what i did to get the silent treatment. what should i do???

 

Hey girl, 

I am soo sorry to hear about the tough friend sitch - I bet it's frustrating and sad to not know why they're givin' ya the cold shoulder.  Is there another mutual friend that you can talk to that might have a clue about why they're upset?  If so, give that a shot  Otherwise, give it a little time and try again.  But if you know you didn't do anything, don't beat yourself up.  Find other friends/activities to keep you occupied.  True friends forgive and work things out, so if they are real buds things will work out.  Otherwise...well, it'll hurt, but at least you'll know where you stand and be opened up to finding true blue buds.  


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Well, I know that in this time of a girls' life you start you get underarm odor and you sweat more there, and I do a lot of dance, so I sweat a lot even with deodorant. I was wondering if you sweat less if you have less hairy armpits? Because I barely have any hair on my armpits, but if shaving would help, I could try it. Does shaving your armpits help with odor and/or sweat?




Hey girl!

I'm not really sure if hair makes your armpits more prone to sweating. But if I were you, I would find a deodorant that's really effective. Sometimes you have to try multiple kinds before you find the right fit. If none are working you can try one that's "clinical strength." If you're fine with the amount of armpit hair you have, then you can wait to start shaving until you have a lot of hair.  
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by WinnieGirlie on 7/20/2012 2:57:27 PM

 
 



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OK, so i dont have my period yet, but the past day and a half i have had spotty mild cramps/stomach discomfort and weird discharge- i have been having brown/ almost reddish discharge in high amounts, but it is almost like goopy! Do you think this is my period, or just a sign its coming, or something else!? I need to know soon and also im scared to tell my mom if it is my period...any suggestions on how to keep it like not awkward and/or how to bring it up? Thank you so much!




Hey girl!

This sounds like it definitely could be your period coming. As a precaution you could use pads or panty liners just to keep it from getting messy down there. Bringing up your period to your mom might be awkward, but she's your mom! That's what she's there for. Just go to her when no one else in your family is around and tell her you need to talk to her. Your mom is there to help you through it. Try and put aside your worries about it being awkward. Good luck! 
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by MorganLynn on 7/20/2012 1:40:40 PM

 
 



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So I desperately need some advice. I am also a quiet type girl and I don't show off or try to get attention. The problem is, there is this guy on my bus who has had a crush on me since freshmen year. But, he is actually really annoying and mean. I'm not trying to be rude but his way of getting my attention is for him to be nice to me one second and then be really rude the next. I know people joke around but he has said some hurtful things. He also bothers me when I talk to other guys. I asked him why he cares so much when I talk to other boys and he did admit it was because he was jealous. I really don't like this guy but I don't know how to set things straight. I have tried to be nice, i tried to ignore him, i tried to be mean. Nothing works to stop this guy. School is starting up soon and I don't wanna have to deal with him. What do you suggest? Thanks so so so much!!!!! xoxo

 

Hey cutie!

It's time to get some confidence and confront this annoying dude! If you don't tell him that he's bothering you, he might think you like it (in a weird kind of way). Express your feelings to him and tell him how you don't like him as more than a friend, but you're more than willing to be friends. With this said, tell him that he's got to stop the mean comments because they're pretty hurtful. I'm sure he'll realize how he's been affecting you and totally back off--especially if he really likes you. If you can't confront him yourself, ask a friend for help. Maybe the friend can tell him you've been a little bummed by some of the things he's been saying! 


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