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Help! I cheated on my boyfriend--but I still love him!


 
I cheated on my BF. I don't know what to do and I love him. I'm am soooo sorry. Please help.

 

Hey girl! That’s a tough one. Cheating is always super hard on both ends of any relationship. The first step is to confess. Yes, I know you might not have wanted to hear that, but telling the truth is the best way to go. He’ll be upset and that’s nothing you can avoid, but deep down he has to appreciate your honesty. Apologizing is a given, and you need to make sure he knows how much you care about him. Whatever you do, DON’T get into details. This will give your BF a clearer image of you with another guy and will only make him angrier.

 

You have to realize that he may not forgive you—and you’ll have to accept that. Give him time (and space!) to figure out his feelings on the situation. If you two are meant to be, hopefully he’ll realize that and find a way to forgive you. If he can’t let it go, find a way to be friends. Most likely he won’t hold a grudge forever and you two can eventually have a normal, friendly relationship.
 

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If you really still care about someone you wouldn't want to do that to them. You wouldn't want to hurt them like that. To me this seems like a situation where a girl is trying out different guys and just preferred one over the other.

by marissa13_3 on 7/30/2012 10:15:24 AM

 
 



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Is it ever ok to crush on your step-brother's best friend?




Hey girl!

Of course it's OK, but your step-brother might not think so. That's a tough situation because your step-brother would probably feel uncomfortable with the fact that you are crushing on his friend. You have loyalty to your step-brother, but you also can't make your feelings for his friend disappear in an instant. Maybe you can start hanging out with them a little more and see where it goes. If your step-brother embraces you hanging out with them, maybe he'd be OK with the crush. But if he's hesitant, it's probably best to back off and find some boys who are more available without the trouble of upsetting your step-brother. 
Rachael A.

by whycantibeaninjaturtletoo on 7/30/2012 2:18:17 AM

 
 



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Hi, I am worried about making new friends next year. I am going into 6th grade, and I'm scared no one will like me. How can I make a first impression? A good one!




Hey girl!

The best way to make a good impression is to show everyone around you that you have confidence! High self-esteem and confidence are qualities that make people really want to get to know you. So wear your favorite outfit and work it like you've walked down those middle school halls a million times! Don't be scared no one will like you. Just be yourself and be open to people and soon enough you'll have a group of awesome new friends. 
Rachael A.

by WinnieGirlie on 7/30/2012 1:40:17 AM

 
 

hey guys, don't be so hard on her. everyone makes mistakes, even with the people they love.

by AnnaKay98 on 7/30/2012 12:34:24 AM

 
 



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Okay, my boyfriend moved to Illinois. We broke up, but we're still really, really, super close. Like seriously, we have become like best friends. We talked for 2 1/2 hours last night. It was amazing <3 I missed talking to him while he drove 2,000 miles away.
Anyway, he told me that when he comes back next year, that we're going to be together. He even said he wanted to marry me <3 We are still in love, and anyone can tell. But now he's talking about other girls that still live here. He told me that he liked my best friend! Should I be concerned? Even though he still says "I love you baby and I'll never, ever stop?" Help!




Hey girlie,

This is tough, because no one can guarantee you'll both still feel the same next year when he gets home. If him liking other girls bothers you, be open about it and tell him you're worried you won't be able to trust him when he gets back if this stuff is happening now. Be honest about how you're feeling! It's a sticky situation since you're not technically together, but since he has plans for getting back together, he might want to make sure he doesn't go too crazy while he's single so he doesn't scare you off. On the flip side, try to remember you DID break up. It doesn't feel good at all, but you're both single - so you're allowed to talk to other people right now. Then next year, if you love him and he comes back, you can pick up where you left off. But don't forget YOU are allowed to talk to other people too - sometimes that helps get your mind off him and lets you live in the moment! <3
Lauren C.

by candycrush12 on 7/29/2012 11:59:11 PM

 
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