BFF’s boyfriend creeps me out. When-ever the three of us hang out together, he
stares at my chest. And once, when my best friend left the room, he asked me,
“Can I just sit and look at you forever?” It was really weird, so I didn’t tell
my best friend. But eventually I’m afraid he might try to kiss me or something.
I don’t want to hurt my friend. What should I do?
Bill: You’re totally right to be creeped out. But I’m not
sure keeping silent about it is the best thing. After all, wouldn’t you want to
know if your BF were acting this way? I recommend a three-step approach: 1)
Tell him, firmly, to keep his opinions and glares to himself, making it very
clear to him that his behavior is inappropriate. 2) If he persists, tell your
BFF what’s been going on. 3) If he still persists, tell a parent or teacher.
Being treated disrespectfully should never be tolerated, no matter who the guy
Dave: It doesn’t matter that it’s
your BFF’s BF. He’s a CG (Creepy Guy), and you should take Bill’s advice not to
put up with his crude stares and comments. Your BFF might not like what she
hears but, in the end, she should appreciate hearing the truth about her
misplaced affection. If she’s a true friend, she’ll respect you for being
honest with her—that final F in BFF ain’t for nuthin’.
BY BILL AND DAVE ON 1/20/2014 12:00:00 AM
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