SIGN UP
FORGOT MY PASSWORD
GUYS

How to deal with a bad kisser

MORE
  • GUYS MAIN
  • GET A BF
    • CRUSH MUCH?
    • ICE BREAKERS
  • DATING 101
    • DUDES DECODED
    • CUTE DATE IDEAS
    • SPLITSVILLE
  • ASK BILL & DAVE
  • DEAR CAROL
  • WHAT GUYS THINK
  • SWEETIE
  • MEANIE
ADVICE

My dad is sexually abusing me. How can I tell my mom?

MORE
  • ADVICE MAIN
  • IN THE NEWS
  • DEAR CAROL
  • FAMILY
  • FRIENDS
  • SCHOOL
  • TOUGH STUFF
  • ON THE JOB
    • GET STARTED
    • BABYSITTING
    • GOAL GETTER
    • DREAM JOB
  • DO GOOD
    • GET INSPIRED
    • TAKE ACTION
FUN STUFF

25 things to do before school lets out

MORE
  • FUN STUFF MAIN
  • STAR SIGNS
  • BLUSH MUCH?
  • SURVEY SAYS
  • CLUBS
  • ADVICE QUEENS
  • CRAFTS
  • RECIPES
  • CONTESTS
  • WINNERS
  • ROCK YOUR WEEKEND
  • YOU WROTE IT
ENTERTAINMENT

Tune up your summer concert wardrobe with these picks

MORE
  • ENTERTAINMENT MAIN
  • GOSSIP
  • STAR STYLE
  • GL EXCLUSIVES
  • EDITOR'S PICKS
  • BOOK CLUB
STYLE

Get gorgeous spring date night makeup

MORE
  • STYLE MAIN
  • FASHION
    • CUTE & CHEAP
    • STYLE 911
    • TRENDS WE HEART
  • BEAUTY
    • BEAUTY SPY
    • BEAUTY TRENDS
    • BEAUTY 911
    • HAIR STYLES
    • HAIR TIPS
    • SKINCARE
  • HOW TO
  • FAB UP YOUR LIFE
HEALTH & FITNESS

6 graphic tees to get ya movin'

MORE
  • HEALTH & FITNESS MAIN
  • WORKOUTS
  • RECIPES
  • EAT RIGHT
  • HEALTHY STUFF WE HEART
  • YOUR BOD
    • SKIN
    • HAIR
    • BOOBS
    • DOWN THERE
    • PERIODS, PERIOD
    • EVERYTHING ELSE
QUIZZES

Are you a 'fraidy cat?

MORE
MAG

Show some #GLcrew love, babes!

MORE
  • MAG MAIN
  • INSIDE THIS ISSUE
  • COVER SHOOT
  • BEHIND THE SCENES
  • BE IN THE MAG
  • EDITOR'S BLOG
  • OUR BOOKS
  • ABOUT US
VIDEO

Bella Thorne rocks WAT-AAH!'s Move Your Body Flash Mob

MORE
avatar

Allie S.

is modding

Caroline M.

is modding

avatar

Hannah M

is modding

Lynae P.

is modding

 
 
 

GL PROFILES

More Friends = More Fun

MY ACCOUNT

MY PROFILE

CREATE A PROFILE

 
 

GL
Tweets !

AN HOUR AGO Obsessed with fruity flavors or island creations? Whatever’s your go-to @Lip_Smacker’s gloss, tag it using #LipSmackerLove to win some more.

1 HOURS AGO Your fave summer outfits that your guy loves…and HATES: Click Here!

2 HOURS AGO The #ACUVUE1DAY contest could make your dreams come true! Win a day of coaching from your favorite celeb: Click Here!

 
 
 
Girl's Life Newsletters

sponsored links

GUYS | WHAT GUYS THINK

15 Comments | Add Yours

Is it ever OK to make a move on your ex's best bud?


 

Check these out, too...

  • Do long distance relationships work?
  • What he really thinks of your fave summer outfit
  • How to deal with a bad kisser
My BF and I broke up two months ago. Now I really wanted to go out with his best bud. But now the guy I'm crushing on is so sweet he knows my ex still likes me and doesn't want to date. But I want to date him bad!!! What do I do?

 

His Answer: “I would just try to get closer to him before actually trying to get him because the guy obviously wants to give his friend/ your ex time to recover from the break up. Eventually, your ex will get over it and you can try to get with his friend,” says Willi S., 16.

 

Decoded: Your ex needs time to move on, and your ex’s best bud is just being there for him. He’s doing the right thing and not dating his best friend’s ex! Maybe once your ex moves on, you can go for his best friend.

 

Your Move: Your ex’s best bud, is, well, doing what best buds do! Become friends with your ex’s friend first. Give everyone more time. Talk with your ex’s best friend, or even with your ex to figure out what’s going on and how he’s feeling. Once things seem better, like when your ex is over you, that is the time to go for the other guy! But beware—this situation can get messy. Don’t try to pull your ex and his best friend apart. Be sure to wait long enough—how would you feel if your best friend dated your ex right after you two broke up?
 
 
Loved this post? You’ll heart these, too!

» Crushin’? What to say to your cutie right now

» Your sweetest summer love moments ever

» Why, guy?! Real dudes answer your Qs

 

WIN BIG! Score a pile of sizzlin' summer beach reads

Want more ways to get GL? Like us on Facebook or follow us on Twitter, Pinterest and Tumblr!

BY MARY PERKINS ON 7/27/2012 11:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, crush crash course, dealing with a breakup, ex boyfriend Q & A

< PREVIOUS   NEXT >   

Previous1234NextShow All
15 Comments | Add Yours
SORT: OLDEST FIRST | NEWEST FIRST
 

I would look at it this way. What if you broke up with your BF, and really liked him still, and then he went out with your bestie. How would YOU feel? Kinda betrayed, right? Just my way of looking at it.

report

by WinnieGirlie on 7/27/2012 7:52:12 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!
When do you usually "meet the parents"? Is it 6 months, a year? Longer?




Hey girl!

Every situation is different. Since you're young and still living at home, you might be at your BF's house hanging out. Most likely, his parents will be home, so you're bound to meet them before 6 months. But really, it should be whenever you and your BF are comfortable with it. "Meeting the parents" doesn't always have to mean having dinner with them. It could simply be saying hello to them. 
Rachael A.

report

by liv.laugh.love on 7/27/2012 3:35:39 PM

 
 

so you have a ton of junk lying around your house and nothing to do with it. Plus you want some new jewelry without spending a ton. What do you do? Join my club and find out how to turn ordinary stuff around your house into funky and creative stuff! The club is called DIY Green!

report

by kpianoplayer on 7/27/2012 2:40:06 PM

 
 



Mod mod mod! I have a pool party ina week that i cant miss. What links or tips help me loose 10 pounds and inner thigh and belly fat as soon as possible? And tone up all over? Thanks!!!




Hey girl!

It's not healthy to try and lose 10 pounds in one week. But this week leading up to the party you can do exercises to tone up and help you just feel better about your body. First, you need to eat a well-rounded diet and drink lots of water! Here's a link to our post on great ab workouts: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/07/03/Totally-Ab-sessed-Your-favorite-six-pack-workouts.aspx

And here's a post on a 30 minute tone up challenge: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/06/13/Tone-up-with-this-30-minute-challenge.aspx 
Rachael A.

report

by Sunny4132 on 7/27/2012 1:40:50 PM

 
 

Hey girl!

It's really admirable that you are standing by your feelings and beliefs, no matter what your brother says. You have the support of your parents, so who cares if your brother gives you a little heat for it? You should always do what makes you happy, so if being with this guy will make you happy, be with him! And if your brother has something to say about it, ignore him. If you keep ignoring him, he'll probably let it go and leave you alone. Good luck!
Rachael A.

report

by j4zm09 on 7/27/2012 1:15:34 PM

 
Previous1234NextShow All
You must be signed in to post a comment. SIGN IN or REGISTER

ADD A COMMENT


 

 

 

  • RENEW
  • SUBSCRIBE
  • GIVE A GIFT
  • DIGITAL EDITIONS
  • ACCOUNT STATUS
 
Got beautiful weather? You're spending spring's sunny days...



 
 
WIN
TODAY
GRAND
PRIZE
GIVEAWAY
CALENDAR
Strawberry Cheesecake

Flavor: Get the perfect mix of fresh fruit and creamy cake with this delish gloss.

Fab Fact: First introduced in 1999, this fave flave was brought back in 2010 by popular demand.

Are you and your guy meant to be? Select your sign first then his to find out if the stars see love in your future!
YOU
YOUR CRUSH

Be a GL Buzz Babe!

 
Exclusive deals. Instant updates. Special surveys. Free swag to try, share and review. Sound amazing? Welcome to GL Buzz Babes.
CLICK HERE to join!
 
Posts From Our Friends

sponsored links

  • About Us
  • Advertise
  • Privacy
  • Terms & Conditions
  • Home
  • Free Newsletters
  • Subscribe
  • Give a Gift
  • Renew

  • Model for GL
  • Pay Bill
  • Questions?
  • Contact Us
  • © 2013 Girls' Life Acquisition Co. All Rights Reserved.