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4 sneaky ways to flirt like it's your job


 
If you want to find an excuse to talk to a boy you’ve got your eye on, keep it simple! Using small talk will make you AND him more comfortable. Here, you’ll have a chance to talk to him in his comfort zone, making it easier for him to chat with you. And remember: be casual!
 
See a cutie working at the grocery store? Go up to him and ask him to show you where the cake batters are. If he escorts you to an aisle, you can even ask him for his recommendation. This way he’ll be forced to have a convo’ with you, and he’ll notice that you like to bake. Bingo!
 
Keep eyeing the lifeguard at the pool? When you notice he’s on a break, find him and ask if the pool has any job openings. Even if you’re not looking to be a lifeguard, he’ll see that you’re interested (in the pool, and him).
 
For the attractive store clerk at a clothing store, ask him to help you pick out an outfit for an upcoming event. It’s his job to know fashion, so you can trust him with what he picks out. You can tell him your style so he gets just the right outfit for you. Easy and flirty!
 
Out to dinner and your waiter is a total babe? Ask him what the specials are, and what he suggests. Keep the conversation up by asking what his favorite thing on the menu is. Order some dessert to keep bringing him back to your table. Don’t forget to leave a good tip!
 
 

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how can i get a nice boyfriend iv'e never had one and im going in to sixth grade and i want a boyfriend bad !

by animal lover 2012 on 8/11/2012 9:58:36 AM

 
 

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So this week I met a guy at my school's band camp and I reallllyyyyy like him! He's super nice and doesn't care what people look like and he's only a year older than me! The only bad thing is I have no idea how to flirt with him! I can talk to him normally but I'm afraid to flirt with him, what should I do? Thanks so much! Smile

Hey girl,

He sounds like a great guy! If he's super nice, you don't have to be "flirty" -- just talk to him in a regular conversation! He'll sense that you're into him and what he has to say, and things will go from there!

Meghan D.

by jellybean1998 on 8/11/2012 12:29:15 AM

 
 



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okay so i met this guy and he's gonna be a junior and i'll be a freshman. we've never really talked too much but i constantly catch him staring at me when we're with each other. how should i approach him and start a conversation when we see each other again?? thanksSmile

 

Hey girl!

Since you'll be a freshman, you can totally ask him questions about teachers, classes, anything that he knows about since he's a junior. It's the perfect conversation starter and there's no pressure on either of you. And if he tells you he aced that math class you're  going to take, tell him he can be your tutor! Perfect! 


Rachael A.

by bballchicky11 on 8/10/2012 2:43:07 PM

 
 



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It seems like the only guys who ever like me are the super nerdy guys. I'm not popular or anything, but I'm feminine and people say I'm pretty (although I strongly disagree), and most people would describe me as "nice" and funny. I'm not into nerdy guys, and I think the only reason they like me is because I'm in their advanced classes. I act confident and try to be friendly, but no cute guys ever take notice of me "like that."
Would you say that's because people are lying when they say I'm pretty or another reason? Any tips on attracing "normal" guys' attention?
Thanks for your advice Smile




Hey girlie,

There's no reason for those people to lie to you about how you look - they don't owe you anything! But the fact that you're judging yourself based on how they see you (instead of how you feel inside) means you're not all the way to confident yet. Try not to focus so much on the guys you're attracting, who likes you, how many guys like you, etc. Instead, focus on yourself - join a club or sport, pick up some new hobbies, work hard at school, and have fun with your friends. Get to know yourself and try to LOVE yourself. I know it sounds sooo cliche, but the only way for guys (normal or not) to see you for who you are is to actually open up and feel comfy with being yourself!

(Pssst: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/01/25/www.girlslife.com/post/2010/07/15/Six-Reasons-Nerds-Rock.aspx)
Lauren C.

by jewels96 on 8/9/2012 9:55:07 PM

 
 



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Im a freshman this year, and me and this senior started talking over the summer. I had gotten his number from a friend and started texting him and we clicked pretty fast. I've been to so many advice sites about whether or not it's ok for a freshman to date a senior (he has said he likes me, not once been rude, and called me beautiful) but I still don't know. Ive known him for a while because his family goes to my church and he's in my youth group. He's super nice to me and he's never even had a girlfriend before! I'm just really at war with myself on this one...

 

Hey girl!

There's definitely pros and cons to dating someone four years older than you. He could be ready for things that you're just not ready for. A lot happens between your freshman year and senior year. Your friends and his friends could be a little wary at first about it. It sounds like he treats you really well and has pretty strong feelings for you, which is great. Soon, he may start applying to college and getting ready for a new phase of his life--one which you'll have trouble understanding since you're not quite there yet. But at the same time, you can't ignore your feelings for him. My best advice is to follow your heart. You don't want to have any regrets! 


Rachael A.

by Lali227 on 8/6/2012 7:37:43 AM

 
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