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Why do guys seem to only be into girls who wear skimpy clothes, flirt with every boy they see, and always act ditzy and constantly try to be the center of attention? I don't think I'm bad-looking, and my friends say that I'd be a great catch, but guys never notice me! What's wrong with girls who don't feel the need to always be in the limelight and act stupid to get attention?

His Answer: “Sometimes guys get distracted by how girls look, especially if they’re begging for attention in the middle of everyone,” says Jack, 15. “I know that most guys are looking for a girl they can actually talk to and have fun with.”

Decoded: Guys can get totally caught up with the crowd when everyone is paying attention to a particular girl, just like you and your girls might all be obsessed with the same hottie. But also like girls, guys want to hang with someone that has similar interests to them–and maybe that’s not the cutie you had your eye on, but someone totally unexpected!

Your Move: Be yourself and don’t compare yourself to other girls. If a boy is interested in you for the right reasons, he will show it by having conversations with you and seeing your smarts instead of just your looks. Stand out and be the smart and self-secure girl–it will definitely help you to get noticed. If you’re open to meeting people that like you for who you are, not just how flirty you can be, you will totes make some connections.

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BY ANDREA CWIEKA ON 7/20/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, how to flirt, crush crash course, weird guy stuff, get his attention now

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I just found out NONE of my friends can come to my birthday party. Now normally having my birthday in late July I never have full turnout but no one? I feel really hurt and have no idea what I'm going to do instead! Any ideas?

Hey girl,

That stinks! But no worries, ask your closest friends when they'll be available and try finding a new date that fits in with the majority of everyone's schedules. Summer can be crazy, especially this time of year, so I wouldn't be too worried. They're not intentionally trying to hurt you .

Catherine C.

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by timekeeper on 7/20/2012 1:13:01 AM