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Help! I cheated on my boyfriend--but I still love him!


 

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I cheated on my BF. I don't know what to do and I love him. I'm am soooo sorry. Please help.

 

Hey girl! That’s a tough one. Cheating is always super hard on both ends of any relationship. The first step is to confess. Yes, I know you might not have wanted to hear that, but telling the truth is the best way to go. He’ll be upset and that’s nothing you can avoid, but deep down he has to appreciate your honesty. Apologizing is a given, and you need to make sure he knows how much you care about him. Whatever you do, DON’T get into details. This will give your BF a clearer image of you with another guy and will only make him angrier.

 

You have to realize that he may not forgive you—and you’ll have to accept that. Give him time (and space!) to figure out his feelings on the situation. If you two are meant to be, hopefully he’ll realize that and find a way to forgive you. If he can’t let it go, find a way to be friends. Most likely he won’t hold a grudge forever and you two can eventually have a normal, friendly relationship.
 
 
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BY CATHERINE CROZIER ON 7/29/2012 12:00:00 AM

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Mod mod mod , SO my Bestfriend at the moment and i dated for a year and a half last year but i broke up wih him because he flirted too much with other girls , now a days he says he likes me still and flirts with me secretly but we dont flirt in public im not shure why its almost like hes embarrsed by me!i REALLY like him but hes cheated and theres so many prettyer girls them me and im afraid he wont like me cause im ugly , somtimes he says he loves me but he never shows it in public what do i do or say to him?

 

Hey Mozilla10, I think you should take some time before getting back to him. It sounds like you're insecure and you need some confidence girly. You can't expect someone else to like you if you don't like yourself. So start appreciating you. Making a list of all the things you like about yourself (include between 10 and 20 things) and reciting it back to yourself everyday may help you. This list can include any and everything. Things also sound a little too complicated with him, so it might be best to move on to someone else. Hope this helps! Xoxo


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by mozilla10 on 12/28/2012 12:11:14 PM

 
 



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I have a long distance boyfriend, he lives 2 hours away. But he texts all the time and gets offended when I don't use 2 smiley faces in every text. He also says he loves me and I think we're too young to be saying that! How to I tell him to back off a little? Should I break things off completely?




Hey chica,

Long distance relationships are definitely tough, and it's okay to feel like things are a bit to serious. You don't have to break it off completely, but you definitely need to talk to him about how you feel. Talking things out will help you to more easily set up guidelines for what you do and don't feel comfortable about. 

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by bizzlebabe on 8/30/2012 1:15:14 AM

 
 

i kno how you feel. i too hav cheated on my BF, even though i still love him. it happened on a cruise and it still haunts me i want to tell him, but im afraid cuz he gets super jealous. is there anyway i can tell him gently? what should i do?

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by kayscout on 8/10/2012 4:17:03 PM

 
 

Cheating is never good but it happens, sometimes because we want it to and sometimes because things get out of control because of attraction. Just say how sorry you are and it will never happen again. He may feel bad if you did more than kiss like go beyond first base. And if you went all the way with the other guy chances are if your bf knows your relationship with him may be over. Hope it works out for you.

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by fashionqn on 8/2/2012 3:15:17 PM

 
 



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Hey girlie! There's still a chance, and not only that, but once things start coming off, it's hard to draw the line and keep from things going too far.  If I were you, I would hold off and wait.  Unfortunately, some things can still get through thin fabric, and even though the risk isn't high, it's there.  xoxo 
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by gleek97 on 8/2/2012 1:51:01 AM

 
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